You know what they say, “Never judge a book by its cover.” And boy, do we have a list of books for you! You see, it’s easy to assume that some things are simple, only to find out they require more skills, knowledge, and expertise than we initially thought. If you’re a graphic designer or manage any creative project, you’ll surely be all too familiar with clients asking for “something quick,” which turns out to be time-consuming.
Take cooking, for example. It may seem like a simple task when you do it at home without high expectations about the result, but it’s a lot more complex when you’re a chef and people pay you for quality food. It requires knowledge of ingredient substitutions, cooking techniques, leadership, food safety, and the ability to multitask and manage time effectively in the kitchen. Similarly, public speaking may appear easy if you’re naturally confident and charismatic. Still, it requires a great deal of practice and preparation to create an engaging speech that stays coherent from start to finish.
Brace yourself — it’s time to burst that bubble of deception and assumptions! We’ve collected a series of examples from an AskReddit thread where people shared their struggles with tasks that seemed easy but were harder than they looked. The list includes a variety of difficult tasks, from playing instruments to professional activities, that demonstrate how the perception of difficulty can be highly subjective.
#21
"Marriage. I think many people believe that they will be romantically in love with the person they are marrying. In many ways you do but most with long successful marriages will tell you it takes work to make a marriage last a lifetime. That level of commitment is hard to maintain.
The rewards are enormous and you'll never be closer to another human if you're doing it right My wife and I just celebrated our 40th and we've known each other for more than 45 years. Planning on being together till end."
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34points
#22
"Letting go.
No, you won't just switch it off. You won't just stop it when you want. You won't stop craving for it. You won't stop missing it. You'll always get yourself almost back to it because you've made a habit to do it so many times daily that your brain hardly ever registers when you're consciously with it."
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27points
#23
spicyfriednoodles wrote:
"Life after university graduation. People always say that they can't wait to graduate but little did they know it's just gonna be an uphill battle from there."
"Life after university graduation. People always say that they can't wait to graduate but little did they know it's just gonna be an uphill battle from there."
hypodopaminergicbaby replied:
"Hardest time I’ve ever had getting a job, now that I actually have time for one."
"Hardest time I’ve ever had getting a job, now that I actually have time for one."
paco987654 added:
"Honestly I didn't expect a downhill battle but I kind of hoped for an even field."
"Honestly I didn't expect a downhill battle but I kind of hoped for an even field."
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26points
#24

"Self-care, for some reason. I don't know why, but when people talk about it, it sounds so simple. Then doing it is like... could include changing habits that have been a part of your life for a very, very long time."
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23points
#25
"Gardening. It isn't just water it and you're good; its constant attention, care and maintenance! It's really a lot of work if you have a decent size garden but IMO well worth it once you're eating what you grew."
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22points
#26
goldengirlsmom wrote:
"Finding a career you’ll want to go to every day that won’t crush your soul. Remember when you were young and teachers told you that you could be whatever you wanted to be... yeah, not so realistic when you want to pay bills and maybe have a little beer money too. I didn’t go to college and struggle with the thought of not being able to have a lateral career move without a degree, but then I see my friends absolutely floundering with their student loan payments and think maybe I don’t have it so bad after all."
"Finding a career you’ll want to go to every day that won’t crush your soul. Remember when you were young and teachers told you that you could be whatever you wanted to be... yeah, not so realistic when you want to pay bills and maybe have a little beer money too. I didn’t go to college and struggle with the thought of not being able to have a lateral career move without a degree, but then I see my friends absolutely floundering with their student loan payments and think maybe I don’t have it so bad after all."
MacbookPrime replied:
"I went to college, grad school, got a PhD and work in a senior role at a highly coveted company.
"I went to college, grad school, got a PhD and work in a senior role at a highly coveted company.
I still don’t feel happy.
The one thing I’ve learned after all these years is that happiness is not defined by title or company affiliation or number of letters after your name. My resume won’t be on my tombstone. But in many ways, I’m stuck because of the responsibilities I have now and all the people in my family and my profession I’m accountable to.
I feel like I’ll always be in the pursuit of happiness, rather than enjoying the moment I’m living in."
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21points
#27
"Dancing. I wouldn't say it looks "easy", but when I see people do it, they're so good at it and it flows so well it looks easy. But damn, I just CANNOT get my body to do anything more than a bop and maybe some stupid arm moves.
I'm 25 and dance like a 50 year old at a reunion.
Dancers are so delicate and make it look so easy, it's honestly amazing. It's just hilarious when I try to do literally anything and fail horribly."
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20points
#28
"Coding.
Watching tutorial: Oh, this is easy.
Writing code: "WHERE IS THE MISSING SEMICOLON? WHERE?""
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20points
#29
"Work. I'm a lawyer and had a client call saying she needs a help with a merger, but "don't worry, it's super easy peasy lemon squeezy."
That project took 6 months and I almost had a breakdown. She didn't understand why the bill was so high since it wAs SO eAsY..."
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19points
#30
"Science.
There’s a huge difference between being a scientist and being a fan of science. Both are important, but they aren’t the same. A lot of people take a science class or start following a science based Facebook/Twitter/subreddit and only see the successes.
Science is a critical thought heavy endeavor that requires equal parts patience, smarts, and luck. As a researcher doing basic science you’re going to have >90% negative data. For every scientific publication you see, there are months or even years of negative data behind it.
The stuff that science fans and cheerleaders share on Facebook from pages is distilled from the frustrations and efforts of scientists that probably drink heavily."
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19points
#33
"Sleeping. So envious of people being able to sleep any time and any where."
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18points
#34

"Changing a headlight for a newer chevy. It involves the bumper and stuff. I miss twist and pull."
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18points
#35
"Riding horses. Like, more than just a trail ride. People who have been doing it for a long time make it look so effortless, but it's such a workout. Also you have to be strong and unmoving with half your body parts but loose and fluidly moving with the other half of them."
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18points
#36
NoobSov wrote:
"Being in your 20's. As a clueless kid I thought by now I'd have everything figured out and my life on track. I'm still clueless but now I also have depression."
"Being in your 20's. As a clueless kid I thought by now I'd have everything figured out and my life on track. I'm still clueless but now I also have depression."
The_Highest_Five replied:
"In my 30s. Still clueless."
"In my 30s. Still clueless."
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17points
#37

"Playing an instrument. Have played most percussion instruments, trumpet, some baritone, and was 1st chair tuba/sousaphone for 4 years and difficulty varies based on instrument and physical attributes."
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17points
#39
"Waiting tables.
I know you think anyone could do that job. But it's seriously more difficult than anyone could imagine to do it well.
Career waiters could very easily work for the CIA. They have an uncanny ability to read people and an almost psychic ability to anticipate requests.
When it's done poorly its obvious. But a good waiter knows what you were going to ask for and they hand it to you before you've thought to ask.
If waiters worked for wages instead of tips you'd be paying the good ones close to 75k a year to put up with your bullsh*t."
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17points



