Such enthusiasts might find the “Make Me Suffer” online community just the right place for them. From concerning injuries to creepy crawlers, it contains posts that may disturb you for a while but won’t cause any physical harm. Scroll down to feel a little thrill; after all, the benefits of adrenaline can be surprisingly positive.
While you're at it, make sure to check out a conversation with the page's team of moderators and psychologist and founder and CEO of the Private Therapy Clinic, Dr. Becky Spelman, who kindly agreed to tell us more about human nature and disgust.
#1 Suddenly My Life Isn’t So Bad

We at Bored Panda were lucky enough to get in touch with the subreddit's moderator, u/amazonchic2, and the rest of the team to get an inside scoop on how the page is operated. They told us, "Our moderator team is made up of a diverse group of individuals from all corners of the world.
We have mods from ages 18 - 45, single mods living with parents to married moderators with children. We stay connected on Discord, discussing content that comes up or activity happening within the sub. Each moderator is encouraged to put life first, and we attend to our duties as moderator between work and personal life."
#2 Black Widow Bite

It's been 4 years since the team added a new member. So we were curious to know if they plan to expand it any time soon. "The current team has been able to stay abreast of the content submitted. About 18 months ago, the subreddit was changed by Reddit itself to an 18+ community. At that point, we were required to make all posts NSFW, and we chose to make all posts pending moderator approval.
This significantly slowed traffic eventually. The moderators asked Reddit to reverse the decision to be 18+, but Reddit would not allow the change back. Posts are no longer pending moderator approval, but the traffic has never rebounded completely. r/MakeMeSuffer used to get hundreds of daily posts and now gets much less. Comments are also down significantly, but many of the comments were from trolls and were removed due to hate speech or rude/uncivil comments."
In addition, the moderator revealed what the team does behind the scenes. "The main roles of moderators are reviewing reports from the community on posts and comments that may break a posted rule or just not be the type of content for this subreddit.
Reviewing incoming emails is also a large part of a moderator's duties. Responding to members of the community as they have concerns takes time. Training new moderators and reviewing concerns with the moderator team are also important to ensure everyone is on the same page and is working to respond in a similar fashion."
#4 I've Had Worse Dates

We also reached out to psychologist and founder and CEO of the Private Therapy Clinic, Dr. Becky Spelman, to find out why so many people enjoy searching for or sharing disturbing images online.
She told us, "The captivation with disgust, particularly in the context of sharing disturbing images online, such as on the subreddit “Make Me Suffer,” can be attributed to several psychological factors. Firstly, there's a phenomenon known as "benign masochism," where people derive pleasure from experiences that are initially perceived as negative.
This can include watching scary movies, eating extremely spicy food, or, in this case, viewing disturbing images. It's a form of thrill-seeking, where the knowledge that these experiences are not actually harmful allows people to enjoy the sensation of being "disgusted" in a safe environment. Additionally, there's a social aspect: sharing and discussing these images can create a sense of community and shared experience, which can be appealing."
Psychologists who study disgust explain that it’s one of the six basic emotions that define and explain humanity. It shapes our behavior, etiquette, new technology, and even relationships. The feeling is responsible for us wearing deodorant and perfume, inventing a knife and fork, and even starting a viral TikTok trend that points out our partner’s “icks.”
According to Spelman, some people use it as a coping mechanism as well. "Engaging in activities that are slightly unpleasant or discomforting but ultimately harmless can provide a sense of control and a way to confront fears or anxieties in a controlled setting. It's a way to experience and process negative emotions in a context where the individual feels safe and in control. This can be therapeutic and help in building resilience against stress and anxiety."
#7 You Know How Women Just Back Up To The Toilet And Sit Down? I'm So Glad I Looked

Darwin initiated disgust studies when he described an encounter in “The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals” with a “savage” who poked the cold, preserved meat he was eating, showing “utter disgust at its softness.” In return, he was repulsed by a stranger sticking his fingers in his food.
#10 My Tooth Has Long Roots

#12 Accidentally Dropped A Fork And Stepped On It

Following this, one of the most important works on this paradox was Aurel Kolnai's, who pointed out that it often holds “curious enticement.” He assigned smell, taste, sight, and touch as the senses through which this feeling enters our system and pointed out hearing as a weak transmitter of disgust.
#13 My Finger Got Caught In An Hydraulic Press At Work. No Idea How I Still Have A Finger. Nothing Broken, Just Sh*tty To Look At And Hurts Like Hell

#14 About 8 Years Ago On Halloween I Went To Clean My Face And Grabbed What I Thought Was A Clump Of Makeup In My Eyelash And Pulled..... Yeah, It Was My Artificial Tear Duct

Andras Angyal argued that it extends beyond the senses and includes the associations we attribute to them. He illustrated his statement by referring to a time he was walking through a field and smelt the pungent, decaying smell of an animal. The moment he realized it was only glue he found the odor “quite agreeable.”
#16 Psoriasis Sucks. ~97% In October Of 2022, Just Before Starting Humira

Paul Rozin continued the studies and coined the term “benign masochism,” which describes “enjoying initially negative experiences that the body (brain) falsely interprets as threatening.” That’s why some people are captivated by horror movies, spicy food, bungee jumping, and cursed or disturbing photos online. They put themselves in situations that cause fear, pain, or disgust without posing any tangible threat.













