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People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
TravelJAN 27, 2023

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp

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Following flying etiquette is important because it ensures a comfortable and enjoyable experience for everyone on board. By focusing on little things like respecting each other's personal space and keeping noise levels down, passengers can make a big difference in creating a pleasant atmosphere, which also allows the crew to be more efficient and might even help prevent certain delays. However, common courtesy is not always that common. So in an attempt to facilitate it, we at Bored Panda dug around Reddit and put together a list of rules that frequent flyers believe every traveler should know.
Continue scrolling to check them out and don't miss the talk we had with travel writer and photographer Jon Miksis, who shares his adventures on the blog My Global Viewpoint.

#1

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
If your kid kicks my seat one more god dam time I'm going to turn around and tell him Santa's not real.
Control your sh** bags.
332points

Traveler Jon Miksis has an alternative expression for the term flying etiquette and he calls it "the art of not being a complete jerk while flying."

"You know what I'm talking about, that person who reclines their seat all the way back, leaving you with no legroom? And let's not forget the person who insists on talking to you for the entire flight, even though you've clearly put on your noise-canceling headphones and have your eyes closed," Miksis told Bored Panda.

"Flying etiquette is all about making the experience comfortable for everyone. This includes respecting the flight crew's rules and instructions, being mindful about your personal space, and not being disruptive to other passengers," he explained. "One scenario (that is all too common) is when people hog the overhead bins — bringing their entire house with them as carry-on luggage and leaving no room for the rest of us. I've been on multiple flights where I've had to put my carry-on under the seat in front of me even though I paid for an overhead bin. Not fun when you're 6′4."

#2

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
If you're sick, wear a mask. - It may not be 100% helpful, but it does 2 things: 1) prevents you from sneezing and coughing on anyone/thing. 2) It lets everyone around you know that you're making a very serious attempt to prevent your germs from getting spread and that means you at least have some basic common courtesy.
290points

#3

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Keep your hair, feet, hands to your effing self.
284points

2021 was the worst year on record for unruly airplane passenger behavior in the United States, according to data from the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA). A total of 5,981 reports of unruly passengers were logged by the organization, with 4,290, or nearly 72%, being related to mask incidents.

However, the unruly passenger incident rate has dropped since then, with 1,973 reports logged during the first nine months of 2022. Despite this, the FAA has stated that "there remains more work to do."

Although the overall number of reported incidents has decreased, the number of cases in which enforcement action was initiated has increased, with 468 cases being recorded during January-September 2022, compared to 350 in 2021.

#4

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Minimize your cologne/perfume usage. Believe it or not, not everybody wants to smell a cheap french hooker for a long flight.
220points

#5

Former flight attendant here:
Don’t bring your massive bag of leftovers and then throw it away in the plane, we have very limited space for trash on board while in flight.
Don’t come into the galley in the middle of the flight to make conversation. We’re interacting with hundreds of you at a time and we’d like to relax for a few minutes and not interact with other humans. Please let us decompress.
When we tell you you can’t do something, must have your seat up for takeoff/landing it’s not because we are thirsty for power and authority, it’s the FAA. If I don’t tell you to do that or you don’t comply I could lose my job. Don’t shoot the messenger, be a sport and just play along.
Your flight attendant is there for your safety, not pleasure, so don’t be rude. We are trying our best.
212points

Besides all the misconduct, overall airline behavior can be a lot to handle as well. Recently, Upgraded Points asked 500 Americans to rank airline pet peeves based on how annoying they are the worst ones turned out to be:

  1. Having the back of your seat kicked;
  2. Cutting in line;
  3. Being rude to the airport staff;
  4. People standing in walkways, blocking others' paths;
  5. Crowding the gate before the flight is ready to board;
  6. Someone asking to change seats with you;
  7. People forcing small talk with you.


The study also found that Americans would rather sit next to a crying baby than a fighting couple. However, if given the choice, they would rather pick a seat next to a dog than a baby. Plus, they would prefer to be seatmates with someone who talks non-stop rather than someone with bad body odor.

#6

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Do. Not. Change. Your. Baby's. Diaper. Anywhere. But. The. Bathroom.
Seems like this outta go without saying, but some parents are just honeybadgers and they just don't care.
199points

#7

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
This one is pretty general, but from experience I guess it still needs saying: If a person has headphones on, earbuds in, whatever, don't try to make small talk. It's nothing personal, but some people have really long days at airports (Can't tell you how many red-eyes I've caught after waiting standby all day) and just don't want to talk.
Follow-up, for the flip side of this instance: If you're listening to music, be reasonable about the volume. The people around you shouldn't be able to hear your tunes.
191points

"I've witnessed my fair share of unruly passengers on flights, and let me tell you, it's never a good time," Jon Miksis, the man behind the travel blog Global View Point, said. "I've seen people get in fights over reclining seats, flight attendants cutting passengers off from alcohol, and everything in between."

"The reality is that you'll be stuck in a metal tube with these people for hours. So, it's always better to stay calm and avoid getting into any arguments on a plane. If a passenger is being extremely disruptive, however, it's a good idea to be proactive and ask a flight attendant for help. You don't have to address the situation in front of the person either — you can do so discreetly by pretending to go to the bathroom and speaking with a flight attendant instead."

"Lastly, if all else fails, you can always take the 'I'll see you in court' approach and secretly document the person's behavior with your phone (just in case you need to use it as evidence in the event of a lawsuit). Just kidding, please don't sue anyone over bad behavior on a flight, it's not worth it," the traveler said.

#8

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
If you forgot headphones, you are not entitled to playing your movie out loud during an overnight flight while I am trying to sleep. I hated that seat neighbor, I was going insane.
173points

#9

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Be respectful of the person sitting next to you. Don't yell at the lady with the screaming baby, I promise you she wants it to shut up too.
172points

#10

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
No children at the baggage carousel. Space is tight and bags are flying. My bag WILL smack your kid in the skull, and I will not apologize.
162points

As cliché as it sounds, a pleasant flight starts with us. It is important to remember that flying is a shared experience and we all have a role to play in making it at least bearable.

"When flying, it's always a good idea to be mindful of your personal space and how your actions and behaviors affect those around you," Miksis highlighted. "For instance, if you're going to recline your seat, make sure to do it slowly and check to see if anyone behind you is affected. And remember not to hog the overhead bin with your carry-on, as we all have to share that space. If you want to put your jackets and small bags up there, it should fit on top of your carry-on rather than filling the space next to your bigger bag."

"Lastly, it's important to be considerate of your fellow passengers by taking a shower and/or using deodorant shortly before a flight. Your row-mates will thank you for it," he added.

#11

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Please keep your shoes on. It's gross.
160points

#12

Do what the flight attendants say.
157points

#13

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Wash yourself.
Lotsaa1 added:
Deodorant.
150points

#14

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
For the love of god, if everyone could learn that people should get out of their seat by alternating rows, de-boarding would be so much easier.
150points

#15

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Do not eat egg salad. We aren’t able to crack windows. I’m begging.
148points

#16

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
I’ve flown over a million miles so hopefully, this helps. Make sure to check behind you before you throw your seat back when reclining.
145points

#17

Make sure that your carry-on can EASILY fit in the overhead. Don't be the guy who delays everybody boarding behind you by trying to squeeze a steamer trunk into the overhead bin.
Report
125points

#18

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
The middle seat gets both armrests.
123points

#19

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Don’t clap when the plane lands. Just don’t.
123points

#20

People Share 30 Etiquette Rules When Flying That Some People Still Can’t Seem To Grasp
Before you get on the plane, have what you want for the flight ready so you can stow your bag and get out of the aisle asap.
118points
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