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While it’s helpful to be realistic about your abilities and limits, it’s also worth embracing some of your more ambitious, hopeful, and optimistic traits, too. In short, you want to be realistically optimistic and be confident that you can develop the right skills needed to reach your goals.

Of course, you want to avoid the pitfalls of becoming overconfident or delusional. What’s more, you want to keep your critical thinking intact without succumbing to over-the-top pessimism or cynicism either. It’s a delicate balance to maintain.

As Forbes explains, optimism isn’t something you’re born with, but a competence that you can develop. And not only can you develop it, but, arguably, you should do it, too.

“Research has shown that the practical use of this skill results in a change of our perception of reality and the quality of our thoughts, both of which eventually affect our physical health,” Forbes states.

For one, optimistic individuals are less likely to develop infectious diseases compared to pessimists. What’s more, optimists are better able to maintain a healthier lifestyle and tend to live longer.

Positive emotions tend to result in more motivation, perseverance, satisfaction in relationships, and overall better personal and professional results.

On the flip side, pessimists are more anxious, distracted, less engaged, and get worse results.

As per Forbes, realistic optimism allows people to balance out the pros and cons in various situations and individuals.

“It is the courage to explore opportunities, where others are blocked by risk and failure, with the belief that the future will be better than the past.”

And though we don’t, in fact, know what the future will actually hold, you can still hope that it will be better and work toward making that come true. Meanwhile, you also objectively accept your current circumstances and don't shy away from the truth.

In our experience, turning your dreams into reality comes down to a few main qualities like courage, focus, discipline, wisdom, and perseverance.

First off, chasing your dreams is scary. It requires a lot of time and effort, and you might worry about failure or the judgments of those around you. So, you have to have the courage to do what you know in your heart of hearts is worth doing and will lead to true fulfillment.

Next, you have to understand that priorities are just that—priorities. You have to carve out time for your pursuits.

Work toward your goal every single day, even if it’s just a few minutes at a time. That incremental effort adds up very quickly. But you have to be consistent. That feeling of progress is going to boost your confidence, which will help you overcome any setbacks later.

How you chase your dreams matters quite a lot. While there’s a lot to be said for persistence (we really value hard work), you also need to work smart. And that means consistently taking small, intelligent risks that will further your goals.

That also means analyzing your actions and asking for feedback, and then doing things slightly better the next time around. You have to be flexible enough to adapt your strategy. And it also means getting plenty of rest because you are most efficient when you’re recharged.