
Mars
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Mars · upvoted 40 items
over 4 years ago

Could you imagine how much worse people would perceive this story if it were a woman cornered and unlawfully locked in a room against her will? Because you're a guy, doesn't mean you deserve any less consideration and respect. This behavior is so incredibly disturbing, that if I questioned my fiance and he didn't say it was a problem but that it's actually my fault, the gaslighting bell would be ringing in my head and i'd break up with them then and there. Run, friend, run for your life and find someone who truly respects you, and where their family will only utter the usual "you hurt her, i'll kill you" jangle instead of wanting a fuc*ing credit report.

Them: “Please answer our calls” Me: “If there is something further to be discussed, please send me an email. I require all communication to be in writing.” There was no email. It's usually a red flag when they try to call while correspondence was previously over email or text. Don't fall for it!