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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
Relationships,WorkMAR 20, 2024

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials

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Whether you’re the oldest or youngest person in your workplace, there’s a good chance you’ve noticed some generational gaps between you and your colleagues. You might have been at the company for decades, meanwhile your desk mate just graduated from university last week. Your employees might use lingo that you don't understand, and they might be incapable of relating to conversations about buying a home, having children and remembering what the world was like during the 90s.
After having a few funny encounters with younger team members, one Gen Xer reached out on Reddit asking others to share their own experiences working with millennials and zoomers. Below, you’ll find some of their funniest and most frustrating stories, and keep reading to find a conversation with Tom Brunskill, CEO and co-founder of Forage!

#1

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
We have a Gen Z administrative assistant for a team of Gen-X cops who work Internet Crimes Against Children (among other things). For a while she was in a near perpetual state of shock between the cases we work and just us in general.
Seeing her wander around with a VHS tape trying to figure out what it was was one of the most hilarious things that has happened at work.
She's onboard now, loves us, we got her to perfect her eye roll, say "whatever" with the proper inflection and become very liberal with the middle finger. We may have been a bit too successful with the Gen X conversion therapy.
153points

#2

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
This is not true of most of the under-30 crowd; I've worked with plenty of great kids. However, in the last eight years, I've had to train several young adults who just cannot take direction without assuming you're trying to change them on some fundamental level.
I've been in supervisory and training positions for 25 years and had never heard someone tell me, 'I don't like doing it that way,' and when I tell them they have to, they accuse me of trying to make them do things my way.
"It ain't my way, kid, it's the way it's done here, it's the way I was also taught to do it. It's as if they have no concept that work isn't free time and that they're a part of a team (or what being part of a team even means). It blows my mind, and I still haven't figured out a way to train these kids. They often end up feeling oppressed and out of place and end up leaving or just getting fired for not learning how to do work.
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104points

#3

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I've noticed that any level of directness is often perceived as a personal attack and the height of aggression. No, I'm just not bulls**tting you, out of basic human respect.
98points

To learn more about what it's like to work with the younger generations, we reached out to Tom Brunskill, CEO and co-founder of Forage, an online platform that allows students to participate in job simulations and become up to 2.6 times more employable. Tom was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and share some of the generational gaps that might appear when younger individuals works with older colleagues.

"When Gen Xers, millennials, and Gen Zers are working together, you might see differences in work habits like working hours, communication styles, attitudes about work, and work environment preferences," Tom says.

"Gen Z tends to be the most non-traditional when it comes to different work habits: this generation is more likely to want to communicate via messaging platforms like Slack versus phone calls; they're more likely to opt to use tech to make their work-life more efficient; they tend to want to set strong boundaries between work and life; they often see work as part of their life and something to balance with personal priorities," he explained.

#4

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I had a millennial look me in the eye and say, "You're not my dad!" I laughed so hard I almost vomited. The worst thing a kid said to me was, "I did the best I can!". I told him that if that's the best you can do then you have to leave.
90points

#5

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
My favorite moment is when I mentioned that I had a certain song on 45 and then had to explain about 45s, LPs, etc. A group of millies gathered around me. All we needed was a campfire.
88points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
The topic of Y2K bug came up. My team wasn’t even born. 
86points

"Gen X is not as traditional as their 'Boomer' counterparts, but much of their work life revolved around workplace norms like long hours and work-over-life balance, especially with Boomers as their bosses," Tom continued. "This generation tends to be very independent and values flexibility and autonomy versus hand-holding."

Millennials, on the other hand, are somewhere in the middle of the two, Tom says. "They dealt with the backlash of being called 'lazy' and 'entitled' when they joined the workforce — similar to the stereotypes Gen Z faces now — and many have felt like they needed to make up for it with their work ethic. Millennials tend to look for stability when it comes to the workplace."

#7

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I'm a college prof, and I'm going to go past my 30 year normal retirement goal because these kids are so fricking amazing to hang out with in the classroom. I've been through the millennials and they were OK, but this younger generation is wonderful. GenX has done a fantastic job parenting them. Chef's kiss!
82points

#8

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
My boss is an elder millennial and loves having me on his team because he can point me in a direction and I just go do the thing that needs doing while everyone else needs some level of hand holding and babysitting.
They keep trying to put me into management but I have zero desire. I'm totally cool with where I am and with what I do. The big joke is that since I'm Gen X, I'm happy working a job where I'm ignored - just as long as they don't ignore me when it comes to my pay.
I've been with my company 23 years and that longevity blows a lot of younger folks' minds. It also blows their minds that I'm NOT in management and don't want to be - because that's what they've been told they're supposed to do in order to be successful in life, otherwise they're failing. I love watching that little part of their brain light up when I tell them it's perfectly ok to be comfortable where you're at and not have to climb corporate ladder if they don't want to. No one will care what your work title was when you're dead.
81points

#9

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
“25?! I have socks older than you!” This is an acceptable response to the kids.
78points

So, how do these generational differences manifest in the workplace? "Some are bigger than others, but even small habits like communication preferences may not seem like a big deal, but over time, appealing to only one group can make people feel alienated or even uncomfortable sharing ideas, information, and feedback," Tom shared.

"A Gen Zer who loves async communication on Slack may get burnt out if they're forced to be on meetings all the time, while a Gen Xer might want to hop on more calls if most of their team's communication is on Teams," he explained. "While we shouldn't assume someone's habits based on their generation, being aware of different preferences can help make people feel more comfortable and excited about participating at work."

#10

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I’m a 47 year old lawyer. Been practicing for 20 years. Solo attorney the entire time. I have two employees, both in their late 20’s. The difference between us is sometimes minimal and sometimes huge. My 20 years experience over them is a huge factor, but we’re ultimately into the same things, watch the same shows, and listen to the same music. The biggest difference is literally my 20 years of experience. I’ve been there and done that. They haven’t. Things I take for granted are new to them. Once I realized that it made me a better boss, teacher, and mentor.
76points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
Management isn't anything like it was in the '80s, when we were young and wouldn't have dreamed of expecting the kind of fairness demanded now. I'm not ripping on gens Y and Z. Just saying it would have been nice to be able to expect respect when we were baby workers. We didn't get it.
76points

#12

“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
We have a few GenZs and we drop random pop culture facts like Will Smith used to be a rapper and Mark Wahlberg used to be Marky Mark. It blows their young minds.
And when one of them started she would talk about her mom a lot then one day said, "I can't believe my mom is almost 50. That's so old". 😒 We told her maybe next time we'll invite her mom out instead of her for beer.
68points

When it comes to the pros of working with the younger generations, Tom says, "[They] get a lot of traction about their work preferences and attitudes because they're non-traditional, but for good reason — they're pushing the limits of what's possible at work."

"Gen Z and millennials are open to new ways of doing things in the workplace, whether that's benefits like flexible work schedules or remote work, or tangible pressure on companies to do better and stick to their mission statements," he noted. "They're excited about the future and believe they can have a hand in making the workplace better for everyone."

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I have coworkers born in 1995 - the year I bought my current 1995 Jeep.
They love riding around in it because it’s an “antique” to them - and so have to remind them that I was an adult when I bought it.
66points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I have a mix of all ages and I am very frustrated by the younger crowd. Here are some real examples of reasons people couldn’t work
1) I saw my ex this weekend and he was cancelling me. So I needed a mental health day.
2) I have the sniffles , it’s best I don’t come in and infect anyone.
3) my moms friend has Covid and I just want to make sure I don’t have it (not been in direct contact with the friend )
4) I’m not a morning person, I try but I’m just always going to be 15-20 min late.
I found one 26 year old crying under her desk after we had sat down to talk about ways she could improve her performance.
Obviously I have had to deal with these horrible excuses and create the appropriate responses. Most of the time I try and really drill into people. It’s their PTO. I,don’t need to know why they are taking a day off. Just do it. Don’t over share.
The person who is always late is a huge issue but her work is so amazing I have to balance it all.
65points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I'm incredibly fortunate to work with people mostly in their 30's. So they're young but experienced in life. They have kids and mortgages so they understand priorities. They're good people doing their best. Couldn't ask for a better team.
60points

But Tom points out that the new ideas younger generations bring to the table can sometimes cause friction because they're challenging what a lot of us think about work. "Older generations may understand more of the complications and challenges of changing the norms of the workplace, and know that progress might not come immediately," the expert explained. "Working with younger generations can be a tricky balance of trying to understand where they're coming from while still enforcing some of the rules of the workplace."

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
Other comments that are disfavored are “Were you in shape when you were young?” Said to me, a 33 year old attorney, by a useless 22 year old twit.
59points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
I have a newish 30-something on my team and he has asked about my experience, and not in an a*s kissing way. It’s such a shame that people today don’t receive the training we did. I feel it is my responsibility to pass on what I know.
He has stated many times that he appreciates the extra time I spend with him to get him up to speed. I think he is sincere, and I have to admit it feels good to be appreciated.
58points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
To be honest...it's exhausting watching them take on more work than they can handle, hoard the work until the last minute, and then ask for last-minute help. I get the unfinished work and wonder what they've been doing all this time besides bemoaning how much work they had. Rinse and repeat. As a mgr, I actually try to help them with time mgmt and pacing but other mgrs just let them fall on their faces and help them pick up the pieces like a helicopter parent to the detriment of the entire team.
Oh and their refusal to use track changes drives me nuts. So arrogant to unilaterally rewrite others' work, particularly analysts with decades of experience. Their overconfidence is kinda scary...their way is the only way until it blows up in their faces. They could talk less and actively listen more. And write s**t down. Or voice note it. Anything to help with retention.
One more rant...do not ever send a text to my personal cell while I am on vacation with my kid. Nothing our organization does requires that kind of urgency. It can wait a few days, believe me. I would have rather quit than bug my mgr while on personal time. The audacity.
It's been kinda rough at work lately...thanks for reading my novel rant. 😆.
54points

Tom also shared some advice for older generations who are now working with much younger employees. "Meet younger generations where they are instead of assuming what might motivate them. This means getting curious about why your younger employees have taken this role, decided to pursue this career path, and even joined your company," he told Bored Panda.

"Ask them questions about their work preferences, skills they want to build, and goals. Be a listening ear before providing any suggestions. You might not get the answers you expect, and that's OK — even good. You won't be able to motivate your younger employees until you know what motivates them," Tom noted.

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
Generally the millennials and Z's I've worked with have been fine.
The only thing that annoys me a bit is when they complain or poke fun at each other about being "old" or make condescending comments about anyone over 30 being "old." Anyone pushing 50 is "really old." I get it, but it's a rude thing to go on about within earshot of other older coworkers, unless you've established some kind of rapport and know that everyone can take a joke.
Generally I just roll my eyes but in 20 years they'll be screaming bloody murder when the Alphas arrive and make the same remarks.
54points

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“Found One 26 Y.O. Crying Under Her Desk”: 31 Stories About Working With Gen Z And Millennials
Constant praise. It’s exhausting.
51points
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