“Sickening”: 47 Times Women Deeply Regretted Looking Through Their Partner’s Phone

Another girl texting him a positive pregnancy test while I was 5 months pregnant.

My partner at the time telling his ex she would be a great step mom to mine and his unborn baby while I was 3 months pregnant recovering from a head on car accident (caused by someone under the influence).

In 2015, the guy I was dating said we should swap phones and go through them. So we did. He found nothing on mine except for thousands of selfies and text convos with me and my friends. However, I found him propositioning women in their DMs on his Facebook and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM REJECTED HIS ADVANCES. He was trying to cheat but didn’t have the options to do so. How embarrassing. I broke up with him just off the fact of YOU CAN'T GET NO [WOMEN]!

He had notes of how many women he was sleeping with each week and checking off and planning how schedule how to see all the women he did through the week.

My sons dad telling another woman our 3 week old son was his NEPHEW.

He had developed a second relationship with a coworker at a job I did the application & recommendation for him to get. I only found out because he got drunk & lost his phone & I set up the new one.

It was my birthday. We had a 1 year old. We were young and broke and never got to do anything. I was BEGGING him to just do something with me for my birthday. Just spend time with me, something. He was literally ignoring me sitting in front of him, just scrolling and texting on his phone. I got so pissed off, I went to my car, hacked into his messenger and found the messages between him and a coworker. That he was sending RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME.

I didn’t really go thru his phone. He was in another room & his phone went off, he told me to hand it to him. One of his boys texted him telling him how lucky he was to have me bc he could cheat on me & I wouldn’t even know it bc I can’t hear it. The message my ex sent prior to that was about how badly he wanted to [sleep with] a woman at work.
Not only was the experience extremely jarring for me, I had no idea people thought of deaf people that way. It was soul crushing for real.

He had a text convo with his ex girlfriend telling her that we weren’t serious and to set him up with someone. Dumped him IMMEDIATELY.

A single message saying “i don’t know what to say”, my ex deleted the thread which i recovered that read “what about your wife” & my ex saying “well if i can’t have you, i’ll just be miserable with her.” Divorced shortly after that.

About halfway through our relationship, I was basically my ex's mother. Paying the rent, helping him with his business without pay, doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, etc. while he just "worked" and messed around on his phone. I was over $30k in debt bc I was paying for everything. Then I saw him DMing girls about how he couldn't wait to break up with me and run away with them. He begged me to forgive him after that and I told him I never would.

I got with a man much older than me, I didn't really love him or anything we kinda started seeing each other then I got stuck and bam we moved across country on a whim and tried to make it work. We were both married to others but was in a sorta polyamorous relationship that ended up crashing and burning.
BUTTTT everytime I would check his phone he was cheating on me with MEN WHO WERE MY AGE OR YOUNGER. Gave me serious ick and I got to a safe place away from him asap.

A woman using his unusual surname as her own texting him to say how much he loved him and missed him.

Definitely a girl sending him a picture of her belly saying she thinks it’s gonna be a boy while I was 7 months pregnant with our daughter.

Grindr on my boyfriends phone when we just got a house.

He looked through my phone to see if I was cheating, I wasn’t. Then I was like wait.. I’m so faithful lemme look through his phone. [He] had ALBUMS of girls from our hometowns, and also pics of an engagement ring for me. Like huh?? I then posted on his Facebook and told the girls boyfriends.

Rolling over first thing in the morning to see a message on his phone say the classic, I need you to go to the doc with me.
While we were trying to get pregnant.
I watched another woman carry the love of my life’s baby.
Sickening what people put other people through.

He saved a photo of a girl topless in his bed, wearing his military tags, into his NOTES APP. God sent me looking there cuz I was clueless and didn’t even know what a notes app was.

Messages from his sister talking absolute smack about me, after I had helped put her baby to rest after it passed. Drove her to the cemetery, visited her in the hospital. I was mortified.

My MIL sending my husband a text saying how messed up my mother and I were because we didn’t bow down and do what she and my SIL wanted. Went no contact for a long time after that.

Not his phone. It was in our SHARED Dropbox—
Screenshots of conversations between him and one of his students. The one where he told her to only wear her [attractive] shoes on the weekend was when I knew.
But when I saw the pics of her snuggling with MY DOG… that’s when I really lost it.
Ruining his life messing around with his students (multiple) is one thing.
Bringing my dog into it likely earned him a special place in Hell.