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People Are Sharing 40 Things That Are Completely Normal In Their Culture But Would Be Considered Weird Elsewhere
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People Are Sharing 40 Things That Are Completely Normal In Their Culture But Would Be Considered Weird Elsewhere

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We tend to glide through life doing countless little things every day without any second thought. But the truth is that our lifestyle, views, and values are strongly influenced by the culture we’re exposed to. And if there’s one thing we can all agree on, customs and traditions vary widely around the globe. It’s a part of what makes our beloved planet such a diverse and charming place to live, isn’t it?
Traveling is a great way to learn about the similarities and differences people share with others across borders. After all, a thing that seems ordinary to us may look totally bizarre to people elsewhere. Thankfully, with the internet at our fingertips, those of us confined to our countries can expand our perspectives from the comfort of our own homes. So one Redditor, kerris2508, decided to delve deeper into the facts about other parts of the globe.
Recently, they reached out to the 'Ask Reddit' community with a very fine question: "What is something that in your culture is normal, but in another place is a weird thing?" People jumped to type out their honestly fascinating examples, and the thread immediately became a hit. We’ve hand-picked some of our favorite responses to share with you, so check them out down below. Be sure to upvote the ones you have not heard about before, and if you know any odd quirks about your home country, let us know about them in the comments!
Psst! If you’re keen to broaden your cultural awareness even more, take a look at Bored Panda’s earlier piece right here.

#1 USA

Bankrupting people with medical debt. 🇺🇸
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#2

Let's just all get on the same page, and all agree to take our shoes off indoors, shall we?
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#3 India

Swastikas are very core of Hindu culture and you will find one (if not very many) in almost all Hindu households. Unfortunately they were hijacked by some crooked people and mean something else in whole rest of the world, since.
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Among the endless list of things our environment and upbringing can tell about us, strange cultural norms are included as well. After all, growing up in any community will inevitably lead to gaining particular assumptions about the world and how everything is supposed to be. And since there is rarely one true way of doing anything, the differences between their lifestyles can vary significantly.

Anthropologists believe there are over 3,800 distinct cultures in the world, but in reality, that number is much higher. Humans are complicated little beings, so it’s almost impossible to tell the exact number of unique communities because of how hard it is to draw the line between their identities. Cultures are not restricted to specific regions or territories, and it’s possible to find countless communities with different belief systems and customs in one area. But if we can agree on one thing, every single one of them has something important to teach us.

#4 Denmark

Denmark
To leave the stroller (with the sleeping baby inside it) outside a café, while the mom/dad sits inside - if the weather is good. (Denmark)
Edit: It's a common thing all over Scandinavia/Scandinavian Peninsula - I'm specifically mentioning Denmark because I live here.
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#5 Pacific Island, Samoa Or Tonga

When getting a traditional body tattoo, you lie on the hard floor with strangers “stretching” your skin for the tattoo artist to pierce. One person is designated to wipe your blood 🩸 and excess ink and the tattoo session usually lasts over a couple of back-to-back days or a week depending on a few things.
While you are being held down and your skin stretched, women fan you and sing you songs.
When getting this tattoo, it’s common for you to ask someone to be your tattoo partner. Meaning the other person will have to come with and get the same tattoo as you. This is somehow meant to ease the pain, encourage you, and so they can lend some of their strength to you and also for luck so you won’t die in the process (as many did in the past from infection or whatnot).
The tattoo itself is done with boars teeth or carved whale/shark bones, but nowadays some artists use steel needles. Men are tattooed from the torso to to their knees (also around the penis and almost to the butt crack).
Women get it from the the knees to the top part of their thighs.
After days of pain, you will have to dance for your family party to show your tattoo and to have a grateful celebration in that you didn’t embarrass your family by not finishing the tattoo.
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#6 America

America
Celebrating a chubby, mystical, groundhog that can predict the end of winter based on its shadow :o
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It’s impossible to become an expert in all of them, but delving deeper into the ways of life that interest you is a rewarding experience. To learn more about the benefits of discovering the unexplored territories of other cultures, we reached out to travel and lifestyle blogger Kate. She runs a successful website called Sunshine Adorer, aiming to spark our desire to go out on adventures by showing the beauty of this planet.

Kate told Bored Panda it’s very important and equally interesting to learn about other cultures, especially those that are completely different from ours. “It can help you always to understand them better,” she said. On top of that, knowing how people function elsewhere helps us when traveling abroad and motivates us to become more knowledgeable and rounded human beings.

#7 US

US
Where I live in the US, we pull over for funeral processions. It’s a respect thing and everyone does it. A friend of mine from a different part of the states saw me do this while driving once and was SO confused and made fun of me out of confusion. It’s so common I didn’t realize some people don’t do this.
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#8

Driving long distances. In Canada and the US (and I assume other large countries) people don’t think anything of driving 3-4 hours round trip in a day and driving longer distances for a longer stay. I’ve spoken to people in the UK who think driving an hour is an incredibly long distance.
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#9 Sweden

Sweden
Getting a sausage from a hardware shop
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While “cultures have many parts you can explore, I like to start learning about the differences in the daily lifestyle of other nations. Anytime I travel to a new place, I am curious about what kind of food they have and how they live/work on a daily basis. After that, you can move on to learn more about their tradition, history, language or whatever you are interested in,” the travel blogger said, adding that you can go as deep into exploring them as you want. Or at least as much time you have to spare.

#10 China

China
Guests pay to attend the wedding banquet. Depending on who you invite, it's quite common for the newlyweds to make a decent profit.
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#11 Ireland

Ireland
Cheering in a pub when someone drops a glass.
Saluting magpies
saying "bye bye bye buh bye, bye now, bye bye bye, buh bye..." a hundred times before you hang up the phone.
Going to the funeral of anyone you even remotely know. Our funerals can be massive.
Waving a salute to anyone you pass on the road.
Leaving the pub without telling anyone.
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#12 Finland

Finland
Being casually naked in same room with strangers, sometimes even with opposite sex. In this case, it's of course good ol' finnish sauna.
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Is there a better way to learn about the differences in nations than packing your bag and flying off to scour them for yourself? While traveling may mean something slightly different for everyone, it is a learning experience unlike any other. It inspires people to seek out new places, immerse themselves in and embrace different cultures, and soak up as much knowledge as they can before jumping off to their next adventure. And Kate wholeheartedly agrees, saying that leaving your comfort zone to probe other lands is one of the best ways to learn from other people.

“It does not matter how much TV you watch or how many movies you saw, you can never have the same experiences as when you go there personally.” Kate pointed out that to really understand other communities, you need to “go out swimming” and feel it for yourself. “Also, there are things that you can’t see on TV, so you need to be there to perceive them.” The travel blogger explained that it’s reasonable and encouraged to have some ideas about the place you wish to see, but you can gain much more knowledge by experiencing it firsthand.

#13 UK

UK
Using a puzzling mixture of metric and imperial measurements, for example, measuring cooking ingredients in grams but measuring body weight in stones.
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#14 Nepal

 Nepal
Addressing strangers using terms used for family members like brother, sister, uncle, aunty, grandpa, etc. The most common being brother/sister. We have unique words representing all 4 variations of little/big brother/sister.
And guess what, one day you would be calling a girl 'baini' (little sister), that girl be calling you 'dai' (big brother) and a couple weeks later you are dating each other and ditch the sibling style addressing. Then you either call each other by name or come up with nicknames.
Edit: I'm from Nepal.
131points

#15 Australia

Australia
Calling someone a c**t is sometimes a term of endearment. It's all about intonation, as in "cuuuuunt", translates to "maaaate".
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When asked about the peculiar quirks or things from her culture that may seem odd to the rest of the world, Kate told us it’s really hard to choose them because, for her, it’s completely normal. “If I can lean on tourists’ reviews, I can say they are surprised at some foods that we eat.”

Throughout her travels, however, she has seen plenty of customs and behaviors she didn’t know about before. “What I would say about my travels abroad (and mainly out of Europe) is I had some weird surprises. When I went to countries in North Africa or the Middle East, I met local people who were rude, and I did not feel welcomed.” Kate explained this felt strange to her since she has been taught from childhood to be kind and welcoming to others, especially guests. “However, nature was beautiful and the weather was good, so in total, I did not regret traveling there.”

#16 Canada

Hold the door open behind you a minute ahead of the next person, making the person run to it, then expect a thank you.
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#17 All East Europe

In my culture it is considered an insult to refuse food offered to you in someone else’s home if you are their guest
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#18 New Zealand

Greeting each other by pressing noses and foreheads together.
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If reading the responses from this thread sparked a desire to see different cultures for yourself, Kate mentioned a few things to keep in mind before venturing into lesser-known waters. “If you travel to a country for the first time, always try to find out as much information as you can. And if you travel to farther countries or other continents, then be extra careful.”

First, find out what kind of documents you need for your trip, as well as the locations of embassies and consulates in case you need to contact them. “Then read for safety advice and useful information about the destination. Also, read more carefully about countries with different cultures or religions before you go there. Furthermore, have travel insurance.”

#19 Sweden

Eating very salty licorice.
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#20 USA

Saying “No, Yeah” to mean yes/agree and “Yeah, No” to mean no/disagree. And “Yeah, yeah no” as fk no and “No no, yeah” as of course. Changes with inflection.
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