The dating pool these days is as messy as it gets. You meet someone, the conversation flows, you have a good time, and you might even start imagining where this could go. Then boom, something happens, and now the whole vibe is gone.
Men on Reddit shared the surprisingly petty reasons they have lost interest in a woman. We rounded up the ones that will have you shrugging in agreement, or maybe wondering how some of these things ever became dealbreakers. And if you are happily partnered up, you might finish this list feeling a little more grateful for the person who puts up with you.
#21
Smoked cigarettes. Otherwise super beautiful and really cool. I know, fumbled... But I just can't do it cigs are so gross.
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17points
#22

She had 2 beers. While ordering lunch. She had three more while eating lunch.
Taking her home, she asked if I could swing by the grog shop - so she could buy a case of 24 VBs.
Taking her home, she asked if I could swing by the grog shop - so she could buy a case of 24 VBs.
16points
#23

Really poor grammar and insane overuse of the 😂 in texts.
15points
#24

She tried to make me put in my best friends house into GPS when I was driving. Kept telling her I grew up here i know where im going. She kept pushing it. I was like" u know what, I think this is over" and that was that lol.
15points
#25
I was replacing a toilet in my basement. She was helping. The water feed valve turned out to be bad, so it was constantly leaking. We were going to go to a big box store to get a clamp-on shark replacement (this was like Friday evening, didn't want to pay emergency rates for a plumber.)
So I started working to get the leaky valve stuck down the drain hole, so it could just merrily leak away. She said 'just put it in that big bucket, it's not leaking fast enough to fill the bucket before we get back.' I said 'You're probably right, but I'd also hate for the valve to fail further or something.'
She then said 'Oh, you don't trust me.'
And that was it. You're going to turn such a minor thing like this into a referendum on the relationship? Into a *power struggle?* Nope.
So I started working to get the leaky valve stuck down the drain hole, so it could just merrily leak away. She said 'just put it in that big bucket, it's not leaking fast enough to fill the bucket before we get back.' I said 'You're probably right, but I'd also hate for the valve to fail further or something.'
She then said 'Oh, you don't trust me.'
And that was it. You're going to turn such a minor thing like this into a referendum on the relationship? Into a *power struggle?* Nope.
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15points
#26
She developed that Instagram voice, where the speech gets lazy and irritating at the end. Hard to explain but it really started grating my ear drums.
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15points
#27

She said she hated the sunset as I was admiring the sunset.
14points
#28
I had a first date with a girl at the beginning of November. Before the end of the date, she was planning our holidays together. I lost interest immediately.
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14points
#29
I had a tiny crush on a girl I sat next to in class, nothing huge, I just thought she was cute. And we partnered together to do a group project. And then she was lazy and didn't really do anything. Now the way our proffersor graded it was individual, so her not doing much didn't affect me, I actually got an almost perfect score, but idk, her not wanting to do anything just made me lose interest.
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14points
#31
She said "smee smee" every time she got comfortable or excited. I felt like I was dating a smurf or something.
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13points
#32
Before I met my current partner . I went on a few dates with this woman who wouldn’t stop talking about her dog in practically every conversation. She would compare others to the dog as well. Don’t get me wrong, I love animals. But I don’t need to bring up my pets in every conversation.
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13points
#34
She was pregnant at the time and told me I’d be a great dad. (I was not the biological father.).
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13points
#37

Kind of a boring reason, but she was a boring person lol. I need some weird in my life.
10points
#38
We got back to her place and she had 2 big dogs. She then proceeded to let them lick her face for 5 mins... I had no interest in putting my face near her face after that.
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10points
#40

When making kraft mac and cheese she poured the cheese packet into the boiling water.
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8points



