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Two weeks later, the DO calls me again. Apparently, the son had "tried to make improvements," messed it up, then wiped the server to cover up his tracks saying it was a hard drive error or something. So I got paid AGAIN to do the same job all over again. Even easier because I didn't have to wait for the install to work on the workstations.
It’s not just that blatant nepotism is bound to breed resentment and frustration among your staff, but you’re also likely to damage your business as a result. For one, you’re not rewarding actually talented and skilled employees who bring you profit. On top of that, the family and friends you hire might not have the right skillset for the job.
Nepotism leads to an unhealthy work environment, low morale, higher employee turnover rates, decreased productivity, and a lack of overall respect for workplace leadership.
For instance, ‘Indeed’ notes that some obvious signs of employers playing favorites with their relatives include behaviors like:
- Ignoring their chronic lateness
- Giving them less work to do than everyone else
- Ignoring their poor performance at work
- Promoting them ahead of employees who deserve to advance
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Some major red flags that your boss might be treating their family or friends preferentially include things like that particular employee being under-qualified, behaving unprofessionally, and not being punished.
Workers who are under the protection of nepotistic bosses also tend to receive better assignments and earn more cash.
There’s no easy way to fix these situations. You need frameworks, guidelines, and systems in place on a company-wide level to ensure that everyone behaves ethically. As part of that, you need to have options for workers to report nepotism and favoritism without the threat of losing their jobs.
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After years of consistent mistreatment and lack of help, I tried to move out of the disability sector and get into aged care. Not necessarily in the programs that my mother ran, just anywhere really. They wouldn't let me, said it wouldn't be fair to other staff.
So I stayed in a horrible job (that left me burnt out and with a permanent back injury yay) because at the time it was my only option. Cue to one day when all my easy shifts are cut and replaced with longer, harder ones, to make way for a new support worker. I fought this through my managers and HR but was ultimately told to suck it up and that it was all done legally. I'm not a petty person, I got along with the new support worker and we became friends pretty quickly. I didn't find out straight away, but she was my bosses daughter.
Years later I go for an admin role to get out of my painful job. I had been doing this role for 8 months as an acting scheduler. I was told that I was not suitable for the position due to my lack of experience. They hired someone externally, one of the big managers son, he had no experience, having previously being only unemployed, he lasted a week.
Cue to my ending at this company. I had finally worked my way to a managerial position, running groups for PWD in a centre. My mother ran this centre and had done so for years, but being in different sectors, she wasn't my boss and had nothing to do with me or my groups. The company decided this was 'nepotism', despite me being in the company for 12 years. So they removed my mother from this centre and put my boss in. Who proceeded to royally mess everything up.
She diverted funds from my groups to her failing ones, making it look as if we were in a huge deficit. She had no idea how to do her job, was always sick, working from home or in a 'meeting'. Committed numerous fireable offences but wasnt even warned. Ended up totally destroying not only my groups which had been running for 30+ years, but the centre as a whole and a huge portion of the aged care sector. She didn't even know the names of my staff or clients, but gave off this very wholesome, caring persona. Even after being violently assaulted by my ex partner, told me to continue coming to work as I didn't want to let him effect my income (turns out we actually had DV leave which she chose not to tell me).
So I was fired, made redundant, told that I hadn't been running the program efficiently and that it was all coming to an end. She went on holiday during my last months, didn't even see me once before I left, although I was supposedly like a daughter to her.
They fired my mother too, while she was taking care of my dying stepdad, she had been there 21 years. Apparently she was less experienced than my boss who'd been there 3 years. Gave her a week before she had to leave, put on numerous farewell parties for the other staff they fired (not me though lol) and gave her nothing, then lied to the CEO saying they had put on a huge bash and given speeches. Then when my stepdad died, they told one of my mums friends they'd be sending a representative from the company. It was going to be my ex boss, the woman who got me fired and schemed with the upper managers to get my mother's position. When we declined her offer and told her she was not welcome, she cried to mutual acquaintances that she was being ghosted and didn't know what she'd done wrong.
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Meanwhile, you also need transparent hiring practices and clear rules when it comes to hiring family members.
“Rather than banning the hiring of family members, establish guidelines for these circumstances. For instance, it may be fine for two relatives to work within the same company as long as one doesn’t directly report to the other,” ‘Indeed’ suggests.
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Be honest, Pandas, what are some of the worst, most blatant cases of nepotism that you’ve personally witnessed in the workplace? What happened?
Have you ever called out workplace toxicity before? What was the fallout like? Share your nightmare work stories in the comments.
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My co worker and boss would take smoke breaks together which turned into vacations together. Guess who the promotion went to? Not the ones who were covering for their vacations .
A director promoted his side piece up the ranks and then left his wife for her, claiming he wanted someone with similar career aspects
An admin was “obsessed” with one of the guys and he would act embarrassed that she would order him the fanciest equipment and bring him snacks all the time. One day he told everyone that he thought he saw her followed him home. She got laid off and the guy was treated as a hero for putting up with her. Years later it came out they had been dating but he convinced her to keep their relationship under wraps. He wanted to break up with her so he made her look crazy to the execs to get a clean break.
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Obviously, they were taking a significant portion of the supplies home, despite the fact that they were both extremely well off, with the mother living in an over a million dollar valued house in a moderate cost of living area. The daughter would buy really nice Brawny paper towels for "her branch", but they ran out constantly and everyone else got the cheap stuff. Eventually someone, somewhere caught on and the supplies were delivered to each branch instead of the one, but they never got in trouble or anything. I think it would have been too embarrassing for the CEO to admit what had been happening.
The branch manager was eventually fired for some bs reason. I have no doubt her and her mom's little stunt contributed, as she was fired pretty quickly after the supplies stopped going only to her.
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