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People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
CuriositiesJAN 16, 2023

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them

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You know what they say, “Never judge a book by its cover.” And boy, do we have a list of books for you! You see, it’s easy to assume that some things are simple, only to find out they require more skills, knowledge, and expertise than we initially thought. If you’re a graphic designer or manage any creative project, you’ll surely be all too familiar with clients asking for “something quick,” which turns out to be time-consuming.
Take cooking, for example. It may seem like a simple task when you do it at home without high expectations about the result, but it’s a lot more complex when you’re a chef and people pay you for quality food. It requires knowledge of ingredient substitutions, cooking techniques, leadership, food safety, and the ability to multitask and manage time effectively in the kitchen. Similarly, public speaking may appear easy if you’re naturally confident and charismatic. Still, it requires a great deal of practice and preparation to create an engaging speech that stays coherent from start to finish.
Brace yourself — it’s time to burst that bubble of deception and assumptions! We’ve collected a series of examples from an AskReddit thread where people shared their struggles with tasks that seemed easy but were harder than they looked. The list includes a variety of difficult tasks, from playing instruments to professional activities, that demonstrate how the perception of difficulty can be highly subjective.

#1

endableismwrote:
"Doing anything when you have depression."
Kumquatprincess replied:
"I second this. Seriously ANYTHING."
82points

#2

Mr_A wrote:
"Apparently figuring out what the opposite of 'easy peasy lemon squeezy' would be."
venicerocco replied:
"The correct answer is:
Stressed depressed, lemon zest.
Thank you."
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79points

#3

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
"Making friends as an adult (not in school). People today don’t say hello, they no-show to invites, and generally seem to have no interest in building friendships. Try moving and making new friends, especially if you don’t have kids. It is ridiculously hard."
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73points

#4

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
"Saving money when you are poor.
It sucks to work your ass off for a month to only be 50-100 bucks richer at the end of that month and then see 4-6 months of savings go away when your car breaks down."
71points

#5

"Actually doing things. In theory it’s simple. Just do the thing. In reality I procrastinate until I hate myself."
63points

#6

"Losing weight. Changing habits is HARD!"
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62points

#7

"Folding fitted sheets. I've watched instructional videos that make it look so easy but I always just end up with a crumpled up mess, and that's how it gets put away."
58points

#8

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
"Creating a routine is the easy part - actually following through and maintaining that routine is the problem."
53points

#9

"I use a wheelchair and people usually don't believe me when I say that getting around can be difficult, because many of them think that pushing a wheelchair is easy. (They literally tell me this.)
The thing is when you use a wheelchair all day and it is basically your only means of transportation, it looks more natural.
This becomes a problem when I point out accessibility problems. They often don't believe me because they see how I can navigate and assume that it's easy – just because *I* make it look easy."
51points

#10

"Socializing with people. I have severe social anxiety, and even small interactions with strangers, and even some people I’ve known for a while are really hard for me. I don’t hate people or dislike being around them, but I’m just awful at keeping conversations going or initiating them. Outgoing people make it look very easy, for me it is not."
51points

#11

"Rehab and sobriety. I always thought It'd be easy but the first week was hell. I went in for alcoholism and I couldn't bathe my self I was so sick those first few days. The next 7 weeks were basically training myself in self control and how to accept my addiction. I'm 1 year and 7 months clean and out of the 20 people I met in the program, 10 relapsed, and 2 of the relapses were fatal overdoses."
51points

#12

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
"Holding a flashlight for your dad."
48points

#13

LaylaTheLoofa wrote:
"Making decisions."
MummaGoose replied:
"As a single mum I resent having to make all the “simple” choices. Like what do we eat for dinner. Grr. Someone else decide for once."
45points

#14

"Having fun at a party. How does everyone else have such a good time? I just find them depressing and annoying."
44points

#15

EvilS100 wrote:
"Plugging in the USB on the first try."
myVisionIsAugment3d replied:
"Here is a lifehack for you, if the socket is horizontal, the USB logo in the plug stays on top."
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41points

#16

KayGlo wrote:
"Drawing something from memory. Like a bird or something.
In mind - yep that's a bird.
On paper - that's... a bird?"
notLOL replied:
"Draws squiggly lines far away in the horizon. Birds."
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40points

#17

"Being a good dad, sh*t is tough. I have a 18month old daughter and my wife is expecting. I get up for work and 12 hours later I’m back at home and almost as soon as I walk through the door, I’m on dad duty.
Trying to entertain my daughter, give my wife some time to relax, sort out dinner, clean the house. All these things need to be done and time to do them doesn’t exist!
Then there’s Tim to exercise (which I haven’t) spend quality time with the wife and then hobby’s (I’m a gamer)
It’s a thankless job at time but man if my daughters hugs don’t just melt me every time.
The real heroes are the single parents and those with kids with disabilities, you have strength beyond comprehension."
40points

#18

People Online Shared Things That Are Harder Than They Seem, Here Are 90 Of Them
"Being an adult. They never had to do homework, could stay up late, eat what they wanted and had the money.
I wish I was a naive kid again."
39points

#19

"Teaching preschool or kindergarten.
Preschool and kindergarten teachers are SAINTS and the most professionally proficient of all teachers IMO. It is an extremely difficult and in some ways dangerous job."
38points

#20

"Self discipline is the single hardest skill to master in this world that makes it so easy to just... not..."
37points
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