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Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
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Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On

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“Lower your standards and expectations and you will never be disappointed!” – Hannah Hart, My Drunk Kitchen.
While this does effectively resolve the problem of double standards (any standards, actually), in the real world, alas, we can’t help but laugh at it and then, with that little bit of comedic positivity, move on to tackling the issue at hand by bringing it to light in a Reddit thread.
Incidentally, that happened with folks listing all the double standards that they just can’t stomach. Whether on a personal level or on a structural, cultural, societal or economic one.

#1

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
I said it last time I saw this and I’ll say it until the point gets across to whoever needs it:
If you don’t like abortion, ignore it like you do the kids in the foster system.
506points

#2

How a man can get a vasectomy without any questions asked, but if a woman wants to get her tubes tied, then it's all hands on deck to gaslight her into changing her mind.
357points

#3

Religious institutions taking in enormous amounts of money but don’t have to pay taxes on it.
315points

Double standards are commonly viewed as a bad thing. No surprise there—nobody likes to be treated differently than anyone else unless it has a positive effect on them. But even then someone other than the beneficiary is put at a disadvantage and that is also not good. So, the idea would be to be treated equally regardless of circumstance.

#4

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
Wealthy get away with crimes that would put a poor person in prison. The world is only fair to those who have the most.
277points

#5

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
People call their dogs their fur children but when I call my children my skin dogs people think it's weird.
272points

#6

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
On multiple occasions have seen a woman beat up on a man and nobody intervenes. The moment he pushes back to defend himself then you get all these white knights intervening. Disgusting double standard- nobody should hit anyone and if you hit someone you shouldnt expect to be immune from retaliation because of the genitals you have.
272points

Now, the pursuit of equality is a very commendable thing. However, soon you are faced with another problem, and that is how far will you take it? Pushing it to an extreme is not an option, so where do you draw the line?

This is where you might start to realize that there isn’t really any ideal place to be in terms of being treated equally as there are too many variables to consider without going overboard. It has to be realistically reasonable, right?

#7

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
People like my step-father-in-law who have been on Medicare disability for the majority of their lives who rage about socialism and people wanting handouts.
268points

#8

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
Nobody asks my husband how he juggles a career and children.
262points

#9

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
My dog stares at me like I owe him a portion of all my meals, and yet not once has he offered me any of his food.
258points

And so once that black and white type of thinking subsides, folks might humor the idea that maybe double standards aren’t some evil social construct that benefits those better off. Because that’s the core problem of double standards—that they put someone at a disadvantage or someone else has the potential to benefit from it.

#10

Racial prejudice is never ok, no matter what your skin color is.
256points

#11

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
Bunch of people dress in their fav football teams colours and watch a match.... acceptable. Bunch of people dress up as their fav characters and attend a comic con... bunch of wierdos.
243points

#12

The mentality towards victims of SA depending on their gender. You see a news story about a 15 year old male student and their female teacher, and half the comments are things like "lucky kid," "wish that were me," "why would he tell??" about a CHILD being abused by a person in power that they're supposed to be able to trust. It's disgusting and when the genders are reversed the mentality is completely different.
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225points

If benefit is at the heart of it, consider utilitarianism. Utilitarianism is an ethical theory that focuses on the outcomes to determine if something is right or wrong. By proxy, that which brings the most benefit to the most people is the best thing to do. This is in part the reason why the lesser of two evils idea is sometimes the go-to tactic for some people.

#13

“Be the bigger person”
Always and without fail only **ever** applies to the person being wronged beyond all belief.
217points

#14

When a man is assertive at work he is a boss, when a woman is assertive she is a b***h.
211points

#15

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
It’s OK for employers to see employees as replaceable but it’s not OK for employees to be constantly passively job hunting cause that means they have one foot out the door.
204points

So, with that in mind, would a double standard be a bad thing if it brings more good than the next best option, which would be to have a single standard?

An example of this can be seen in college admissions practices. Educational institutions might give preference to people from underrepresented backgrounds to promote diversity.

#16

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
Miley Cyrus licks a hammer nude: art, powerful, brave.
I lick a hammer naked: drunk, scarring, banned from the local Ace hardware.
193points

#17

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
‘Human rights violations committed by my civilization were due to the circumstances and norms of the time, whereas those committed by the rival civilization were due to its inherent evilness and inferiority.’
168points

#18

Parents can send the most vitriolic, acidic emails to me and my fellow teachers but we are expected to respond both realistically *and* respectfully.
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159points

Yes, there is definitely a double standard there that puts one student at an advantage over another all because of who they are. However, from the utilitarian standpoint, ultimately, it aims to achieve a more equitable outcome through example, increasing overall societal and cultural health by providing opportunities to those who might have been historically marginalized.

#19

Somebody Asked People To Share Double Standards They Hate, And 50 Responses Were Spot-On
Many members of the LGBTQ community preaching openness and acceptance yet are incredibly biased towards one another within their own community.
willow_wind:
I've experienced so much of this. It's sickening. That's why I try to avoid LGBTQ+ spaces now, even though I'm bisexual. I just don't feel safe there.
156points

#20

Sexual harassment.
I've been the victim of it, but I'm male. The reaction of "Eh, so what? get back to work." really pissed me off. If I'd grabbed some woman's butt, or made comments about how "good her a*s looked in those pants" in the workplace, I'd be bounced in a heartbeat.
151points
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