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Their top tips on how to successfully handle misunderstandings and disputes include stopping being so precious with what you think you can and can't say, and taking the notion that there are things that can’t be talked about in your relationship off the table.
"Be OK with the consequences of speaking up. Yes, you will hurt your partner’s feelings sometimes. Yes, you will be misunderstood sometimes. Yes, it will turn into a fight now and then, or sometimes regularly. That’s all OK. Hash it out — work through it until it’s resolved. Stop protecting your partner from their feelings getting hurt. Stop protecting yourself from looking bad," the experts advise.
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"When there is something challenging or scary to talk about, set yourself and your partner up for success. Let them know that you need to speak with them about something important," they add.
"Let them know how you are feeling about sharing whatever it is: scared, embarrassed, angry, ashamed, etc. Never blame them for how you feel, and instead take ownership of your experience. For example, let’s say your partner hurt your feelings. Instead of saying, 'You hurt my feelings,' say, 'I feel hurt by what you said.' Or try something like, 'My experience of how xyz went down felt bad to me.' Tell the whole truth."
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Lastly, Maxwells mention that it's important to take responsibility for your part in whatever it is you are addressing.
"Any dynamic in relationships requires two contributors. In your communication, make sure to find and take ownership of yours. Be open to your partner’s perspective. Listen and apologize where you can. Talk through it until it’s resolved for both of you. Practice this regularly. Be willing to fail at it and be bad at it at first, and eventually you will master the art of living 'secret free.'"
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