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“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives

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Every day, we make choices. Some are tiny — like hopping on the bus instead of driving. Some are “meh,” like putting off that mountain of office work until tomorrow. But then, there are the decisions that are catastrophic in ways you couldn’t even imagine.
Speaking of which, someone online asked, “What’s the fastest way you’ve seen someone ruin their life?” The responses poured in — ranging from shocking missteps to epic bad calls that left people reeling. Sometimes it only takes one single decision to turn your life upside down, and reading these stories? Let’s just say you’ll be simultaneously horrified, laughing, and clutching your coffee.

#1

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Posting their “honest opinion” online and then realizing the internet is also honest back.

It’s always funny watching someone go from
“People need to hear the truth”
to
“I can’t believe people are attacking me like this.”

Freedom of speech exists. Freedom from consequences does not.
59points

#2

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Had a high school buddy who I introduced to motorcycles. I’d been riding since I was about 5 and absolutely love it! Helmets were always a very big thing in my motorcycle home. He was always made to wear one when riding at our house. He bought his first one a year out of high school. Back in the day, (no idea now) OK didn’t require helmets to ride. He decided he was far to cool for a helmet. Second week he had it someone pulled out in front of him and he hit the back of their car. It was a residential neighborhood and police confirmed the accident happened at about 15mph. His only injury was hitting his head on the handlebars and doctors released him with a goose egg. Several of us were there when he was released. Within 24 hours he was in a coma. Then his brain shut down. His parents pulled the plug 6 months later… Helmets people! Helmets!!!
59points

#3

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
My mom's boyfriend after he attacked me because I refused to let him read my texts with my girlfriend after I was already living on my own, and I was just coming to pick up some stuff I left behind. He ended up breaking my nose and arm and gave me a concussion. Now he's going to prison for 15 years. He even tried to tell the police when they arrested him that he was justified because he felt I disrespected him.
52points

While these stories highlight the mistakes people make that ruin their lives, some stories show the power of a single choice to transform everything. This is the story of a person whose one bold decision changed his life completely. Not only did it allow him to follow his passion, but it also helped him uplift his family’s fortunes. Sometimes, all it takes is courage, persistence, and belief in yourself to turn a dream into reality. 

We spoke with Akshay Samjiska, a choreographer from Mumbai, India. With nearly 250,000 followers on Instagram, you might think he’s “just” a popular dancer. But hearing his story reveals a journey filled with grit, tears, and dedication. He has literally poured his blood, sweat, and soul into his art. Behind every post, every video, and every performance lies years of struggle, practice, and determination. His story isn’t just about dancing; it’s about resilience and never giving up.

#4

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Came out to the friend group as a white supremacist. Because it came up when he was explaining why he lost his job.

Last time I saw him he still doesn't have any friends and is unemployed, living with his white supremacist parents. He's in his mid 40s. His parents are retired. I have no idea what his plan is for when they pass, but they rent, and have no assets.
51points

#5

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
This one time at a Coldplay concert….
48points

#6

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
I was best friends with a guy years ago until I caught him cheating on his wife with my girlfriend. That didn’t destroy his life, but being insatiable did. He eventually seduced one of his 15-year-old students at a high school where he worked. He’s now probably someone else’s girlfriend in state prison.
45points

Akshay recalls, “I was just three when I first saw an actor dancing on television, and I was instantly hooked. I started moving to the tune without even realizing it.” His father would often say that he lit up whenever he saw people dancing. From that moment, Akshay felt a connection with rhythm and movement, something that would guide him for the rest of his life. Even as a toddler, the joy of dance was clear — it wasn’t just a hobby; it was who he was.

#7

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
A woman I know had an affair with her teenage daughter’s boyfriend. She lost absolutely everything; her husband, daughter, career, and freedom. All for some 15 year old kid.
42points

#8

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
A friend/coworker became obsessed with World of Warcraft and gradually lost interest in anything else.

She was the executive assistant to the CFO of a major broadcasting company and she stopped showering and she wore her pajamas under her work clothes on the days she managed to show up. She was fired, lost her apartment, became completely isolated, moved into her parents’ basement, and gained almost 100 pounds.

Luckily, she was able to turn her life around, but it took years. Years.
39points

#9

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
I won’t speak details but it’s really sad how quickly bipolar disorder can mess up someone’s life, going from great highs even in a material sense, to deep, deep rock bottom lows in the course of a year.
36points

“Growing up, I was never the best at studies or sports,” Akshay shares. “But dancing was something I loved with all my heart. At school, dance was an optional class, and mostly girls joined. The boys went to play football or cricket, what they called ‘manly’ activities.” Even though dance was considered unconventional for boys in his environment, Akshay felt a pull toward it that he couldn’t ignore. It became his safe space and his way to express himself.

#10

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Speeding. He passed away at 17 - a week after getting his license.
34points

#11

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Boban Jankovic who got frustrated at a foul in a basketball game, slammed his head into the pole, broke his neck, never walked again. You can find the video online if you want to see, but that.... was really fast.
33points

#12

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
My late brother-in-law discovered opioids. It cost him his marriage, his house, and his life in about two years.
33points

Choosing dance wasn’t easy. When Akshay told his parents, they were confused, unsure if something was wrong with him. Teachers were skeptical, and classmates teased him mercilessly, asking, “Will you dance like a girl now?” It would have been easy to give up. But for Akshay, these doubts and taunts were not barriers; they were challenges to overcome. He used every comment, every sneer, as fuel to push himself further.

#13

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Drunk driving with a car full of people. One person passed away when they crashed. Life for him instantly changed. Don’t drink and drive and if you do, don't have passengers.
33points

#14

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Another professor groped a grad student. 


Instantly put on leave, replacement lecturer found for classes, multi year lawsuit, and fired. He did essentially the one thing that gets you fired with tenure. Last I heard he was still unemployed.
33points

#15

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
One of my brother's coworkers got their 16 year old sister pregnant.
32points

“I never took those insults to heart,” Akshay recalls with a smile. “Being told I danced gracefully like a girl wasn’t hurtful to me; it motivated me. Even when I was bullied for my passion, I never wavered. I knew dancing was my calling, and nothing anyone said could change that.” For him, perseverance was the key, and early mockery became part of the story that strengthened his resolve rather than weakening it.

#16

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
A friend that's a high school teacher got his student pregnant. He had a family and kids. 
32points

#17

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Racism while wearing company clothing seems to do it pretty quick.
32points

#18

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
A friend of mine started motorcycling when he was 19. He passed away when he was 21, nobody else was involved in the accident. Young and a bit reckless, but he was a smart and funny guy.... still think of him more than 20 years later.
30points

Akshay’s dance teacher played a huge role in shaping his path. “She believed in me from the start,” he says. “She would take extra classes for me, guide me, and help me refine my skills. Without her support, I might not have dared to dream so big.” Mentorship and encouragement, Akshay explains, made all the difference. It’s a reminder that having someone believe in you can open doors you never imagined.

#19

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
Bicycle, no helmet. Simple but effective.
29points

#20

“A Very Quick Shortcut To Personal Hell”: 57 Times People Destroyed Their Own Lives
A friend of mine played college football and broke his leg, they gave him pain meds for it and he never quit taking the pills (started buying them off the street) dropped out of college lost about 120 pounds. Don’t know where he is now.
28points
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