Many of us look back at our college days with a kind of dreamy nostalgia. Life felt lighter and freer, and our biggest responsibilities were finishing assignments or figuring out what to have for dinner. No one was stressing about bills, mortgages, or full-time jobs yet. It was a time of freedom, self-discovery, and a lot of chaotic fun. College often becomes that sweet spot between being a carefree teen and a responsible adult.
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But while nostalgia can make everything look golden, the truth is student life comes with its own share of struggles. It’s not all pizza nights and laughter with friends. For many, college is the first time they’ve had to juggle multiple responsibilities—academics, social life, part-time jobs, and personal well-being.
Add in the stress of deadlines, group projects, and exams, and suddenly the “best years of your life” don’t always feel so easy. And when you’re studying abroad, these struggles multiply, as you’re also navigating an unfamiliar culture, lifestyle, and system. Behind the fun, there’s a lot of unseen hard work and pressure.
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To understand what this looks like, Bored Panda spoke with Nelly Shah, who is currently pursuing her Bachelor’s in Informatics: Games Engineering from Technical University Of Munich. As an international student, she has firsthand experience of the hurdles that come with studying abroad. She explained, “One of the biggest issues is the language barrier.
I spent two years learning before joining university, but still, there are technical words I struggle with.” Imagine sitting in class, trying to keep up, while translating difficult terms in your head. It adds a whole other level of stress to learning. This is something most native students don’t have to think twice about.
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Beyond language, finances are another massive hurdle. International tuition fees are often much higher than they are for local students, and they can easily overwhelm a student’s budget. Nelly pointed out, “Tuition fees are another big stressor. You’re constantly worrying about whether you’ll manage them long-term.” And it’s not just tuition–living costs, books, and daily expenses add up quickly. Many students find themselves juggling part-time jobs while trying to keep up with coursework.
Then comes the challenge of finding a safe and affordable place to live. Accommodation scams targeting students are unfortunately very common, and being in a new country makes you an easy target.
Nelly shared, “You need to be careful that you don’t get scammed. A lot of international students struggle with this when they first arrive.” On top of that, even when you find housing, adjusting to new roommates, shared spaces, and different living conditions can be a bit much.
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Being far from family adds a whole new layer of emotional difficulty. Homesickness can creep up unexpectedly, especially during festivals, birthdays, or hard days when all you want is the comfort of home. Nelly admitted, “It takes time to find your place in a completely new environment.”
For many, it’s the first time being away from their parents for such a long period. Trying to adjust while also figuring out how to belong socially can feel overwhelming. It’s not easy balancing academics with the emotional weight of missing home, and it can sometimes lead to loneliness.
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