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48 Times Choosing Beggars Were So Infuriating, They Had To Be Shamed Online

48 Times Choosing Beggars Were So Infuriating, They Had To Be Shamed Online

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There’s a big difference between being frugal and being cheap. Frugal folks are smart with their money. They budget carefully and look for good deals, making sure they get the most out of every dollar they spend.
Cheap people, on the other hand, go to ridiculous lengths to avoid spending a single penny of their own, often at the expense of everyone around them. And honestly, they can be pretty exhausting to deal with.
So it’s no wonder plenty of Redditors have taken to r/ChoosingBeggars to call out their cheap buddies. Below, we’ve rounded up some of the wildest requests and most entitled moments they shared. Scroll down to check them out for yourself.

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#21 When Your Friend Blocks You Because You Didn’t Give Her Money After Your Mom Passed Away

A text message exchange where a cheap friend becomes a choosing beggar, unfriending someone over a diaper fund.
23points

It also helps to be upfront when something genuinely does not fit your budget. Farley says friends are unlikely to see someone as cheap simply because they cannot afford an expensive restaurant or trip.

Saying so ahead of time gives everyone a chance to make different plans. You might suggest somewhere more affordable or simply skip an outing that would leave you struggling financially.

#22 Not Me, But An Experience My Friend Had While Trying To Sell A Couch

A screenshot of a text conversation showing a choosing beggar trying to get a couch for $15, ending in a reality check.
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22points

#23 Guy On My Friends Bachelor Group... Don’t Even Know Him That Well

A text message conversation about cheap friends asking for more money for a trip despite prior contributions.
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22points

#24 Sounds Like Their Friend Didn’t Want To Give Them Their Netflix Password

A Reddit post from r/movies discussing a choosing beggar expecting friends to share Netflix accounts for free.
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22points

At the end of the day, nobody should put themselves into financial trouble just to keep their friends happy.

Still, friendships involve some amount of give and take. Saving a few dollars probably will not feel like much of a victory if it regularly leaves the people closest to you feeling used or unappreciated.

Being careful with money is smart. Just make sure your savings are not coming at the expense of your friendships.

#25 My Friend Accidentally Sent Money To The Wrong Number; Apparently It Wasn't Enough

A text message exchange where a choosing beggar tries to exploit a money transfer from cheap friends.
22points

#26 Did A Couple Of Free Album Designs For A Friend And Now An Entitled Beggar Things He Gets Them For Free Too Even Though I Don’t Know Him

A chat between cheap friends discussing paying for designs, highlighting choosing beggar antics.
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22points

#27 Free Brand New Clothes Only Please. (Not Mine, Friends Post)

A series of text messages showing a choosing beggar asking for free baby clothes and other items for a daughter's baby.
21points

#28 Taken From A Friend On Facebook

A text message exchange with a cheap friend acting as a choosing beggar, demanding hair service immediately.
21points

#29 Bride Wants My Photographer Friend To Learn Another Photographer's "Style" And Basically Give Her A Discount For A Wedding That's In A Couple Of Weeks

A long chat about cheap wedding photos, illustrating the choosing beggar antics of a friend.
21points

#30 "Friend" Asks Me To Vote For Her In A Beauty Pageant, Where I Pay $1 For 1 Vote. Proceeds To Ask For 1600 Votes

A screenshot of a conversation with a cheap friend asking to sponsor her wedding gown or photoshoot.
20points

#31 My Friends Recent Exposure To The World Of Asking Stuff For Free

A screenshot of a choosing beggar asking for a free 15-inch MacBook Pro, claiming to be starting a business.
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19points

#32 Old Friend Think I’m Clout Chasing And Demands More Money For His Kickstarter

A text exchange illustrating a choosing beggar insulting a small donation to a Kickstarter, demanding more money.
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17points

#33 An Old Friend From College Asked For “Help” With A Paper

A text message conversation showing choosing beggar antics, where a friend asks for papers and gets ignored.
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#34 This Google Review For A Friendly Australian Skate Shop

Customer complaint and owner response about cheap shoes, revealing choosing beggar tactics.
17points

#35 When The Swag Your Friends Bought For You Just Isn’t Cutting It Anymore

A Facebook post showing a choosing beggar asking for Raptors memorabilia and being called out by cheap friends.
16points

#36 Photographer Friend Of Mine Got These Off A Hardcore Band Wanting A Shoot Done!

A lengthy chat with cheap friends about free band pics, showcasing choosing beggar behavior.
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16points

#37 Guy Gets A Fine As A Consequence Of His Own Actions. Asks Friend To Split The Fine Because They Happened To Be There Too.. (Also, Not My Messages)

A text message exchange showing a cheap friend asking to split a £30 fine for driving in a bus lane.
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15points

#38 This Cb Apparently *needs* A New Skirt For A Party...but Can’t Afford It. Facebook Friends’ Wallets To The Rescue! After All, This Request Is Entirely Reasonable Considering They *could* Be Asking For A Lot More, Right?

A screenshot showing a conversation about cheap friends asking for money for a skirt for a work party.
15points

#39 What An Amazing Opportunity!

A post seeking cheap roof replacement for free, epitomizing choosing beggar entitlement.
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15points

#40 "Customer" Wants To Buy My Friend's Art, But First He Needs To Borrow $40

A screenshot of a Facebook post detailing cheap friends and choosing beggar antics, where someone asked for money.
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