If you are a parent, you’re probably both anticipating and dreading the moment of your children moving out. On the one hand, you’ll finally have peace in your home, you can easily keep it as tidy and neat as you wish, and there won’t be any incidents of waiting for your child to come back from wherever they are until the break of dawn. On the other - they just won’t be there anymore, and missing your kids will always be on the daily agenda. But how this scenario will truly play out, you’ll know when you’ll get there; meanwhile, you can read the stories of these empty nesters who shared their experiences after their kids moved out in this ingenious Reddit thread. Ready to take a look?
While some of these people do relish the fact that they finally have their homes to their own, lots of additional space to spread out in, and nobody to fine-tune their habits to, most of them agree that life without kids is a life that’s missing something. Well, since we’re not in a position to either agree or deny their experiences without having any kids of our own, we can at least surmise the fact that children form a huge part of your life from the written evidence we’ve found on this awesome AskReddit page. I guess most of us will have to go through this experience firsthand, sooner or later.
But for now, let’s stick to reading these stories shared by parents about the interesting things they discovered when their kids moved out. Right now these findings are in no particular order, but if some of them resonate with you or make you laugh, give them your vote. And lastly, share this article with anyone to whom it might be relatable!
#43
"I was the youngest of 3 and moved out with my sister. My mom kept going on about how excited she was to be free. 2 months in she adopted a cat that look exactly like mine. I still call her once a week to make sure she isn't too lonely."
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#44
"I remember my mom being surprised at how many dishes my dad left out. She had always assumed that it was me. "
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#45

"Fewer things “lost” temporarily such as the tv remote or car keys to a shared vehicle."
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#46
"When I moved out, my mum suddenly realised how much of a pain taking out the rubbish was (the path to the bins was awful and it was a lot of stairs to climb). She never did it before, lol. Also, our relationship improved drastically. We now live in different countries and haven't seen each other for over a year. The same can be said about the rest of my family tbh, we are all totally introverted and everyone lives alone now and everyone likes it so much better this way."
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#47
"The moment our son moved out to live on his own he became vegetarian. He never gave us any indication he was planning to or wanted to be vegetarian."
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#48
"To answer on my parents behalf: how much the two of them had grown apart."
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#49
wederservebetter said:
"The dad identity I adopted, isn't who I am. I'm a dad, but I used to be more than that and still want to be."
"The dad identity I adopted, isn't who I am. I'm a dad, but I used to be more than that and still want to be."
vicariousgluten replied:
"I've seen that with my own dad since I moved out. We now actually seek out each other's company. He's doing stuff he really enjoys doing and it's great to see him be enthusiastic and excited about new stuff. He's not the "no dad" anymore. He travels with friends, he's taken up cooking, he's out most nights (pre-plague) and has at least one zoom call a day with people. I often wish I could tell my Mum how much he's blossomed."
"I've seen that with my own dad since I moved out. We now actually seek out each other's company. He's doing stuff he really enjoys doing and it's great to see him be enthusiastic and excited about new stuff. He's not the "no dad" anymore. He travels with friends, he's taken up cooking, he's out most nights (pre-plague) and has at least one zoom call a day with people. I often wish I could tell my Mum how much he's blossomed."
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#50

"I moved out at 17 because my GF got an apartment. Mom was heartbroken and I feel bad about it today."
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#51
"Answering on their behalf "just a joke" they now have to take out the trash and do grocery shopping themselves, plus they have to get off their seats to get a cup of water."
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#53
"How quickly they pick things up. I don’t mean that literally. I think I thought my daughter would be a potato for much longer than she was."
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#54
"My parents begged me to move home because they wanted to have a full house again. When COVID hit, they got their wish. They seem to forget their kids aren't children anymore and that we don't have to ask permission to come and go or to spend time somewhere that isn't home."
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#55
"All the stuff he had. I don't know where he got thousands of dollars worth of cameras, tablets, laptops, and other expensive things. He never had a traditional employer. When we saw all the stuff, we thought he got into drugs or stealing or something."
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#56

"That I could get naughty whenever I wanted haha!! And also the laundry and dishes my God those pesky kids had some washing to be done."
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#58
"That I would worry so much about them when I no longer see them every day. For sure, I call them often and we talk, but we don't see much of each other these days (for obvious reasons)."
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#59
"Just how much I still miss living with him, even though he’s been settled out of home for a few years now after yoyoing a bit."
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