#1
I hadn't told them where I lived.
#2
We went to dinner later and she complimented my skin again, then asked to touch it. I had no clue what to do with that question and said “sure” against my instincts. She reached across the table and put her hand on my cheek for a few seconds before stopping. Very weirded out at this point.
When I was leaving my mom’s a few days later, she stopped in and AGAIN goes, “you really have such beautiful skin!! Can I hug you?” Again, against my better judgement, I said “sure” and she hugged me.
My mom doesn’t talk to her anymore for unrelated reasons but I was worried she was going to ask to wear my skin next….
#3
Anyways, I walk up to the family event to greet my uncle. First thing he said was "wow you look good....*licks his lips* you're shaped like a woman now" as he took a step back to look me up and down.
That strange, delayed-reaction chill you get when replaying a seemingly normal comment is a real and powerful neurological event. We call it a "gut feeling" or intuition, but according to experts at the University of New South Wales (UNSW), it's not a mystical sixth sense.
They explain that your brain is a supercomputer that is constantly processing vast amounts of information subconsciously, drawing on all your past experiences and social cues to spot patterns. When someone says something that sounds innocent on the surface but their tone or body language is slightly "off," your brain recognizes this mismatch long before your conscious mind can pinpoint the problem.
According to Dr. Joel Pearson, a professor of cognitive neuroscience, this happens so fast that your conscious mind isn't even aware of the processing. That feeling of unease is your brain's alarm system, telling you that the words you heard don't match the data you're receiving.
#4
Creeped me out at the time, but the older I get, the memory just keeps getting worse lol.
#5
#6
I just said “ok” and then he asked “are you not going to say thank you? Do you not think you’re handsome?” I just said idk and took whatever minor punishment I had for my infraction, which was most likely detention.
Thinking back, I’m very lucky I didn’t do something really bad, because corporal punishment was a thing in my school, and I shudder at the idea of what that pervert would do if he got to paddle me.
The most extreme and terrifying examples of this phenomenon come from the mouths of infamous serial unalivers, many of whom were masters of the "mask of sanity." People like Ted Bundy or Dennis Rader were known for their ability to appear completely normal, even charming and friendly, to their neighbors and coworkers.
They lived double lives, and their seemingly innocent, everyday comments are rendered horrifying in retrospect, once you know the truth of who they were. A simple phrase like "I like to go for drives at night" is no longer a casual hobby; it becomes a statement about hunting for victims.
Many of their quotes reveal a shocking self-awareness of their own duality. David Berkowitz, the "Son of Sam," said, "Well, you got me. How come it took you such a long time?" This is a disturbingly calm and normal reaction to being caught in NYC’s biggest manhunt, showing the creepy nonchalance that people like him could muster up.
#7
#8
Him: … your wrists are so small, I can grab it with my hand.
Me: yeah…?
Him: …. I wonder if I can fit one hand around your neck.
Ghosted him the next day.
#9
I stopped seeing him for an unrelated reason, but it occurred to me as I got older that instances like that was pretty weird.
Of course, not every unsettling comment is a sign that you're in the presence of a future criminal. Sometimes, the creepiness comes from a place of pure, unadulterated social awkwardness, delivered by someone who is, by all accounts, a perfectly nice person. Pop culture has given us the patron saint of this phenomenon: Tom Haverford from Parks and Recreation.
He is a fiercely loyal friend and a genuinely good guy, but his romantic playbook seems to have been written by an alien who doesn't quite get the hang of the whole thing. Tom's brand of weirdness lies in his complete lack of a natural filter. He deploys strange, made-up slang and delivers compliments that sound less like sweet nothings and more like a strange inventory of a woman's features.
In the warm, funny context of a sitcom, his over-the-top lines are hilarious. But if a real-life stranger at a bar told you they were "daydreaming about your mouth," you'd be signaling the bartender for help. So, just remember that a comment can be both harmless in its purpose and deeply creepy in its delivery.
#10
#11
2. I was talking to my aunty about the a***e we endure at home from my dad and she says "you better consider yourself lucky. We had it worse when we we're kids"... sorry....
#12
He found me on Facebook.
He found my LinkedIn.
He found my address in property records.
Send me a pic of my house like it was a cool magic trick. And he asked me about the uni I went to.
I was not impressed.
A first date is a h**h-stakes performance, and it’s arguably the most common setting for a seemingly innocent comment to land with a thud of pure creepiness. Both people are nervous, trying to impress each other, and often overthinking every word. This pressure-cooker environment is the perfect breeding ground for a compliment to go dreadfully wrong.
Relationship writer Karley Sciortino, in an article for Vogue, lays out the unwritten rules for what to avoid on a first date, and many of her warnings pinpoint the source of this accidental creepiness. She advises against talking about exes, getting too deep into your personal traumas, or making grand, premature declarations about the future.
A comment like, "I've been looking for someone like you my whole life," might be intended as the ultimate compliment, but to the person on the receiving end, it sounds less like romance and more like you've already picked out the curtains for your life together.
#13
My gynecologist touched my legs telling me how nice they are and then did a procedure on me on the chair with his utensils. After was done he said:“ Now I was your first time.“ and I laughed it off cause it was my first time ever being at a gynecologist.
#14
I was fourteen.
Oh - and another thing that happened at the same age. I was visiting my mom’s gym and relaxing in the hot tub. A guy in his 20s-30s came into the tub and started asking me about my life. Where’d I go to school? Was it going okay? Did I have any friends? A boyfriend? What about my parents? So your dad isn’t around, huh?
My parents did *not* teach me jack s**t about stranger danger or anything. I just felt uncomfortable, but entertained him because that’s what my mother would have told me to do - “Be nice, don’t be rude.” So that’s what I did. Again, I didn’t like it and something did feel “off”, but I didn’t know what it was. I got out ahead of him to go to the bathroom. He asked me if I was coming back and I said sure. My mom was in the changing room and said it was time to go because she was ready to go home, so that’s what we did. It didn’t occur to me for quite some time how f****d up that situation was, and how badly it could have ended.
#15
So, what should you do when you get that chilling, delayed-reaction feeling? The experts say: listen to it. According to a report from the BBC, your gut instinct is your brain using rapid, non-conscious processing to make a judgment call. It takes "cognitive shortcuts" based on a lifetime of experience, and when it comes to social situations, we are all seasoned experts.
We've been reading people's tones, body language, and intentions since we were babies. That feeling of unease is your internal alarm bell, a signal that something doesn't add up. While intuition can sometimes be clouded by our own biases, in situations involving personal safety, it's an invaluable t**l.
The advice isn't to blindly obey the feeling without question, but to use it as a trigger for heightened awareness. When your gut tells you a comment was "off," it's your cue to stop being polite, start paying closer attention, and give yourself permission to create distance or leave the situation.
What is the creepiest one-liner you have ever been dealt? Tell us in the comments which red flags we should be looking out for!
#16
#17
It seemed like an odd adjective to use and just got creepier the more I thought about it.
#18
-My highschool chemistry teacher… in the middle of a test as she was making rounds. (It was my cologne).
#19
I worked at a variety store for a couple of years, and some sketch bag poked his head in and said that. Turned out he then robbed another variety store that same day, according to one of my regulars.
Edit - I should clarify that I had a regular in the store when the dude poked his head in. My theory is that if there wasn't someone else there, he would have held me up.
#20
How did you meet her ?
I ba**ed her Mom 16 years ago, and she's the result.
Guy quickly moved away from me.