The last one Dr. Gottman discussed is turning against the bid. This is when people dismiss or reject the bid in a hostile way. Even when it’s not done on purpose, it can really damage the relationship.
Gottman observed that at dinner, thriving couples made up to 100 bids for connection in 10 minutes. But couples who were struggling only made 65. That’s why he advises making bids often. It shows your partner how much you care and can lead to a successful relationship.
I think couples can also use humor as a bid for connection. For instance, sharing a meme or making private jokes doesn’t sound like a bad idea, right? Anyway, dear readers, that’s all from us.
Which one of these tweets did you enjoy the most? And which ones did you share with your spouse? Give them an upvote or tell us about them in the comments. Also, if you liked this list, check out these funny and chaotic marriage memes!
