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31 People Reveal The Mistakes That Cost Them Years Of Their Lives
CuriositiesJUN 9, 2026

31 People Reveal The Mistakes That Cost Them Years Of Their Lives

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We should never be scared of making mistakes. If you’re learning a foreign language or acquiring a new skill, it’s going to be impossible to improve without experiencing some failures along the way. The good news is that almost every error we make is reversible.
But if you really want to speedrun ruining your life, there are a few things you can do to make things much worse for yourself. Netizens on Reddit have recently been sharing the most efficient ways a person can ruin their life, from marrying a terrible person to committing a heinous crime. We sincerely hope that you’ll see these replies as serious warnings, rather than challenges, pandas. But it’s your life, and if you want to burn it to the ground, well, now you know how!

#1

Underrated but doom scrolling.
40points

#2

Elect billionaires.
39points

#3

Man sitting alone on beach contemplating life choices
Waste too much time wishing for a different past.
36points

#4

Child witnessing parents arguing representing family-related life mistakes
Have a kid with the wrong person.
35points

#5

Credit card debt. Get in too deep and it’s almost impossible to get out.
31points

#6

Couple embracing on stage with spotlight reflecting life moments
Show up on the Jumbotron at a Coldplay concert, with a co-worker you're sleeping with (just ask the former Astronomer CEO and their former head of HR).
30points

#7

Social media argument about NASA internship and life mistakes
Tweet about getting a NASA internship with lots of swearing.
pops992, @NaomiH_official.
Report
28points

#8

Close-up of US dollar bills representing financial mistakes
Cosigning a loan for someone you're dating. Took me about three months to get into that mess and four years to get out.
27points

#9

Man gambling on slot machines symbolizing addiction life mistakes
Gambling.
25points

#10

White car speeding on highway illustrating traffic-related life mistakes
Speeding.

Guy I knew was late 20s. Successful professionally, personally and in all factors of his life.

Decided one night he was gonna drive 200km/h on a residential street with his friends and totalled the car in a crash.

Barely survived with lasting injuries. Lost his job and k****d his friend in the passenger seat. Now is looking at possible prison sentence.

Many such stories exist.
25points

#11

Person opening a beer bottle inside a car warning against risky life mistakes
Driving drunk.
24points

#12

Woman massaging neck in pain showing life mistakes impact
Ignoring a weird symptom for months because you're scared of what the doctor might say. The not knowing feels safer until it isn't.
23points

#13

Ambulance rushing on city street representing life emergencies
So many of these ways are so slow.

Just go outside and fail to do a backflip properly on the concrete. Life instantly ruined.
21points

#14

Thoughtful person looking out window reflecting on life mistakes
Self doubt.
21points

#15

Crowd dancing in a dark room with colorful party lights
Excess. Too much of anything is a bad thing.
21points

#16

Person nervously removing ring symbolizing relationship mistakes
Date (and marry) someone horrible.
20points

#17

Police officer talking to driver during traffic stop for life mistakes
Dui. Ask me how I know.
A lot of fines, career change, the social stigma, gf left me etc.

Some things changed for the better though! Lost a lot of weight since getting sober, have a much more clear mind and overall just was able to realize how much of a jerk I was when drinking. Got closer with god and my own peace. I’m in a better place but boy were there some DARK moments along the journey ngl.
20points

#18

Silhouetted adult and children standing against sunset by balcony
Having kids.
19points

#19

Giving in to intrusive thoughts.
19points

#20

Isolating yourself and becoming a recluse... though not many of us do it on purpose.
19points
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