#1

My brother-in-law suddenly hurried over to me and escorted me out of the store quickly. He put me in the car and my sister walked over to him and I heard her ask what had happened. He said that he heard the two men conversing in Spanish that they wanted to take me and sell me. for the rest of the trip I remember every adult around me being weirdly protective. I was mad about it at the time.
I had no clue what that meant until many years later and then I was like... d**n I was almost trafficked. My brother-in-law is a native Mexican but he is incredibly white. Like platinum blonde hair and almost translucent Jim Gaffigan White. We all were white. I think they assumed that No one in our group could speak Spanish and so I think they were less guarded than they would have been normally. And he overheard them.
Thank God for my BIL.
#2

I woke up, checked the time, and started to get ready for work.
Realized I was still dreaming.
I woke up again. Checked the time. It was a little bit later than the first time. Again, I started to get ready for work.
I was STILL dreaming.
I went through that 5 or 6 times, until each time I "woke up", I was panicking since I didn't know if I was awake or still sleeping, but I still got up and started to get ready for work. The last 'wake up' cycle, I would've been late for work.
Creepiest dream I've ever had, even more than my sleep paralysis.
#3

I didn't tell anyone because it was well-known he was a creep among the girls in town. I didn't even process that he was trying to kidnap me until my grandma told me he was arrested for kidnapping a girl. Then I felt so guilty at that time that I didn't mention it to anyone.
Life has a funny way of throwing us curveballs and sometimes, those curveballs land us right in the middle of an awkward or downright embarrassing situation. Maybe you waved back at someone who wasn’t waving at you, or maybe you called your boss “mom.” Whatever the case, those cringe-worthy moments can feel like the end of the world. But embarrassment is a universal experience, no one escapes it entirely.
#4
I started work earlier and was already gone when it happened. My SO told me about it that night. I was upset.
About a week later, I was sitting out on the deck when I saw something in the yard. I looked over the railing and saw what I could swear was "our" cat. I mean, had I not known what had happened, in a million years it wouldn't have crossed my mind that this wasn't her. I ran down to the yard, and she saw me and backed off a little (which "our" cat normally would not have done), so I stopped. But I could see her clearly and again, could SWEAR it was her. I spoke to her the way I always had and she watched me, but didn't come closer. Then she suddenly meowed once, turned and trotted off. I started following her, but she ran faster, and I thought I was scaring her and stopped. She ran around the side of the house. I didn't see her when I looked around the corner, and I never saw her again.
I asked my SO a thousand times if he was SURE that the cat he found was our girl and he swears he knows it was.
I suppose it's possible that there was another cat who looked just like her that happened to wander into the yard that afternoon. But I like to think it was our girl coming by one last time to say goodbye.
#5

#6

Back in my junior year of college, I think it was about a week before school started back up. My friend was a Residential Advisor (RA) and he realized he forgot to make a bunch of posters that needed to go up tomorrow. It was midnight, and he didn't have a car but I did. So, we go to the local Walmart and it's exactly what you envisioned a Walmart at midnight back in 2012-ish. Random people stalking the aisles, the ones you did spot had hoodies on like they didn't want you knowing about their late night ice cream sandwich cravings.
We get to the arts and crafts area of the store and just picking random stuff out. Suddenly a random lady pokes her head into the aisle we're in and is staring at us *hard*. She looked like skin and bones and wrinkles across her face. She suddenly says "Excuse me!" and I'm thinking "oh boy," and she asks about some of the products. I say "sorry we don't work here so we don't really know," and she just goes "oh" and keeps staring at us. At this point we just decide what we grabbed is enough.
We get to the checkout line (before the time of self-checkout) and this same lady is **right** behind us. I'm just going "uhhhhh" but try to avoid eye contact. We check out and leave and me and my bud are joking about it saying "guess that's the Walmart After Dark™ experience." While we're in the parking lot I notice this large black van with no windows parked oddly and it's on and running. I elbow my bud again and laugh and say "watch out, they're gonna kidnap ya" and we're laughing about it. But we hop into my trusty Honda Accord and off we zoot along. But as I'm leaving the parking lot I noticed the Black Van started following us.
I shrug and think to myself hey, sometimes people are going in similar directions. But after hitting 2 different stoplights and make a left turn, *they're still following us.* I'm semi-freaking out and my buddy noticed and I remember a trick which was to keep making left turns to see if the person behind you is actually following you. I did three left turns **AND THEY'RE STILL FOLLOWING US.**
At this point I'm legitimately going "NOPE" and begin driving towards a police station on campus. However, the Black Van knew that we knew, and sped off to God knows who the h**l knows where. I'm just relieved it's over. My friend was convinced we were gonna get mugged or much worse. We get back to the campus parking lot, we can see our dorm. There is a single light in our parking lot that's about 50 feet away from the door we're heading to. We can see hope, we're almost home.
And as we cross from the pavement of the parking lot to the grass, out of the BUSHES some random white dude in a hoodie comes out like he's reverse Simpson. This guy looks like he had been tweaking, I could see the crazy in his eyes. He just walks up and he goes "heeeeeeeyyyy guys, you got a phone I could use???" and instantly I say "oh sorry man, I don't have my phone on me." But my friend? Right as he was going to say something, his PHONE JUST HAS TO GO OFF RIGHT THEN. He just closes his eyes and lets out the loudest (but also silent) sigh I've seen in my life. Him and I are both thinking the same thing: this guy is gonna stab us if we don't get along with him.
My bud reaches into his pocket and begins to hand over the phone when suddenly, red and blue sirens flash behind us. Our heads all collectively dart over and we see a police officer get out of his car. Now at this point I don't know how to read this situation. Are we saved? Is a gun about to be pulled out? Am I just done? The officer speaks up and says "How's everyone doing tonight?"
Me and my bud just awkwardly smile and say "oh we're just trying to go back into the dorm." The officer targets on the Bush Man™ and says "Hey I'd like to chat with you real quick. We got a report about a robbery and it matched your description so we just wanna talk." The man pauses then goes "but I need to make a phone call" and he just sort of wiggles my bud's phone lightly in the air. The officer says "don't worry I got a phone you can use after, why don't you go ahead and hand that back."
I'm holding my breath. My bud is just frozen, and Bushy Boy is just standing there, menacingly. Finally, he just nods and gives the phone back. We say good night and power walk to the dorm door. We get in, close the door, get the h**l away from the windows and then lose our minds. We're laughing either out of joy or of madness. I tell buddy I am never driving him after midnight again, he owes me food after this.
“Embarrassment feels so terrible because it strikes at the core of our social identity and self-esteem,” explains Tatiana Rivera Cruz, MSW, LCSW. “The physical sensations like blushing or sweating can further intensify the discomfort.” It’s a cycle, the more we dwell on it, the worse we feel. And let’s be real, the sweaty palms and hot face don’t exactly help either. But there are ways to break the cycle and come out stronger (and less red-faced) on the other side.
#7

On one of the days, we had an estate sale where 100+ people came throughout the day. An overly friendly older couple introduced themselves to me, saying that they were my grandfather's friends. They mentioned that they saw the shells on the porch and the lady mentioned that she also collects shells and i should come to her house to grab some. I awkwardly laughed and walked away. When i came back around the front of the house, they were talking to my mom's husband about how i should go with them because they live right down the street. My mother's husband immediately agreed on my behalf and i felt weird saying no at this point so i just went with them.
Turns out, their house "right down the street" was actually about 40 MINUTES AWAY by car. As soon as we hopped in the car, they quickly started asking a bunch of questions like what grade am i in, what extracurriculars do i do, am i a party girl or a studious girl, etc etc.
I had to eventually interrupt them to tell them that i was actually 20 years old and not in school... And somehow, after that, they went from super bubbly and friendly, to completely quiet for the rest of the ride. I went to their house, the lady filled a small bag with shells and they quietly (and awkwardly) dropped me back off.
SUPER weird vibes.
#8
I usually get a short tricycle ride to school. To save some cash, you usually wait for other passengers to fill it (3-4 people), otherwise you pay a higher fare. I was the first passenger to ride this one trike and was waiting for other people to fill in.
A few minutes in, a man comes in and asks the driver to go. I don't know what was going on my mind that time but I remember being uncomfortable with this man so I got out of the trike and decided to just walk the distance (it wasn't that long of a ride).
The creepy part of this is when the man also got off the trike and decided to walk in the same direction. It was unnerving and hoping that he wasn't following me. Why would he tell the driver to go without waiting for other passengers, and then also get off when I decided to not take the trike.
What happened afterwards is a blur though. I believe some tricycle drivers noticed that I was being followed, or maybe the driver found it weird and kept an eye on me. After walking for not even a minute, a trike pulled over near me and asked me if I knew the man who was following me and promptly told him no. He asked me to get on and drove to the school without asking me to pay. While this was happening, I saw the man being told off by the other trike drivers and overhearing that they want to take him to the authorities.
And that is how I avoided either a trafficker or a predator when I was a kid.
#9

It scared me so much. Before I had always thought I was quite stoic and psychosomatic stuff was baloney.
I went back to sleep and woke up hours later and could walk. And of course there was pee in the trash can -yuck .
I researched it and found it’s not that uncommon in grieving to suffer physically in a way that mirrors the ailments of the person that died. For the next year I slept with crutches under the bed just in case it happened again.
Interestingly - after my mom died of Alzheimer’s - my father had days of being very forgetful and confused that resolved in time.
Naturally, most people don’t want to talk about the times they made a fool of themselves, it feels safer to keep it buried. But here’s the thing: learning how to bounce back from embarrassment is a real-life superpower. These moments don’t define us, but how we handle them definitely can. And trust us, you're not alone. Sharing those cringey stories might even help you laugh at them, eventually.
#10

Me being 21 and annoyed already with my job just answered “Nope”. He kept asking question after question and I ignored every single one.
Finally he asked my name. I stopped walking, he stopped, and I just stared at him. Literally just stared at him for like 2 solid minutes. Then took out my phone and snapped a picture of him with flash. So it purposely wasn’t discrete.
He drove off.
A week later the same thing happened to another female coworker. She told him to [go away] and called the cops. I gave them the pic I had taken, not sure if anything ever came of it.
Later we all found out there was a string of assaults happening between the buildings so all employees were told to not walk that path anymore. Never found out if it was that guy, but the ick it gave me was indescribable.
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#12
When I was a teen I used to ride a bus to go visit my dad because neither of my parents drove. The ride was from a Northern California town to San Francisco (about 1.5-2 hour ride depending on traffic), where I would meet up with my dad and hop on a train to San Jose.
Well I’m on the bus one day and it’s pretty packed so unfortunately a stranger had to sit beside me. He was a man in his late 40s, early 50s. I’m from a small town and I’ve been raised to smile at everyone I encounter and I have a warm smile. So I assume I looked super friendly to this dude. He began talking to me, telling me that he was on his way home to his wife. He talked about how he loved when she cooked him dinner, and that sometimes he brought people he met home to have dinner with them and she loved it. It was her favorite thing. He talked about this in a circle over and over for the 45 minutes that he sat next to me. The bus driver eventually says loudly “you. Come here right now! Sit in this seat next to me.”
He then proceeds to scold me for talking to people and asks me how old I am. I tell him and he gets more enraged and tells me he will kick me off the bus if I keep talking to people.
I sat awkwardly right there in that seat in silence for the remainder of the ride. I didn’t see where the man got off. I remember feeling so confused about everything. Why was that man so talkative? How could his wife be so excited for him to bring home random strangers from his bus rides (not to mention a 14 year old girl!!) Why was the bus driver so mean? Did he not care what happened to me if he dropped me in the middle of nowhere in the dark?
As an adult I now have way more sinister questions about that encounter….
The first step? Understand that the moment is over. It happened, and no amount of obsessing can undo it. Remind yourself: it’s in the past. Embarrassment often clings because we replay it in our heads like a bad movie. So stop the re-run. Bring your focus back to the present. Ground yourself in what’s happening now, not what happened five minutes (or five years) ago.
#13

When I got home from school, I told my mom I tried to wave at her during recess but she said she got home just a few minutes before my siblings and I did. I just said "oh never mind, I'm just kidding." But the more I think about it......there was some lady in my parent's bedroom window that was strangely opening and closing the curtains for several minutes.
#14

I FROZE. He started leading me onto a train and I followed, gently complying, then when the doors were about to close I broke free, bolted out the door and back onto the platform. Looking back, it is pretty clear to me and terrifying to me how close I was to being kidnapped, likely by human traffickers.
#15
Next, be kind to yourself. Seriously, would you berate your friend if they tripped in public? Probably not. So why are you doing it to yourself? Try to replace harsh self-talk with a little compassion. You're human, and humans make mistakes. Remind yourself of that simple truth the next time you're mentally facepalming at something you did.
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#17

Anyways I once had a coworker that used to ask where I would hide if there was an active pew pew person in the building. While staring me down and his pupils dilating. I would laugh and say I wouldn't tell him cause then he'd take it in case of an apocalypse. It snapped him out of that transe and he would laugh and say maybe. That happened a few times. And what I would do if held gun point etc and I would have to say "I already have been, it wouldn't be new to me" and he would get disappointed and start laughing saying how it's a joke and everyone finds that question funny.
#18

A few weeks later I was talking to someone via chat and I mentioned the subreddit to them, and out of nowhere I started getting chat requests from the members of that subreddit. I accepted a few of the chats and they were speaking to me, very aggressively, with similar gibberish that filled their sub. I blocked them all and never heard from them again. I don't know what the h**l it was all about, but it made my skin crawl.
Humor is another great tool. It may sound impossible in the moment, but finding the funny in a situation can totally shift your perspective. Laughed so hard you snorted in a meeting? Classic. Tripped in front of your crush? It’s practically a movie scene. If nothing else, it makes for a good story later, and hey, everyone loves a good story.
#19
#20

Movement caught my eye and I looked down and saw a quarter rolling across the carpet, which stopped right at my feet. I'm sure there's a perfectly rational explanation for it, even if I have no idea what it was, but at the time my heart just stopped cold.
On a more humorous note, one late night I was out running in the dark. I happened to be doing Zombies Run! at the time and was running from zombies. You know how you get a sudden premonition there's something evil behind you, and you turn around and there's nothing there and then you laugh at yourself?
Well, I turned around and there's a large, sinister creature lunging at me to wrestle my soul to h**l. OK, it was the world's friendliest golden retriever who thought we were having a marvelous game of chase, but it took my brain a moment to process that, during which time I nearly pooped myself.


