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30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild

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Let’s be real: breakups are pretty much the worst. Losing the connection you had to your person can be painful, confusing, and leave you questioning where it all went wrong. Sometimes it can take what feels like forever to get over, too.
Someone asked an online community, “Tell me why your ex will never get over you - the unhinged version.” and netizens were only too happy to indulge them with some of the craziest tales. Dive into this collection of the most outrageous.
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#1

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
It’s been 8 years, he reaches out every 6-12mos with a new email address or phone number to tell me I’m still his “god-given” wife……. We were never married.
28points

#2

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
Still has my name tattooed on him (his first and only tattoo), and then named his kid after my husband who he's never even met because he wanted to "feel closer to me".
27points

#3

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
Cheated on me the whole relationship and got a new girlfriend less than a week after I dumped him. Been a few months and he looks up my social EVERYDAY on his “secret” account because I have him blocked. Found out through a mutual who told me because they were concerned for my safety 🙂
24points

When someone asked netizens the reason their ex would never get over them, some of the answers were gloriously insane, but beneath the chaos hid some real hurt. Most breakups linger because they shatter routines, identity, and daily comfort. Losing someone who helped shape your world creates an emotional vacuum that just refuses to stay empty.

People often struggle because they don’t only lose a partner, they lose inside jokes, silly dances, weekend rituals, and a witness to their everyday life. Those tiny moments stick around like emotional fingerprints and, even when the relationship wasn’t perfect, the memory of being known, and seen, so deeply can feel pretty much impossible to replace.

#4

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
Wrote a book about me. He ended me in the said book😍
22points

#5

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
My ex, who emotionally mistreated me for years and cheated on me left and right, harassed me so much after our breakup that I reported him to HR. He got investigated then fired, then found a loophole to text me despite the fact he was blocked. The message ? “You know that our job is no longer between us we can talk normally, right?” He also sent me the tarot readings he got for ‘us’ all 3 of which told him to leave me alone. Even the spirit world has my back 😂
22points

#6

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
he texted me at 12:15am on new year’s day “hope we can leave each other behind in the new year” 6 YEARS after our breakup
21points

Heartbreak also activates the brain like withdrawal. You’re detoxing from the highs of connection, validation, and intimacy. That’s why people sometimes spiral into unsettling thoughts about soul ties and destiny. The body mourns familiarity even when logic insists the relationship wasn’t healthy (or sustainable) for either of you.

Some exes live in our minds rent-free because they represented a version of ourselves we loved. They might have encouraged creativity, adventure, or confidence. Losing them sometimes feels like losing that part of ourselves. It’s not always the person we miss, it’s who we were with them, and rebuilding that identity all by yourself can feel frankly overwhelming.

#7

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He married my cousin, and he finds it “unsettling” that I’m at family events.
20points

#8

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
until i blocked his mom, she used to stalk my insta page. mind you, she hated me. we had been broken up for like 3? 4? years and she still watched every single story immediately after it was posted. no she didn’t follow me.
19points

#9

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He texted my mom, wishing her a happy Mother’s Day… SIX YEARS after we broke up and we haven’t spoken since the break up
17points

But the internet’s crazy confidence comes from a relatable truth: sometimes people stay unforgettable because of the chaos, drama, or hilariously questionable decisions shared together. Those stories become like personal folklore. Even when we’re over someone, the memory of surviving that emotional rollercoaster leaves behind it something that can be strangely tough to fully let go of.

To actually get over a breakup, the experts over at VeryWellMind recommend pulling focus back to yourself, rebuilding routines, trying new hobbies, and reconnecting with friends. Limit contact, mute your ex’s socials, and stop checking whether they’ve watched your IG stories. Let time pass without scratching at old wounds, and your heart eventually catches up with your intentions.

#10

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He texted me during the birth of his daughter because it was on my birthday and thought that was a sign that we belonged together (literally almost named her after me)
17points

#11

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
I unblocked him after nearly TWELVE YEARS to see if he was still alive and he sent me 78 messages pretty much instantly.
16points

#12

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He wrote awful diabolical lies about me for two years post break up on Reddit.
13points

Another key step is grieving the fantasy. We often mourn what we hoped the relationship would become, not what it truly was. Accepting both the good and the disappointing parts helps close the emotional loop. Therapy, journaling, and honest conversations with good friends make the process less lonely and easier to navigate.

Avoiding breakups isn’t about perfection, it’s about communication and curiosity. Couples who check in regularly, express appreciation and gratitude, and stay playful, build stronger bonds. Addressing conflict early and often prevents resentment from taking root. Prioritizing emotional safety, shared goals, and healthy boundaries keeps relationships rock solid and resilient.

#13

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He literally stalked me until I threatened to get an order of protection.
13points

#14

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He used the email of his kids baseball team to email me when I blocked him on everything else
10points

#15

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
We were in an open relationship. One day he told me he has another partner - wouldn't be a problem for me but he never asked or told me about it before. He just stood there like "oh btw that's my new partner". That new partner was similar to me. Very similar. I'm talking same hair color, eye color, body type, personality, even their gender and name.
9points

In the end, the internet’s chaotic confidence about being unforgettable to their ex reflects our desire to matter deeply to someone. Breakups hurt because connection shapes identity, memory, and meaning, and healing takes intention, patience, and self-love. With straight talk and curiosity, relationships will flourish. And if they don’t, we rebuild, rediscover ourselves, and keep loving bravely... eventually, anyway.

What do you think of the reasons people’s exes will never forget them collected in this list? Upvote your favorites and feel free to leave a comment if you can relate. We’d love to hear some more crazy stories from our readers!

#16

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He texted me to tell me he didn’t miss me… a year after I broke up with him. He’s now dating my doppelgänger 🫠
9points

#17

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
I wrote and released a song abt him and I put his birthday in said song so he thinks abt me EVERY YEAR on his birthday which fun fact is today
6points

#18

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
After we broke up he copied everything he said to hate about me while we were dating. He even got the same piercings I have
6points

#19

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He won’t give me back my bed I got before we were together. I didn’t cheat on him or anything. Just refuses to give it back and he didn’t even like it
4points

#20

30 People Reveal The Reason Their Ex Will Never Get Over Them, And Some Are Truly Wild
He copied my haircut 2 days after we broke up. We knew each other for barely two months, we broke up 9 months ago and he still has my hair :))
4points
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