“He Did His Best To Look Single”: 30 People Who Got Cheated On Share What Gave It Away

A hard shift in typical behavior, usually revolving around things that were previously public suddenly being secret.

I caught my ex gf cheating bc she would usually talk about where/who she was with often. Then suddenly became vague about those details. She used to have me use her phone to look things up, and around that same time she suddenly was very guarded about where it was and wouldnt let me look. She also stopped sharing her work schedule.

She got caught because she said she would be working a double, and I had already suspected some shenanigans, so when I casually walked in to her work (and not call her cell directly) to ask her something they said she wasnt there. I immediately called her cell and she said she was in her unit and not to disturb her. “If you were at work we would be having this convo face to face” and hung up. She knew it was over. We had the talk a few hours later and went our separate ways.

Increased phone use, change of habits, dressing better than ‘usual’, looking after themselves better, might mention someone often, being defensive when asked innocent questions, being distant, being aggressive towards you, story of where they were and with whom changes….etc etc

Acting like they hate a certain person like really dispise them when in actual fact they fancy them and are secretly seducing them.

I've had 3 different occurrences of this, so here they are:
1. Start talking a lot about "an old friend of mine, she's so cool, we hangout until 3am yesterday"
2. Saying that he worries I'm gonna leave him for another person one day, jealous of my friends, saying some of my friends must have a crush on me
2. Way more lovey-dovey than usual

Women swooned over him regularly. I learned that there’s an invisible “Open For Business” sign that some people wear. It’s a vibe. Those with no intention of cheating keep that invisible sign turned off, and the opposite sex can tell.

When I was married the first time, I kept that sign off, and never had to fend off a man from hitting on me. When I was divorced and dating again, I turned my invisible sign on and never wanted for male attention. When I met my 2nd husband, the sign went back off. It’s all about the vibe you throw out there. Cheaters always have the sign on.

Started watching his diet, taking salads for lunch. Became very protective of his phone. Would go to bed early and would be on the phone when I finally came in - claimed he was playing Candy Crush. Became generally quiet, moody and petulant.

Crocodile tears when I accused him of cheating. There are psychopaths and sociopaths that are experts in their games. Don’t buy it. Your gut feel will always tell you.

Insane Jealousy/Accusations
Weird phone behavior
Picking fights
Dropping off/avoiding conversation
Becoming obsessed with their looks/appearance/workout

Weird feeling in your guts, when everything has been alright for years.

Precognitive dreams, gut instinct, women's items that aren't yours, women's hairs that aren't yours in their house, leaving super super early for work when you know their work doesn't open for hours after, suddenly wanting to get fit, lying about other things, projecting, picking fights to call a "break" at convenient times (birthday, holiday) then come crawling back a week later, d**g abuse (easy to give into temptation) aggressiveness, lack of intimacy, stories changing each time theyre recounted, setting their relationship status to "me only", gaslighting that gets more severe over time to paint you as insecure and "all in your head" etc

Also, proposing openness to a threesome in early days. People who are truly monogamous wouldn't want to open a relationship in any sense, if they're open to the idea then they'll want to pursue it eventually.