At about 11pm, a family friend texts me this: ( as accurately as I remember)
"Look, I thought I could do it. I can't. It's been six months since it happened and nobody even cares anymore. He's just a kid. I do not want to be any further involved, ask someone else."
About 30 seconds later,
"Oh, sorry, that was just a mistake. I meant to send that to my brother, we're just messing around."
I don't know man.