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54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult

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Human beings are social creatures, and so, we’re hardwired for connection and community. We want our lives to have purpose, and we crave to feel like we belong. But unfortunately, some individuals manipulate these natural feelings for their own selfish ends and try to trick you into joining their creepy cults.
Inspired by internet user Sarah (@stillsarah_), former cult members opened up about the moments when the scales fell from their eyes, and they realized that something was incredibly wrong. Scroll down for their red flags that prove you’re very likely stuck in a cult, and you need to find a way out.
Image credits: stillsarah

#1

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
Being taught paying 10% of my income each month to the church would get me into heaven #exmormon
33points

#2

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
1.they started to remove Jesus and put his name instead when reading the bible

2.they sang songs about the leader and not God/Jesus

3.they used to say that the money you make at work is not yours it's his...so you need to give it to the cult leader coz he gives you grace to wake up every morning

4. we were not allowed to take medication coz you are supposed to have faith that you will heal and about the ones that didn't, it was said that they were not the chosen ones.
31points

#3

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
being told by the elders that wanting to go to university after HS wasn't gods plan for me, I should focus on building a family. I was 15
31points

Cults don’t necessarily have to be religious. They can also be philosophical, political, or centered around a specific lifestyle.

The tricky thing—probably the main reason why cults are so seductive—is that believing like you’re part of something bigger than yourself is a great feeling. Most of us probably want to feel like we’re special, that what we do matters, and that we’re needed for some grand mission.

While anyone can fall prey to emotional manipulations and end up in a cult, you’re more likely to be targeted if you’re particularly vulnerable. It’s easier to trick someone who is depressed, anxious, addicted, or desperately searching for purpose and community than someone who already has a strong social support network.

#4

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
First sign was the priest saying to stop asking questions and then further claiming that my science teacher was trying to corrupt me. Science teachers serve Satan apparently. Second was when faced with a family tragedy, myself and my family were told it was gods plan and he loved us. Seriously? I was a child and could see how immoral that was. I grew up luckily and now I'm proud to be an atheist.
29points

#5

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
“If you leave, your family can never speak or interact with you again because it’s bad association”
26points

#6

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
they made a family member marry someone they barely met because it was god's will
24points

Cult leaders tend to be charismatic, self-interested narcissists who are very good at reading and manipulating other people.

Getting out of a cult is no easy feat, especially if the person has been isolated from the outside world for a long period of time. One thing that can help is to encourage them to get involved in various activities and people outside of the cult.

#7

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
i was held down in a chokehold by an adult man telling me to give up fighting because thats the only way the “demon” can leave my body, realised at this point that maybe the whole god thing is just propaganda Lol
24points

#8

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When the pastor walked into a program and people high key surrounded him and started shouting and crying. Like they were kneeling and all he did was walk in. And bro had body guards and that suit he wore could have fed the most of the unfortunate people in the church
24points

#9

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
My ex pastor used to tell us not to go to hospitals instead he will pray for us and he lost his daughter because of that but he said it was God's will
23points

As The Guardian points out, some major red flags that an organization might be a cult are that in it there is:

  1. The belief that only the leader or the group knows the truth about the world
  2. Authoritarianism without accountability
  3. A sense that the leader or group is always right
  4. No tolerance for questions or criticism
  5. No financial disclosure about the budget or expenses
  6. Unreasonable fear of the outside world
  7. Massive criticism of anyone hoping to leave
  8. A vast number of articles, broadcasts, and reports of the leader or group’s wrongdoings

#10

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When they interrogated me, 5 adult men in one room with me as a child
23points

#11

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When they kept preaching bad about other churches instead of focusing on Christ
22points

#12

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When the Catholic priest said animals don’t have souls
22points

This is a sensitive topic, but we’d like to hear your perspectives if you’re willing to share them, dear Pandas.

Have you ever been in a cult? Do you know anyone who has been a cult member? What happened? How susceptible to a cult leader's manipulations would you say you’d be?

Let us know in the comments down below.

#13

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
asked my mother "if god asked you to sacrifice me, would you?" she said yes with no hesitation
21points

#14

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
Everything changed when my mom started having seizures. She had been sick for years and this was the final straw. She is the most devoted-to-god woman I’ve ever met. I finally realized that the story of Job wasn’t a story about faith through pain, it was a story about an evil god who was obsessed with proving he can do whatever he wants and people will still love him. He treats us like toys. Like our pain isn’t real. Then the cult-like communion was the nail in the coffin. Mass psychosis. Big old cult.
21points

#15

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When they said that people who leave, always get mortally sickness because you're no longer "under the umbrella shadow". They would tell a lot of stories about this.
20points

#16

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When the priest told me to get on my knees and pray while he was wearing a crown 👑 of gold.
20points

#17

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When the other lady ran to the ladies gathering service because her husband was beating her up and her sister- whose a member- was told to cut her off because she practices witchcraft with her in-laws.
20points

#18

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
Watching a documentary about my church hit me so hard.
Hillsong a megachurch exposed
20points

#19

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
When the founder said God spoke to him while he was washing his car and told him to start a "church". And that God gives him more vivid visions when he flies private.
19points

#20

54 Former Cult Members Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew Their Group Was A Real Cult
when I decided to test the waters and tell my parents that I was no longer a message believer and they actually tried to disown me
19points
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