It might seem that there are quite a few tips and tricks on how to flirt with someone and this way express your interest towards that person. Some might feel that this is quite a hard thing to do knowing that there is always a risk of crossing a line, creating a wrong impression, or finding out that the person is not interested in you. But sometimes people tend to miss out on someone having their eye on them. Having this in mind, one Reddit user decided to ask those who believe that they are good at flirting “what are some social cues us oblivious people should watch out for?”
The question that received almost 59K upvotes was answered by people sharing their own experiences, revealing what actions show that a person is interested in you. Which one of these signs do you believe in? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
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#21
If you catch them looking at your mouth they're thinking of kissing you. Saying your name, repeating it during the conversation. Singling you out in a crowd. Asking you personal questions early on
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9points
#22
I wouldn't consider myself good but I'll say this.
Just care and show affection to someone and you'll be good to go
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8points
#23
When the girl who has a crush on you says “I can play guitar” when you say you like girls who play guitar, then she has a crush on you. I’m not good at flirting at all and honestly neither is my girlfriend but this is a true story that proves how oblivious I am.
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7points
#24
If they compliment your physical appearance like your eyes or body, rather than something you chose like your makeup, outfit, ect. Then they're probably hitting on you. Speaking as someone who's both flirted and been flirted with.
Also, if someone DOES compliment something you chose, tell them where you got it. If they seem awkward or uninterested, they were hitting on you. If it was only a compliment then they'll be interested. Sometimes it's both though, so this isn't fool proof.
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6points
#25
Girls who are flirting will laugh a lot. We also find a way to touch. Making eye contact and smiling at you is also another good one.
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6points
#26
I'm a therapist who worked my way through school as a bartender. One of the clear ques someone is interested in you (and you can look this up) is playing with your their hair, especially if it's longer. It's a subconscious way of "making yourself pretty". You can even notice it in yourself when doing stuff like flirting on the phone or online.
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5points
#27
When someone is usually composed in conversation getting nervous and mixes up word when talking with you. For example, I met a girl and her friends (who became my friends too) the night before her birthday, I didnt speak much to her but when we were departing I wished her a happy birthday for tomorrow, she replied "you too" then got all flustered as she left the train. I watched her on the platform get teased by the friends.
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4points
#28
If a woman asks you for tea or coffee late at night. Always say yes! You dont know what the tea or coffee or means but you’re going to find out. Trust me, speaking from experience. Fml.
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2points
#29
Body movement or the way u speak , it tells u a lot about the person on Weather they are nervous or confident and they usually change the way they speak when they are flirting like the voice
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1point
#30
If you are in a crowded bar or you have been talking for a while, as you talk a little closer.. If they don't turn their face they want to be kissed.
I have been very oblivious but this one stuck with me and never failed
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-17points