#1

When my wife was 14 she was riding in a car with four other kids. Nobody was wearing seatbelts, because, early 1980’s. They T-boned someone going very fast. My wife went through the windshield (head, neck) and then went back into the car (whiplash I guess). The damage to her face and neck happened on the way back in. She got the worst of the damage.
After the EMT’s saw her, they told the LifeFlight (helicopter) not to bother flying her to the ER based on her condition. She was driven to the ER as she barely clinging onto life. Her mom (my MIL) told me that when she was in the waiting room of the ER a nice lady sat and talked with her for quite a while. She was very nice/pleasant and was trying to calm my MIL down. My MIL later figured out this was the person who would be giving her the news that her daughter (my wife) didn’t make it. That part of the story hit me the hardest. My wife was in an induced coma for a long time, required a ton of blood, and had a long recovery process.
Because I’m speaking of her in present tense, you know how the story ended. Mild neck/face scarring was the most notable remnant of the accident. The only signs of brain damage is suspected based on her choice of husband.
If you've never heard of the "Rule of Three," it's knowledge that's crucial for survival. Basically, a person can survive three minutes without oxygen, three hours in unprotected environments, three days without water, and three weeks without food.
Knowing this helps should you ever find yourself in a situation where you have to prioritize your needs in order to survive. Many people might think to look for food first but that's not the case, say the experts. "Foremost, it is essential to find a suitable shelter, then you require sufficient water. Food is last on this list," notes the Survival Kompass site.
The team adds though, that this rule can change depending on where you find yourself. If you're stranded on a hot, deserted island, water might be your priority.
#2

#3

Only thing im happy about in that experience is that the female friend didn’t drink it and got home safely.
Your mental attitude can also play a crucial role in whether you live or die in tough situations. Believe you'll survive and you might be halfway there. "Any critical situation not only stresses the human body, but also presents a challenge for the mentality," warns the Survival Kompass team.
That's why it's super important not to panic. Instead of helping, panicking could cause you to act recklessly and make wrong (potentially fatal) decisions. The experts advise taking a few seconds to pause before acting.
The next step is to create a plan and think about what needs to be done. And then to put that plan into action. This structured approach is key to preventing impulsive actions, and can help avoid panic.
#4

We head out and there is no cell reception. By the time we can call her doctor we realize the time needed to get to a hospital that has the right level NICU we might as well head back to our hospital. Two hours later we are there and due to Covid restrictions I can’t come in.
It was freezing outside and they wouldn’t let me be anywhere in the hospital where I could lay down so I talked my way into some room in the lobby and tried to sleep while sitting. Got kicked out of there and just bummed around waiting for an update. Around noon they say they’ll be keeping her for observation but I still need to clear out from the rental.
Driving back two hours and it starts snowing pretty hard. It’s a semi rural area and if they do plow the snow they haven’t gotten there yet. I’m being careful and fighting off sleep. The roads are super winding and high in the mountains. At some point car starts drifting across the double lines.
I did my best to even out but it completely got away from me. Slide through the opposite lane and continue to the shoulder. I see the ledge and realize if the car doesn’t stop I’ll plummet to my death. Have a brief moment where I think about my daughter and the kid in my wife’s belly I haven’t met yet. Felt like a stab in my heart and that second go off the road completely.
Fortunately there was enough snow in the space between the ledge to trap my car. I passed out in the crash but luckily a couple was a minute or two behind me and their honking snapped me out of it. They pulled me out of the car and went to get help (no service on the mountain). A couple of other people stopped including a guy who had a big pickup. We dug the car out some and rigged the rope so he was able to pull me out.
Despite Covid I had to be physically removed from both these guys because I was hugging them so tight. I was able to make it back to the hospital without anyone knowing. Told them after the kid was born. Sent my guardian angels pictures and $100 gift cards as if that’s adequate.
#5

I was coming home from a party at 2am in 2016, and made a conscious choice to drive through town rather than take the big highway that skirts the city limits. It would add like 10 min to the trip but hey, it was the first time I'd been back in ages.
That decision literally almost k**led me. Not even 5 minutes after that, the 3 lane "highway" (really just a wide road) passed in front of a mall, and there was a signal light there. Well some drunk idiot decided to turn right into the mall from the far left lane, and I was in the middle lane. I had absolutely no time to stop so I slammed into the side of his car at 65 mph. I remembered yelling "SH**TT" and trying to keep control of the wheels to get the car off the road onto the grass before I blacked out for a few min.
The airbag and the seatbelt combined had fractured my sternum which took the air out of my lungs and made me faint I guess? But it didn't feel like I "woke up" more so like my vision came back into focus and I was aware. But those few moments I was still kind of conscious and in IMMENSE pain. Worst I've ever EVER felt in my life. I hurt from the skin on the soles of my feet to my scalp. Every single inch was in pain and I was like, "So I'm dead, this is my body telling me I'm dead."
So when I came to, heat hit me cause my car was f****d and the engine was as hot as standing IN a fire. So I was convinced my car was about to go up (it didn't), so I tried to get out but the door was wedged shut from the crash and I started to panic. I put my back against the passenger seat and kicked the door over and over until it opened and climbed out.
Every single police officer, EMT, and even the tow truck guy, took one look at my car and told me "You shouldn't have walked away from that crash AT ALL. The fact that all you have is a fracture and some lacerations is a literal miracle".
So yeah, that's how I almost died and thought for sure I was dead but got lucky.
#6

Didn’t see until it was too late that a car had spun out on the other side of the corner and another car had pulled up to help. I slammed on but I wasn’t going to stop in time before hitting the cars pulled up/crashed. I was hurtling straight towards the other cars and people who where stood in the road from the other crash. It was like time slowed down and I was at a cross roads; in my mind I had three choices. Continue on my path and hit the other cars and people, veer to the right and go into a field but there was oncoming traffic and there was a chance I’d hit them or veer to the left and fly into a wooded area. I chose the last option, and in that moment I knew the chances of me surviving or not being seriously injured after a 40MPH head on collision to a tree in a 10 year old Ford KA was pretty slim. I just felt a complete peace come over me, turned the wheel and woke up slumped over the steering wheel to some poor man shouting ‘OMG I THINK SHES DEAD’
Turned out I passed out from shock or something before the impact so when I hit the tree I was completely floppy and this contributed to me having no serious injuries. The front of my car was completely disintegrated, after coming to I tried to put my clutch down to take the car out of gear out of habit and my foot hit the tree trunk. The tree was absolutely fine. I drove past that tree everyday for years after and you could see the chunk my car took out of it.
When it comes to water, experts say the usual travel rules about being overly cautious don't apply. Meaning, when you see water in a survival situation, you drink it. Dehydration is deadly.
"This does depend on how far you are from civilisation," notes Getaway magazine. "If there are communities nearby, your water is more likely to be polluted with nasties; what’s more, there’s more of a chance that you’ll find your way to rescue before dehydration kicks in. So you can gamble."
#7

I tried one more time to kick with all of my might. One leg slipped out and I was able to get the other out after. I was fine. Totally f*****g spooked, but physically ok.
#8

Fast forward to things getting worse and to being taken to the hospital and them saying it's probably a migraine. I have migraines and this was no migraine. A quick witted nurse saw how confused I was (couldn't remember my birthday or our sons bday or even how to sign my name) and she took my temp and did a urine test. As she's taking my temp she goes whoa whoa have you taken your temp before? Your temp is 104! Suddenly all these alarms go off and I can't move. My body felt like I was locked up in a giant cramp-I was having a fever induced seizure but was conscious for the 1st bit. I saw just a storm of drs and nurses and equipment rushing in the assessment room, I thought omg my husband is going to get a call that im gone or a vegetable and my son won't have his mother and this kid in me won't know life.
Then nothingness. Lucky for me they just covered me in ice to bring down my temp that stopped the seizure. They took me to ICU and sent me for an MRI and all I remember is them telling me they may have to put me in a coma and do I want my life to take priority over the life of the baby. Sitting in that icu room in total isolation (they didn't know if it was bacterial or viral for a day or two so no one could visit) I had alot to think about and really had to come to terms that I may not make it out of this and my baby may not either. You have to make your peace and stop fearing death and kinda get to work. I wrote letters to loved ones thanks to a very brave and kind nurses help. Happy to report it ended up being viral meningitis. I fought hard and both myself and now my perfectly healthy 3 yo son are doing great. Still have the letters in my safe and hope I never need them handed out. It was a long road to recovery but I've never taken my health or life for granted again.
#9

After feeling like I was baking in an oven I laid my head down on the floor thinking I'd never see my son again and how sad it was to die. It felt like eternity and felt very lonely. My boyfriend somehow found his phone on the floor, called 911. Fire department showed up in what felt like two seconds but couldn't break down the front door. They shined the flashlight up to window so he could kick out the AC unit, which he did. They finally came upstairs and we crawled to them and they took us straight to the burn unit since they didn't know what shape we were in. I'm pretty sure the entire hospital toured through our room since they've never seen anyone make it out and look the way we did.
The Red Cross warns that wild water sources can also have harmful viruses and pathogens that could cause waterborne illnesses. So it pays to know how to purify the water you come across. If you're lucky, you might have tablets, iodine drops, or a UV light purifier on you. But if not, boiling water may be your best option.
And if there's zero water to be found, one of the most famous wilderness survival experts Bear Grylls says it's fine to drink your pee.
#10

Any time you close your hood make sure it latches securely by pulling on the hood like you're trying to lift the front of the car off the ground!
#11

#12

So I do the pushing bit, hear the girl cry, but feel a LOT of pain still along with a... gushing sensation. Me, not having any point of reference assumed this was normal, but started to get woozy & sort of disconnected feeling. Then I hear my aunt, who was with me, say, "Should she be bleeding that much?" The doctor said, "No, but I'm trying to stop it." I remember a feeling of confused panic, then I passed out from blood loss. Apparently as soon as the pushing started, my uterus ruptured & I nearly bled to death.
Whether you need heat to stay warm, or a way to boil water, being able to light a fire is going to come in handy. But what if you don't have a lighter or matches? According to Grylls, one way is to pierce a lithium cellphone battery with a knife. It should explode and create sparks. Not something you want to try unless absolutely crucial...
"Alternatively, if you quite like your cellphone, a bit of wire wool and a 9V battery will work almost as well: just touch the wool to both terminals of the battery, and you’re away," advises a travel writer who attended one of Grylls' survival courses.
#13

The kid was 11-12. He did have his own paintball gun, and had already shot me a couple times before I got him. He was my cousins neighbor. I think it was the first time I ever met him. It was 20ish years ago, as I'm 33 now, so I can't even remember if I told my parents. I don't know if anything happened to him or not. I'll ask my cousin.
Cousin said we never told parents. Maybe we were scared of retaliation. I know I never touched that paintball gun again though.
#14

Some dude in a truck pulled me out and I drove on a flat to the other side and swapped my tire out.
#15

As we mentioned earlier, finding or building a shelter is critical. They create a barrier from predators, harsh environmental elements and offer a sense of security. The Red Cross advises that you first find a suitable location.
"Look for a nearby water source and access to trees for firewood as well as potential food sources you can hunt or trap," notes the site, adding that you should use natural materials when building your base.
"Look for grass and other soft materials that you can use to sleep inside your shelter. Rocks help build the structure of a shelter and surround a fire."
The next step is to create a small framework that can be piled high with available debris like moss, ferns, grasses, leaves, and pine needles. "Pack the inside of the shelter with debris, and the entrance is sealed to prevent convective heat loss," advises the organization.
#16

#17

#18

I had blown a rear tire. Hitting the brakes was a terrible terrible choice.
#19

Thankfully for everyone involved, one of the students on the beach had flagged down a couple of surfers, who made their way out to where we were as quickly as they could and hauled first the younger student and then me onto the front of their boards and took us back to shore. I’ll always be thankful and appreciative for those strangers who put themselves in the dangerous position of rescuing two drowning swimmers
Edit: As several people have pointed out, it’s not uncommon for people to die doing what I did, i.e swimming into the water to rescue a drowning swimmer without training or equipment; there are a few techniques for rescuing someone drowning in the comments that everyone should learn if they’re ever in the unfortunate situation of having to use them. I should’ve used them, but I was 17 and not thinking straight at the time and almost paid the price because of it.
#20



