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“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
ParentingSEP 16, 2024

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents

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Raising strong, empathetic, well-adjusted children is not an easy task. And everyone will have their own opinions on what’s best for your kids. "It should be a crime to let them look at screens!" And "They should never be given snacks that contain Red 40!" But at the end of the day, it’s up to you as their mother or father to decide what they need. And there’s no such thing as a perfect parent anyway!

#1

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
An old girlfriend of mine had a friend who was incredibly verbally abusive to her kid. This kid was 6 years old, and one night, he pissed her off because he wouldn't go to bed. So she went into the room and started threatening to beat him. Then she started saying things like I hope someone comes in here in the middle of the night and kidnaps you because your dad and I won't even try to look for you. You're such a little s**t I should've had an abortion. And that kind of stuff carried on for 20 minutes until the kid was wailing. It was so bad I started crying and left. Called CPS the next day.
112points

#2

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Oh boy here we go, I lived in Abitibi, back in 2013 for about a week, my hometown was the coldest town on earth. I was at a friend's place, playing cards and his 4 years-old daughter was a real pest, but hey, it's a kid, I could tolerate with ease. At one point, she grabbed my deck of cards and threw it on the wall, messing it up somewhat, but nothing too bad. Her dad then took her, started yelling and took her to the patio, locking the door. She was in her pajamas. I started giving him an earful and he told me 'relax, it works every times.' WHAT?!?!?! I shoved him away, took his daughter back in, she was already so cold! I called the police while he was berating me. He's still out there, but divorced and his now teenage girl don't want anything to do with him.
100points

#3

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My GF's coworker asked if their son could play at my D&D game.

Kid shows up. 450 pounds, reeks of s**t. Eats all of the snacks, and then tries t have in-game sex with the 80 year old bar keeper. I had to boot him. I found out later that he doesn't go to school or do much of anything besides make characters on the heromaker website, which he never orders. He recently had to go to the emergency room because he is so fat he tore his belly button.

Parents who let a kid get like that should be jailed.
86points

#5

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Working in visiting at the jail I’m employed by. Mom brought in a two week old baby to meet the father. When she handed the baby to him he said “i don’t want that” and threw the baby on the floor, not dropped, thrown.

We had the medical team rush to help and we called an ambulance for the baby. No idea how that kid is now. This was five years ago.
81points

#6

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My cousin had a kid, poor little guy, and she just gave him a screen all the damn time. He got to 6 years old and could barely speak. He got so frustrated that he couldn't communicate his feelings he developed really bad anger issues and had to have therapy. That's a side of the family I ignore. So horrible, I hate to think what else went on with him.
79points

#7

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Last time I went to Chicago there was a little girl selling something for a school fundraiser. Thanks to the security guard there I quickly learned that parents send there small children (I'm talking 4-10 year olds ) into these huge crowds of people/tourists pretending to be raising funds for school activities when in reality any money they get goes back to the parent and you never receive what you ordered. Apparently this has become quite common there at least in touristy areas. Using your kids for your benefit is bad enough parenting. Making your very small child go into a crowd of strangers and having them go up to random people from God knows where is just insane.
73points

#8

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Yesterday I was at the dermatologist and this lady had two boys around the ages 3&5 and the older one hit the younger one and then they both just scream at each other back and forth at the top of their lungs. She never once looked up at them, never said a word just continued to play on her phone. The whole waiting room plus reception were staring open mouthed at her.
69points

#9

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
When I worked at a shelter for several years, there was one woman whose almost 3 year old was still breastfeeding. She was on [drugs], and if she stopped nursing her son went into terrible withdrawals. Just inconsolable. And since he was addicted, all he’d eat was sugar, so it’s all she ever gave him. Every single tooth looked like it was rotting out of his head.
68points

#10

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My brother and his wife actively prevent and limit the amount of interaction their children have with their grandparents (particularly my parents) because they don't want their kids loving their grandparents more than them. My parents are amazing grandparents and my daughter loves them more than anything and I have no problem with that.
68points

#11

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
I’m a paramedic. I have plenty of bad parenting stories, but perhaps one of the worst cases I have seen was a baby girl that was starved. She was about 6 months old. We were called to help a smaller service and when we got there we found out that it was the grandma that had called us. She was seizing due to malnutrition and sheer neglect. The little girl was just skin and bones. We rushed her to the hospital where we were met by her angry parents. They were mad at us and the grandma for taking the little girl from home to get her medical help.
68points

#12

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
I family asked me to nanny for them. They seemed lovely and the home was gorgeous. They had two ten year old twins and they started play wrestling like totally normal sibling stuff. The dad said "hands off" and the kids stood up immediately and put there a hands in the air, then the dad gave them 10 DOLLARS each for obeying. If the kids didn't obey other orders in time the dad would walk up stairs and take cash out of these jars in their closet and the kids would freak out. The boys were obsessed with money.The dad walked around with a wad of cash and just gave them cash for doing normal things throughout the day. It was sooooo weird. Always talking about money and how to make more money. The kids were also pretty robotic and never played games. They just watched Iron Chef and Shark Tank. The dad told me "I'm trying to get them to think in money, not time, because time is money" and winked at me. I don't know. Not the WORST parenting but definitely the weirdest. Also those kids aren't learning morals, just money? Idk so strange.
60points

#13

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Watching your kid behave badly and laughing about it. Too many parents think their kids bad behavior is cute.
58points

#14

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My sister’s grandchildren. One son who has two kids (one disabled with severe autism) and he pulled his older son from school because he thought the school was promoting a “gay is okay” kind of thing. So from the age of about ten this kid never went to school. He was homeschooled but never did any of the work or submitted anything for grades. He is now 21 and has a fourth grade education. Has never had friends and is not well socialized at all. Will likely never hold a job other than as a laborer. His brother, the autistic son, never went to school for even a day. There are programs available that would have likely helped him but he was never taken to any of them. He could have at least learned toileting, how to dress himself and so on, but his dad never taught him and never allowed anyone else to help. The mother was out of the picture while the youngest was a baby because d***s were better than raising children.

I tried to have children and Family Services intervene but they saw that the kids weren’t being beaten and were being fed so that was good enough. The oldest boy rarely leaves the house. The youngest will soon be institutionalized because my nephew is unable to stop him from putting himself in danger - he’s a very strong young man.

It’s a true disaster what happened to these kids.
58points

#15

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My neighbors who live behind me. They let their kids run around and scream at all hours of the day and night. Then they got a puppy and all-but ignore the poor thing. It just sits outside howling to come in. The kids used to bounce on the trampoline and taunt my dogs and throw stuff over the fence. When I confronted them about it the parents ignored me. Like they literally just walked away. I finally stopped throwing things back and started popping the balls in front of the kids and letting my dogs chew up whatever other toys they threw.
56points

#16

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
I'm sure I've seen things worse than this, but this stuck in my mind, and it happened about 2 years ago. I was making a delivery to East New York(Brooklyn). I went to the corner store while they unloaded my truck. It was just me, an old lady, and a lady with 3 young kids. The old lady was at the register paying for her stuff. The other lady was waiting for food. As the old lady turned to leave, the oldest of the 3 kids who was about 6 turned to open the door for the old lady. As he did that, the other 2 kids kinda followed him and joined him holding the door. The old lady started to thank them. As she did that, the mom turned and said, uh uh I told y'all to stop holding doors for people cause they never say thank you. I really try to mind my business, especially in East New York but I had to tell the lady that they shouldn't be doing it for thanks, they should be doing it cause it's the right thing to do. She just shook her head. I know that's not at all abusive, and I'm sure there are much worse cases on here, but as a black man, that s**t broke my heart cause I felt so bad for those 3 black kids. It would be equally horrible no matter the race, but that s**t made an impact on me. It's not always the big things. It's a bunch of small things that keep people from being great. Chip after chip. I think about it every time I hold the door for someone.
52points

#17

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
My cousin had a child at 16. Abandoned it with the child's grandmother, refused to let the mother see him, and went to start a new family with a new girl. This kid is 9 now, has never been to school, has zero social skills, and is absolutely starved for attention. He's so sweet, but I feel terrible for his situation. My father wanted to adopt him the second my cousin didn't want him, but my aunt (on my mom's side) had custody and refused. I've been trying to teach him how to read and write, but he's so far behind academically it's difficult.
51points

#18

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
I was at the grocery store and a child, probably 4 or 5, was asking his mom for a Snickers bar. She said no, so he started screaming and running through the grocery store knocking things off the shelves. After about 10 minutes of this, she took the candy bar, unwrapped it, and physically put it directly into his open, screaming mouth. Like she was giving a crying baby a bottle.
48points

#19

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
The family across the street from my house where I grew up had four kids. Their mom and dad chased and beat them with all kinds of things—mops, cords, hockey stick—whatever they could grab running out their side door as they chased the kids down the street. No one ever called the police or CPS. The 1980s was an interesting era for parenting.
48points

#20

“She Was Detained And CPS Took The Kids”: 30 Times People Encountered The World’s Worst Parents
Friend's mom just decided one day she was tired of being a mom and left when he and his brother were 6 and 8. She didn't talk to them about it first, just left a note for her family when they were at work/school and was gone. She never formally divorced their dad so he had to go through the courts to make it happen, but his dad was very depressed for years and struggled with being a single dad but did his best.

My friend found out when he was a teenager that she eventually remarried and had a new baby who she adored. My friend emailed her to reconnect but she blocked him. He found her on social media eventually and she made a post saying something along the lines of "I love [baby name here]; being a mom is awesome". He was heartbroken and enraged and said his mom was dead to him.

As an adult he finally connected with her and all she said was that she was done being a mom, and knew his dad would be a better parent for the boys and didn't apologize. He cried in front of her and she was stoic and didn't address it. He asked if there was any abuse or anything and she said nope, she was just done.

In this case the worst parenting was abandoning her kids, replacing them, and really not being their parent at all.
48points
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