People Share 30 Signs That Just Scream “This Couple Isn’t Going To Make It”

Having a “fix-it” baby

When they're far more concerned about the wedding than the marriage...

When they take constant little digs at each other in a group setting. They may even claim to be joking, but you can tell they're not.

Controlling the other’s actions.
Won’t let them see friends/family, do hobbies or really anything alone and for themselves.

When the groom smashes the cake into the brides face.

When one party starts a fight in order to keep the relationship "interesting" or "spice things up". While conflicts or arguments are pretty normal, starting up one for the sake of not having a "boring relationship" is bonkers to me.

When the girl has abandoned her own identity to cater to what he wants

Heard a female friend say about her fiancee, "oh he's my little project."

Lasted just over a year. S.h.o.c.k.i.n.g

One that I haven't seen mentioned yet: When the mother, family, or friend(s) dictates the relationship. I understand pointing out legitimate concerns/red flags out of concern. But the amount of jealousy and toxic behavior I come across on reddit of the mother/family/friend intentionally ruining the relationship with the help of the s/o is insane.

Not giving each other the benefit of the doubt when a miscommunication or something happens. Quick to just assume the worse or habits.

I was hanging out with someone, cooking and she said "Oh, take a video of me stirring this so that *boyfriend* knows that I'm actually doing what I said I was doing and not out cheating on him." Or something akin to that. They also bought a house together within 6 months.

His $700 Only Fans monthly bill. Their wedding is in July.

Point scoring. Keeping track of who won the argument, who spent last weekend with friends and for how long, snippy jabs about those things in front of friends and family. Then when an argument inevitably breaks out, bringing out that mental tally and using it as verbal weapon to ‘win the argument’
Seen in happen in a few couples now. All divorced within 10 years

When they have vastly different life/family goals. For example, one wants children and the other doesn’t.

Passive aggressive nitpicking

One party making a whole f**kton of concessions for the other, and that being unidirectional. One person is compromising, but the other is just taking and taking and getting everything they want with no compromise in return.

Desperate people let themselves get taken advantage of because they're worried they'll never find another partner, or they'll be too old to have kids soon, or whatever. The second someone who isn't selfish comes along to attract the downtrodden partner, or when the selfish prick hits them or some other such Rubicon crossing, the relationship falls apart like wet tissue paper.

Reading the AITAH threads and reading all the, "My spouse suggested we open the marriage up to explore [reasons]" posts.

Every time they argue, one of them starts talking about divorce.

Correcting each other in public when it's unnecessary. "Joking" but really being mean. Sly comments and put downs..."oh we just joke around like that". Ok.

Contempt for the other persons hobbies, job, friends, values, abilities...