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Farah (she/her)

Farah (she/her)

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Hey! I'm Farah! I go by she/her, and I am a cisgender female! I'm still young (at school, heh) and I scroll here when I can't find anything else to do I also work as a part-time face painter! (check out my post) bye <3

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about 6 hours ago

58 Adoption Stories That Would Hit You Directly In The Heart And Absolutely Not Apologize For It
58 Adoption Stories That Would Hit You Directly In The Heart And Absolutely Not Apologize For It

I feel for OP. My adoptive mother was ábusive to me for my entire childhood/young adulthood, but never so much as spánked my sister, her bio child. To this day, my sister and I could be arguing about something and she could slap me across the face unprovoked, and if my mom saw, my mom would blame me and would gang up on me on my sister's side. It was the same all through my childhood - my mom always took my sister's side, even if my sister was the aggressor. It really does hurt, and it stays hurting forever, because it's a betrayal coming from TWO family members that you loved and whom you thought loved you.

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1 day ago

Bro Can’t Pause His PS4 For Sister’s 18th Birthday, She Permanently Pauses 3 Of His Favorite Games
Bro Can’t Pause His PS4 For Sister’s 18th Birthday, She Permanently Pauses 3 Of His Favorite Games

I'm more than a little surprised that a 17 year old boy didn't want to be around a bunch of 17-18 year old girls. That just doesn't sound right to me.

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2 days ago

“I Say It Every Time They Come Visit”: 55 Times Parents Set A Rule For Their Kids And Wished They Hadn’t

yea i had kpop albums (my first ever) that i worked so hard to get. Guess who came home one day with all my merch, magazines, and CDS cut with scissors? (Edit: my collection cost like $200 but it took me so long to gather that amount of money)

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2 days ago

“I Say It Every Time They Come Visit”: 55 Times Parents Set A Rule For Their Kids And Wished They Hadn’t

My stuff was never safe from my parents. Even if I bought things with money I earned babysitting, if they wanted to punish me, they'd take it away and even break it. When I left home, I fought tooth and nail to have all my things packed up and stored in my grandmother's storage locker in her apartment building so my parents couldn't take them, break them, or give them away (favorite tactic of my mother).

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4 days ago

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5 days ago

"I Thought You Were The Dad": 57 Women Share The Most Unhinged Ways They Practice Micro Feminism
"I Thought You Were The Dad": 57 Women Share The Most Unhinged Ways They Practice Micro Feminism

That is what a lot of people would like you to believe. They pick and choose what they want. Let me state right away that I'm not religious, but my parents were Catholics. And if you look at the bible women are actually held in high regard. Mary, Mother of Jesus, Mary Magdalene, Phoebe, called a deaconess, Priscilla, who taught Apollos and helped spread Christianity, early martyrs like Agnes, Cecilia, Lucy, Perpetua, and Felicity to later figures such as Catherine of Siena and Teresa of Ávila.

"I Thought You Were The Dad": 57 Women Share The Most Unhinged Ways They Practice Micro Feminism
"I Thought You Were The Dad": 57 Women Share The Most Unhinged Ways They Practice Micro Feminism

There is usually one person nominated to take the minutes of the meeting which are typed up as a record, and due to secretarial roles being historically occupied by women, it is almost always a woman who is asked to take the notes. I've been there.

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20 days ago

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21 days ago

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27 days ago

“I Don't Have A Red Flag”: 27 Questions That Will Probably Prove You Wrong
“I Don't Have A Red Flag”: 27 Questions That Will Probably Prove You Wrong

The Overthinker You don't just think; you think about thinking. A simple "OK" in a text can send you on a full forensic investigation. Your brain is always running in the background, analyzing, cross-referencing, building timelines of conversations that happened three weeks ago. The people in your life probably wish you'd just ask instead of assuming the worst. But here's the thing: you care deeply, and that's why you spiral. Your red flag isn't that you think too much. It's that you forget other people aren't thinking as much as you are.