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People Share 80 Before And After Pics Of Them Cleaning Up

People Share 80 Before And After Pics Of Them Cleaning Up

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When we get overwhelmed by life, our living space often also suffers. As more and more problems pile up, it can feel like there's never enough time or energy to wash the dishes or do the laundry. And the longer we wait, the bigger the mess, until eventually, it's all there is.
When this happens, the first step is often the hardest.
So if you too need inspiration to make the change, we've got just the thing—r/ufyh is a subreddit that unites people who are trying to “Unscrew Their Habitat.” The best part is that those who participate often share dramatic before-and-after photos of their efforts, reminding us that we can do it too.

#1 Please Don't Judge The Before, I'm So Ashamed

Please Don't Judge The Before, I'm So Ashamed
Cleared my depression pit! Genuinely can't believe how [bad] I am because it took less than a day to do. it feels amazing waking up to a new room every day now though
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#2 Sleeping In A Normal Bed Like A Real Person Tonight. Been Wildly Depressed For... Ever, And I'm Tired Of Letting It Run My Life

Sleeping In A Normal Bed Like A Real Person Tonight. Been Wildly Depressed For... Ever, And I'm Tired Of Letting It Run My Life
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Oftentimes, a messy room might not mean anything more than its owner being short on time.

"Some people simply don't value cleanliness, and they prioritize other things over keeping a room clean," says Weena Cullins, a marriage and family therapist.

"When you think about it, there's a mundaneness and a monotony with keeping up with tasks like this that need to be completed routinely without much more benefit to them than returning to a clean room, so sometimes a refusal to keep a room clean is more about that than anything else."

But it can also be indicative of a bigger issue.

#3 Months Of Depression And Only Eating Uber Eats

Months Of Depression And Only Eating Uber Eats
I still got lots to do. My floors are filthy, zero clean dishes, but it was a huge step. I'm scared of slipping into old habits. I am Bipolar 2, and my atypical depression is a heavy symptom that lasts most the year. It's never gotten this bad in the past. 2021 to 2024 were the worst years of my life for mental health. I am hoping I am slowly making way out of that rut.
Wish me luck that I can keep going.
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#4 This Sub Is Life Changing, This Is A Big Thank You And My Before From When I Joined The Sub (January) Until This Month (September)

This Sub Is Life Changing, This Is A Big Thank You And My Before From When I Joined The Sub (January) Until This Month (September)
I have struggled immensely these past couple of years with health issues and haven’t had any cleaning problems in my adult life until that point. I felt extremely ashamed and alone because I never thought life events could alter my day to day life and routine so much. I did not think that would happen to me. I took myself, my health and my habits for granted. In the beginning of this year I posted some snippets of my progress and the amount of comfort, empathy and useful tips you guys gave me restored my hope in people. I still remember every kind word you left and it gave me a push that has stayed. I never know what the future holds and what will happen in the future but whatever does happen I will carry the weight so much lighter and that is solely because of you guys. Thank you so much, you literally better peoples lives and you don’t even know it. I root for you the way you selflessly rooted for me when I was at a low point.
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#5 Finally Able To Live Life Again

Finally Able To Live Life Again
Crippling addiction. relationship ending horribly. isolation. weight gain. dark depression all lead to the first photo seen here… and now….
I’ve actually done it.
thank you to this sub for showing me it was possible.
time to live again
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A messy room can also be a sign of depression. Several of the criteria for the diagnosis — hopelessness, fatigue, and lack of concentration — can all play a role in why cleaning is constantly postponed, or not even considered at all.

Cullins explains that, in the case of fatigue, many times you're struggling to even get out of bed. "If you can barely get out of bed, it's unlikely that you have the energy to clean your room," she adds.

If you're feeling a little less than hopeful, you might have a hard time understanding why you should bother to organize your stuff since, from your point of view, everything seems to be going wrong anyway.

Cullins notes that, for people with depression, it can be a "struggle to find joy or see a light at the end of a dark tunnel." If it's not going to change anything, why even try?

#6 Taking The Incredible Encouragement From This Sub And Trying To Continue

Taking The Incredible Encouragement From This Sub And Trying To Continue
After getting through my bedroom I decided I'd like to try being able to use my living room. The couch was a dumping ground for my SO having to go through so much of his stuff was harder than I could have thought. I still need to clean the couch but for now it's at least usable.
Also huge thanks for all the support I received on my last post it was definitely great motivation and encouragement to keep going. Thank yall so much
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#7 Cleaned My Depression Pit

Cleaned My Depression Pit
Moved to Big City™️ this year to start my surgery training program. 90 hour work weeks + long distance relationship + no laundry in my building -> this situation. Thank you to this community for the inspiration 🖤
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#8 I Didn't Fail!

I Didn't Fail!
i posted on here a couple weeks ago after reaching a breaking point in my home. my garage was completely inaccessible and all rooms (3 bedrooms + office) were trashed. i worked for about a year to at least claim the main spaces of my home back (entry, living, kitchen, dining). but while the interior of my home improved, my garage got worse and worse. i reached out to a company for help and we cleared out my entire home- garage and all. here are the results of the garage. i probably won't post the inside of my home but the change is unbelievable.
i felt frozen for 5 years and now my life can begin again. i can't quite pinpoint my emotions right now. i feel relief, pride, embarrassment, gratitude... but i also have been feeling a whole lot of nothing. no emotions at all. the last 10 days have been a lot to process and it's strange being here at the end now.
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"While it may sound strange to forget to clean up your room since you're reminded of the condition of the room each day, depression can make you easily distracted," Cullins says.

"So you can intend to put things in order in your room and never find the concentration or the energy to get around to it because you have so many other things going on."

#9 Much Needed Bedroom Clear Out Following Year-Long Grief/Adhd Fueled Depressive Episode

Much Needed Bedroom Clear Out Following Year-Long Grief/Adhd Fueled Depressive Episode
Still depressed but my bedroom is clean now! Bought three plastic tubs and new bedsheets, folded and put away about six baskets of laundry, steamed ~20 shirts, and gave myself permission to throw away a bunch of little things (junk) that I was holding onto. One of the tubs is now full of all the other little things I couldn’t trash, but I’ll work on that another day :)
Never would have made the move to start cleaning if this forum hadn’t popped up on my fyp, so thanks to everyone here for the motivation <3 Now to keep it clean! Any tips on that would be much appreciated
30points

#10 Chronic Illness LED Me To The Mess. I’m Trying To Tackle It At A Manageable Pace. Here’s My Foyer

Chronic Illness LED Me To The Mess. I’m Trying To Tackle It At A Manageable Pace. Here’s My Foyer
I’ve been sick with Lyme disease, and most days I barely have the energy to get out of bed. With two kids and without much support at home, things fell apart quickly. This little room took me 2 days, but I’m trying and I’m making progress! (Though I suspect I’ll be paying for it in fatigue in the coming days. 😬)
28points

#11 Ufyh: Car Edition

Ufyh: Car Edition
About 4 months worth. Isn’t the first time, definitely won’t be the last, but the depressive episodes are at least getting less frequent (this happens about twice a year, vs how it used to be every two months)
27points

#12 Trying Really Hard... Started With The Bathroom

Trying Really Hard... Started With The Bathroom
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It's hard to say exactly how many people let their homes go for too long, but one survey says that, on average, Americans spend about six hours per week cleaning their homes.

Around a quarter (28%) dedicate more than seven hours, while one in five (21%) spend just one to two hours.

However, one in ten (10%) admit they clean for less than an hour each week.

#13 3ish Hours Later. Thanks For All The Encouragement!!

3ish Hours Later. Thanks For All The Encouragement!!
I appreciate this sub so much. Somehow it really works for me to share my mess to hold myself accountable. Sorry if it's too much to post twice in such a short time but I wanted to show everyone how much you all helped me stay motivated, I appreciate you all bunches and bunches!!! I included my before pic too in the hopes that it helps someone else. I could totally do more work to really deep clean and declutter but this is good for now. I need to do dishes and scrub a toilet still while I'm on a roll!
26points

#14 First Time Cleaning Apartment In 1.5 Years. Frick Depression

First Time Cleaning Apartment In 1.5 Years. Frick Depression
26points

#15 Turns Out Laundry Is Less Intimidating When There’s Space To Put Clean Clothes

Turns Out Laundry Is Less Intimidating When There’s Space To Put Clean Clothes
Finally doing right by the walk-in closet we’re so fortunate to have. Donating and saying goodbye to the four-year-old, plastic drawers was the best part.
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Even though we clean regularly, questions often remain about how, what, and when to clean. According to the American Cleaning Institute (ACI), what matters most is not how long we spend cleaning, but how effective we are.

To maximize our efforts, the ACI recommends prioritizing these cleaning tasks:

  1. Bathroom: Disinfect toilet bowls, sinks, tubs, and showers
  2. Kitchen: Clean cutting boards, countertops, and dishes
  3. Laundry: Wash sheets, towels, and bathmats weekly
  4. Floors: Vacuum carpets and mop floors to reduce asthma and allergy triggers

#16 Update: The Depression Pit No More

Update: The Depression Pit No More
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#17 Chronic Illness LED Me To The Mess. I'm Trying To Tackle It At A Manageable Pace. Here's My 10-Year-Old’s Room

Chronic Illness LED Me To The Mess. I'm Trying To Tackle It At A Manageable Pace. Here's My 10-Year-Old’s Room
I’ve been sick with Lyme disease, and most days I barely have the energy to get out of bed. With two kids and without much support at home, things fell apart quickly. I previously posted my foyer. This is one of my kids’ rooms! It was mostly a laundry disaster… (He did help me with it and is helping to keep it clean now ☺️).
25points

#18 Before And Continued Progress

Before And Continued Progress
My feet hurt! It took me a couple of days to keep going on the kitchen. All I could see was an impossible mess. I gave myself a break and got out of the house. I maintained what I had done already. Does anyone feel like The little Red Hen/Rooster? After working so hard I can feel like that. "Stay out of my clean room! No bread for you!" 🙄😵‍💫😉 We haven't used our kitchen table for going on two years. I was overwhelmed, depressed and it was too much for me. I was also getting over some PTSD caused by my former job. Therapy has helped. My son's family moved into town and I'm more active with my kids. 💖
24points

#19 Whole House Cleaned

Whole House Cleaned
I hate that it gets like this. I'm going to do better.
24points

In addition, we can practice prevention to reduce the time we spend cleaning. The ACI suggests developing these habits to stay ahead of the mess:

  1. Keep clutter to a minimum: This limits places for dust and allergens to accumulate.
  2. Avoid spreading dirt and germs: Wash hands regularly and wipe shoes on entryway rugs or mats.
  3. Keep bathroom and kitchen surfaces clean and dry: This helps reduce mold and mildew.
  4. Promptly clean up crumbs and spills.
  5. Treat spots and stains on clothing immediately.

#20 I Did It!

I Did It!
I posted on here when I started the clean. Today I put up the last shelves, marking my room officially finished. It took maybe two days of solid work. Also, I bought an emotional support tree. It helped!
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