Entitled people are just the worst. We’ve all encountered them: from the person who treats rules like they’re for other people to the one who expects everyone to bend over backward for them. They’re the type you hope won’t multiply, but naturally, they do. And sometimes, having kids seems to give their entitlement a whole new playground.
Sure, “it takes a village” to raise a kid, but some of these people really took that concept and ran with it. Others seem to view their children as supporting characters in their own lives, or as mini-mes who deserve the world simply because they exist. Either way, these parents have some interesting ideas about what everyone else owes them—including their own kids.
#41
"You can't have fun on your own birthday." | Help me
I am writing this at midnight while trying hard not to mentally break down .
Tl:Dr ; mother is angry her son is happy on his own birthday .
Today was my 16th birthday. Now, unlike any other kids i asked for nothing other than a day to watch movies ,no studying and just have fun( because of corona and online classes). My mother didn't like that at all . My morning began with listening to her usual "get up lazy ass", "you are a failure". She didn't even care about my birthday! I asked her if she knows about my birthday and she says in a angry way "yeah I know it . So what?"
I decided to bingewatch my favourite film series, John Wick . I was on chapter 2 when she started to come into the living room every 10 minutes and tell me "so,you are not gonna study? Good luck on ruining your life." and tell me how hard she is working to provide for the family. A few minutes after chapter 3 began, i left the living room out of frustration. Then , around at 13:30 my nice aunt came to our house with a cake. my mother put on the good parent face. After I cut the cake and my aunt left our house , my mom again started ranting to my dad and me. My dad couldn't say anything as he was not making a good income coz of the pandemic.
My heart broke on dinner , when she verbally mistreated me the whole time . I left the table without finishing my dinner . I went to the bathroom and burst into tears. My father heard my crying and before going to bed he consoled me and said "Don't cry , son . Ignore her insults . You have me . Maybe I couldn't give you something this year but ,i will next year."
his was the best thing that happened to me today. But , i am still broken inside . My friends are asleep so I posted this here . Thought I would get some support from you guys . I have more stories about her . I would post it on another day . Sorry if I made any grammar mistakes.
Edit1 : Thank all of you for the support and the Wishes . This is the first time so many people have wished me happy birthday. I just woke up and seeing all of your support , i cried in joy . Thank all you and be safe ,be happy:)
Edit 2: Many of you are asking why I can't leave my house after I am 18. So , the thing is here India, by law , you can actually leave your house and live alone. However , the society and even the police won't help you. And it's not easy finding an apartment for two or one people at cheap price here. If u leave ur house and go to live alone. Police will bring you back to your house. My life is basically an example of most of the Indian teenagers.
I am writing this at midnight while trying hard not to mentally break down .
Tl:Dr ; mother is angry her son is happy on his own birthday .
Today was my 16th birthday. Now, unlike any other kids i asked for nothing other than a day to watch movies ,no studying and just have fun( because of corona and online classes). My mother didn't like that at all . My morning began with listening to her usual "get up lazy ass", "you are a failure". She didn't even care about my birthday! I asked her if she knows about my birthday and she says in a angry way "yeah I know it . So what?"
I decided to bingewatch my favourite film series, John Wick . I was on chapter 2 when she started to come into the living room every 10 minutes and tell me "so,you are not gonna study? Good luck on ruining your life." and tell me how hard she is working to provide for the family. A few minutes after chapter 3 began, i left the living room out of frustration. Then , around at 13:30 my nice aunt came to our house with a cake. my mother put on the good parent face. After I cut the cake and my aunt left our house , my mom again started ranting to my dad and me. My dad couldn't say anything as he was not making a good income coz of the pandemic.
My heart broke on dinner , when she verbally mistreated me the whole time . I left the table without finishing my dinner . I went to the bathroom and burst into tears. My father heard my crying and before going to bed he consoled me and said "Don't cry , son . Ignore her insults . You have me . Maybe I couldn't give you something this year but ,i will next year."
his was the best thing that happened to me today. But , i am still broken inside . My friends are asleep so I posted this here . Thought I would get some support from you guys . I have more stories about her . I would post it on another day . Sorry if I made any grammar mistakes.
Edit1 : Thank all of you for the support and the Wishes . This is the first time so many people have wished me happy birthday. I just woke up and seeing all of your support , i cried in joy . Thank all you and be safe ,be happy:)
Edit 2: Many of you are asking why I can't leave my house after I am 18. So , the thing is here India, by law , you can actually leave your house and live alone. However , the society and even the police won't help you. And it's not easy finding an apartment for two or one people at cheap price here. If u leave ur house and go to live alone. Police will bring you back to your house. My life is basically an example of most of the Indian teenagers.
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#42
Entitled Grandmother LITERALLY Beats Me In Ikea Because I Was Dehydrated!
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This happened when I was 11.
My Grandmother, she HATES me because she hates my biological father, and often takes out her hate for him on me.
Note: She passed a few years ago, so no more harassment from her.
Anyway, on my mother's birthday, Mum was taken to Ikea by my aunt, my grandmother, my uncle, and my great aunt. Me, my cousin, my two sisters (I am the middle child of the house) are the kids being dragged along.
We had spent about 3 hours in Ikea going around and picking stuff out for Mum, and I start to feel dizzy. My cousin helps me, and I ask if we can get a drink because my thoat feels dry. My grandmother glares at me, and the other adults were too busy talking to notice. I was forced to be quiet.
I tried asking my aunt after 20 minutes as I felt awful. My throat was dry, my head was throbbing, and I felt dizzy. Grandmother said this:
"Shut up, OP! This is your Mother's birthday! Nobody cares what you want, so respect your Mother!"
Me and the other kids are stunned. I try to argue and as we come up some stairs near the café area, and when I tell her that since we are near the café area, we can get drinks, she punches me in the jaw! She then kicked me in the ribs and stomped on me, SCREAMING this: "You are filthy! You're terrible, just like your father!"
I start crying and sobbing as over 200 customers in the café area watch an old lady beating a child into the ground. I heard someone scream for help, and I think about 2 or 3 minutes later, Security came to escort my grandmother out.
Police were called, and I was asked to give a statement. I asked for some water before saying anything else.
I told them this: "I just wanted something to drink."
My aunt let me stay at her home foor a few days after we were all let go. My aunt is the only family member I feel I can truly trust.
S
This happened when I was 11.
My Grandmother, she HATES me because she hates my biological father, and often takes out her hate for him on me.
Note: She passed a few years ago, so no more harassment from her.
Anyway, on my mother's birthday, Mum was taken to Ikea by my aunt, my grandmother, my uncle, and my great aunt. Me, my cousin, my two sisters (I am the middle child of the house) are the kids being dragged along.
We had spent about 3 hours in Ikea going around and picking stuff out for Mum, and I start to feel dizzy. My cousin helps me, and I ask if we can get a drink because my thoat feels dry. My grandmother glares at me, and the other adults were too busy talking to notice. I was forced to be quiet.
I tried asking my aunt after 20 minutes as I felt awful. My throat was dry, my head was throbbing, and I felt dizzy. Grandmother said this:
"Shut up, OP! This is your Mother's birthday! Nobody cares what you want, so respect your Mother!"
Me and the other kids are stunned. I try to argue and as we come up some stairs near the café area, and when I tell her that since we are near the café area, we can get drinks, she punches me in the jaw! She then kicked me in the ribs and stomped on me, SCREAMING this: "You are filthy! You're terrible, just like your father!"
I start crying and sobbing as over 200 customers in the café area watch an old lady beating a child into the ground. I heard someone scream for help, and I think about 2 or 3 minutes later, Security came to escort my grandmother out.
Police were called, and I was asked to give a statement. I asked for some water before saying anything else.
I told them this: "I just wanted something to drink."
My aunt let me stay at her home foor a few days after we were all let go. My aunt is the only family member I feel I can truly trust.
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