
Jay Scales
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Jay Scales · upvoted 17 items
about 1 hour ago
How terrible. Not something one could forget, I'm sure.

Frankly, it sounds like someone is in love with a Manic Pixie Dream Girl...and it's not the husband.

Jay Scales · commented on 6 posts
about 2 hours ago

I'd be wanting to know why the husband's attitude has suddenly changed...

Jay Scales · upvoted 8 items
1 day ago

That was absolutely worth the read just for the ending lmao

the boyfriend was so upset he was "unjustly" claimed to have assaulted OP he decided to beyond any reason of a doubt a*****t her by throwing her posessions in a way that could harm her, great guy

Jay Scales · upvoted 8 items
2 days ago

I'm sorry, I already run her through the garbage disposal. But I saved her teeth. Is it enough?

"MIL collapsed and started crying hysterically" This is right out of the Victim Mentality / Responsibility Avoidance playbook. The SECOND there are consequences for your actions, play this card. SMFH.

Jay Scales · commented on a post
2 days ago

This is a very sad situation. I have been a long term carer to an ungrateful spouse (absolutely soul-sapping and debilitating) and I have developed my own invisible illness (ME/CFS) My advice would be to arrange for the children to be elsewhere for a weekend and have several heart to hearts. She needs to understand where the marriage is at. It won't just be one discussion. She needs to absorb it and make a decision to stand up and fight or to part ways. Neither of you are 'wrong'. It's a horrible situation.