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I am incredibly shy, but knowing I had probably a sure thing, I asked her out in the breakroom that afternoon. She said yes.
We've been married 10 years now and have a seven year old daughter.
I gave the co-worker $5 at my wedding, she laughed.
All because my back was hurting a bit and I decided to shelve a different section of the store.
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There are many stories and threads online encouraging people to share their own examples from life that clearly illustrate the "butterfly effect." Today, we offer a selection of real-life tales from netizens, both sad and uplifting, which only prove that so much in this life is interconnected.
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This species of frog was native to Africa and had specialized skin that was resistant to different types of fungus that would sometimes occur on their skin naturally. Unfortunately most amphibians that didnt have this immunity from all over the world became exposed to this fungus from the released frogs. That fungus has now ravaged amphibian populations worldwide causing endangerment and extinction in over 100 species. We will never get those species back, all because we developed pregnancy tests. .
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Cousin’s car suddenly accelerates
and won’t stop. Cousin maneuvers through main road with increasing speed, dodging cars with totally uncontrolled acceleration. Cousin avoids all other cars but loses control, clipping a minivan at 90+ mph with a family inside. Her maneuver saved the family but she lost control. Car flips, cousin dies within a day.
Ford attempts to seize vehicle for “investigation” but family and local sheriff insist on impounding the vehicle in a secure lot. NHSTA + sheriff+ lawyer investigate with cameras inside the wrecked car and find the accelerator cable snagged.
Ford recalled the Escape previously, but the mandatory repairs caused another issue: accelerator cables could be snagged on an engine part and cause uncontrolled acceleration. Investigation showed Ford knew this, and that this issue had caused serious accidents already, including deaths, but Ford decided it wasn’t worth another recall.
Long story short. Ford was forced to recall 500k Escapes, at massive cost, to have the issue repaired permanently and to prevent cable snags.
My cousin’s 17th birthday caused a massive vehicle recall from a major automotive manufacturer back in 2012.
Edit: she also apparently assisted in the reporter (rightfully) getting a [Peabody Award]
Edit #2 [More details] and actual footage of the caught cable around the 3 min mark.
If you know anyone with a Ford Escape please make sure their car has had this issue fixed at a dealer.
Let's remember right away that the very concept of the "butterfly effect" was coined by the American mathematician Edward Lorenz as a reference to Ray Bradbury's famous short story "A Sound of Thunder."
The story's protagonist, while traveling through time, accidentally crushes a butterfly during the dinosaur era - and upon returning, discovers that his actions ultimately caused a change in the country's political regime.
However, it's possible that Bradbury himself borrowed the plot - at least, the Brothers Grimm of the early 19th century had a fairy tale called "The Louse and the Flea," in which the main character's unexpected burn ultimately leads to a massive flood. Regardless, the concept is clear and reasonable for the majority of us.
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My brother ended up getting her pregnant during the stay, and my mom was empathetic again and invited her to live with us because her family kicked her out.
She then slept with my mom's husband and got pregnant by him.
They're divorced now, and the girl refuses to let my mom see her grandchild because she kicked her out after that.
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He was supposed to take it under supervision the first time, but he was in a rush to leave because he and my cousin were going to their holiday cabin to set it up for the family holidays, and he wanted to make the trip short by going early.
He took it the night they arrived and had a fatal allergic reaction to something in the new meds that he and his doctor didn’t think to test for, as allergies to it are rare.
My cousin managed to get him an ambulance pretty quickly, but he went into a coma on the way to the hospital.
He remained in that coma for weeks, and the damage to his brain was so severe that he would have been in bed for the rest of his life if he ever woke up at all. He had specific requests if he was ever on life support, and they were honored.
My aunt and cousins, I don’t think, will ever be able to shake that trauma. The one that was with him that night has always had a lot going on with their mental health, and this broke them completely.
I really wish there was a single thing in this world that I thought would give them peace, but I know that won’t be possible without time travel.
The "butterfly effect" has many interesting historical examples, sometimes beginning with the Austrian Archduke Franz Ferdinand, whose attack attempt effectively started World War I.
In reality, of course, there were many reasons for the outbreak of that war - both political and economic - so the unfortunate heir to the Austrian throne has been retroactively attributed to the catalyst for the tragic events.
It's enough to read numerous serious studies of that war - for example, famous historian Barbara Tuchman's book "The Guns of August" - to clearly understand that Franz Ferdinand merely served as a pretext to accelerate a process that the world's leading powers had been working toward for decades.
But now, for the general public, it looks quite impressive: all it takes is a trip back in time, save just one person (actually, two - the Archduke's wife was with him that day), and the colossal war will be avoided. Alas, history doesn't work that way...
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I often wonder if we never went to the movies, would my dad have talked him out of it?
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That sparked off the last 8 years of learning new and actually interesting stuff at work. I now own a good house, with windows and everything. I only mention prices at the grocery store to teach my kid how budgets work. I got a few professional and occupational licenses out of it, and if I quit tomorrow, I can pick from like 5 careers.
Yes, our subconscious tends to retroactively invent "logical chains" and connections, constructing a chain of events triggered by one or another of our actions, words, or simply inactions. But in doing so, we sometimes tend to discount reality.
For example, Tom Brady, whose journey from a sixth-round NFL draft pick and backup quarterback to the greatest football player of all time is, of course, an incredible confluence of favorable circumstances.
But at the same time, Tom Brady's journey is also an incredible story of self-improvement, perseverance, and self-sacrifice. As the ancient sages said, "Fortune favors the bold."
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A couple of days before the rescheduled date, I had to get the crew cut fixed up, so I went into this other more local barbershop that I'd been to on and off. I struggle with social anxiety a LOT (I'm autistic) and often could barely speak, and I felt bad about that during one visit before this, because the guy who cut my hair was really nice and friendly. It was the same guy this time and I wanted to make an effort to talk more - and we had a great convo that I really needed at the time. Turns out he was a cool guy who had a lot in common with me.
I made that my regular place because of that guy's kindness, and I spent the next year in recovery for PTSD and depression, and eventually that place became my lifeline as I gradually made friends with all the guys there. I thought of them like my brothers, and that guy in particular I just loved, and was so devastated when he left to work in another shop that I eventually told him what he'd done for me in DMs, thinking I'd never seen him again.
Eventually I was miserable not seeing him every two weeks so I worked up the courage to see him in his new shop, and the reunion was honestly one of my happiest memories. He later told me "that was the best message I've ever got, that broke my heart", and I left the shop that day crying in the street with happiness - it was like my depression was momentarily cured completely. Seeing him again regularly saw me really enjoying life a lot more and just being happier in general, as well as having the courage to do a lot of things I'd been putting off out of anxiety. He basically became one of my favourite people in the world and I loved him like he was my own brother.
Sadly he moved away to another country a few months ago and we didn't keep in touch, as by the time the move came we suddenly just weren't as close as we used to be, which is sad on several levels, but he was miserable living here and a change of scenery was best for him. So while the end to the story certainly wasn't happy, the middle was and I can at least be grateful that I was better when he left me than he was when he found me
So the guy who made the call to make my scene partner work that day had no idea he was saving my life.
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I didn't need to call and say I wasn't going, but I thought it was the right thing to do.
The host immediately says, 'my friend is probably going past Il call you back', as soon as I told them and hangs up.
Next thing I know a woman turns up at my place and says she's giving me a lift. She's hanging and doesnt know if she'll even drink.
We chat the journey there and have this slow realisation that unlike every other teacher I've met, this woman has her head screwed on. Everything we chat about we agree upon. Every controversial opinion we share is discussed with complete ease and jokes.
We get to the party and go our separate ways. I end up reconnecting several times throughout the night. Eventually I pluck up the courage to make plans with her that summer seeing as she'll be free. She had just got divorced however and wasn't looking for a relationship. I already know we're a no-no because I smoke and she had said 'I will never be with a smoker'.
The summer goes by and we hang out lots, she's always funny and it's always super easy to be around her.
Eventually one day we're hanging out on the beach one day after going for a paddle on some boards and she starts playfully kicking my leg. By this point I was 100% sure It was friends only and was not going to make a move despite thinking she was awesome.
A guy were chatting to asks us how long weve been together and the smile she beams meant that I tried to kiss her within about 1/2 hour of that.
She's now my fiancé and our first child is due in October.
Why we both thought we'd never want to be with each other is anyone's guess. But we're perfectly balanced and it would take serendipity for us to see each other past the surface level.
The Universe intervened and allowed that to happen.
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However, no matter how complex and unpredictable history actually is, there will always be incredible instances in our lives that only confirm that the butterfly effect exists, one way or another. So now please feel free to read this selection of stories to the very end, and perhaps add your own similar example in the comments below. In case, of course, you too have something to say.
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That one little thing directly led me to staying close to home for law school instead of moving, setting roots in a town I was planning on leaving, and having multiple children who otherwise would not have existed.
All because I couldn't read a sticky note.
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If I would have never moved to Ohio, I would have never met him. Basically, feels like I ruined my entire life due to the grief of the abortion and how bad he treated me and how much I genuinely loved him.



