Babies, babies, babies. It seems like everyone and their mother (literally) is talking about having them, raising them, or cooing over them. From the never-ending barrage of “when are you having kids” questions at family gatherings to the pressure of that silent biological clock, it’s easy to get caught in the idea that, for both men and women, having children is the only path to a fulfilling, happy life. Plus, the whole thing seems to worsen around your 30s or 40s when you get to deal with people that see not having kids at your age as the most selfish and unnatural thing ever.
But really, for some, the idea of parenthood doesn’t hold the same allure. Individuals from all walks of life have chosen the child-free path, or to go childless after trying for a pregnancy but giving it up for various reasons — bucking societal norms and forging their own personal journey. Guess what? Among these trailblazers are some of the most famous celebrities in the world.
We’re talking about John Cena, Oprah Winfrey, and Dolly Parton, to name a few celebrities without kids. These stars have all chosen to forgo parenthood in favor of other pursuits, whether it’s advancing their careers, dedicating themselves to philanthropy, or simply recognizing that parenthood is an arduous life-long commitment they don’t feel could fit in their existence.
Let’s hear from celebrities without children and famous childless couples about what not having kids means for them. It’s a package of personal experiences and diverse perspectives that may or may not resonate with you. There’s no right or wrong in this, just the acceptance that we’re all different and that there’s no second-rate way to find fulfillment in life. Scroll down to read more, and don’t forget to upvote your favorite stories from these celebrities who don’t have kids!
#1 Marisa Tomei

"I'm not that big a fan of marriage as an institution, and I don't know why women need to have children to be seen as complete human beings."
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44points
#2 Christopher Walken

"I do like to work as much as I can because I don't have children, I don't have hobbies, I don't do anything else. And I'm glad that I don't have children. I have two brothers and they have plenty of children, they come to my house and I am always very glad when they leave. I have a wife, I've been married for thirty-five years, and I have some cats, but I can open the door and they go out, so it's quite nice."
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37points
#3 Miley Cyrus

"We're expected to keep the planet populated. And when that isn't a part of our plan or our purpose, there is so much judgment and anger that they try to make and change laws to force it upon you — even if you become pregnant in a violent situation," she said. "If you don't want children, people feel sorry for you, like you're a cold, heartless bitch who's not capable of love… Why are we trained that love means putting yourself second and those you love first? If you love yourself, then what? You come first."
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37points
#4 Seth Rogen

"I don’t want that. That does not sound fun to me. There are enough kids out there. Do we need more people? Who looks at the planet right now and thinks ‘You know what we need right now? More f*****g people.’ That’s truly a confounding thing to me."
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35points
#5 Jennifer Aniston

"We are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies. That decision is ours and ours alone. Let’s make that decision for ourselves and for the young women in this world who look to us as examples. Let’s make that decision consciously, outside of the tabloid noise. We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own 'happily ever after' for ourselves."
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35points
#6 Helen Mirren

"It's not that I don't love children, they are funny and I just love them, but I never wanted to have them. I really tried to want it at one point. I thought maybe I should but I never convinced myself."
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34points
#7 Katharine Hepburn

"I would have been a terrible mother because I'm basically a very selfish human being. Not that that has stopped most people going off and having children."
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34points
#8 Dolly Parton

“I grew up in a big old family with eight kids younger than me and several of my brothers and sisters came to live with me early on in my life. I’ve loved their kids just like they’re my grandkids, and now I’ve got great-grand-kids!”
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33points
#9 Ricky Gervais

“I didn’t have a work ethic for such a long time. Imagine if I had a child like me? I didn’t start earning until I was 36. I’m the sort of person who has to check three times that I’ve shut the door, so I’d probably stare at a kid all day to check it was breathing.”
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31points
#10 Winona Ryder

"This is a little personal but I'm 42 and… Well, I was talking to my dad last year and saying, 'What if I can't have a kid?' and he said, 'There are other ways to have children in your life'. That's true—and I get these amazing doses with my brother's kids. But I've got to stop listening to other people. It's crazy the stuff women will tell you."
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29points
#11 Betty White

"No, I've never regretted it. I'm so compulsive about stuff, I know if I had ever gotten pregnant, of course, that would have been my whole focus. But I didn't choose to have children because I'm focused on my career. And I just don't think as compulsive as I am, that I could manage both."
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26points
#12 Sarah Paulson

"I love kids, but I’m very impulsive, and I was afraid that I would have children and then regret it."
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25points
#13 Stevie Nicks

"It's like, 'Do you want to be an artist and a writer, or a wife and a lover?' With kids, your focus changes. I don't want to go to PTA meetings."
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24points
#14 Nick Offerman And Megan Mullally

"It was kind of a little of both. I never had a burning desire to have children. But then I met Nick, and I thought 'This is the only person I’d do this with.' So we tried, but I was a little long in the tooth for that sort of thing. But we didn’t turn it into a soap opera. We tried for about a year or so, and it didn’t happen, and took that to mean it wasn’t meant to be."
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24points
#15 Anjelica Huston

“I would probably have been miserable. When I talk about my mother and not wanting to echo that relationship, I think it would’ve probably been very much the same way. I would have been a stay-at-home mum, and he’d have been off, doing what he did. And that’s never really been me, either. I’m too noisy. I suck up too much air, myself.”
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22points
#16 Jared Leto

"I think it's really important to be present if you have children. I have a lot of... things to take care of."
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22points
#17 Sarah Silverman

"I love kids to an insane degree. Loving kids and having of your own are two different things. And the thought of having my own baby completely paralyzes me. How do people have kids so easily? It's such a huge decision."
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22points
#18 Lily Tomlin

"That's perfectly fine for somebody who wants to. But at that time I didn't want to — and I'm glad I don't — have any children. God only knows what I would have done with them, poor things. I really do like kids, but there wouldn't have been room in my life to raise children. I was so involved with my career and I would have had to give up the career in large part because I could not possibly have shortchanged the child."
21points
#19 John Cena

"It's hard work. It's hard work to balance the time I need to run myself correctly. It's hard work to be the best partner and husband I can be to my loving wife. It's hard to keep connections with those in my life that I love. And it's also hard to put in an honest day's work. This is just my perspective; I think just because you might be good at something, for me, is not strong enough reason to do that. You have to have a passion for it. You have to have a fuel for it. It's like saying to somebody, 'Man, you know, you are pretty good with your hands. You would be a great carpenter."
20points
#20 Kim Cattrall

"I try not to listen to the shoulds or coulds, and try to get beyond expectations, peer pressure, or trying to please—and just listen. I believe all the answers are ultimately within us. When I answered those questions regarding having children, I realized that so much of the pressure I was feeling was from outside sources, and I knew I wasn't ready to take that step into motherhood."
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20points


