Most parents want to do a good job raising their children, but not all succeed. According to a survey by the UK non-profit family support organization Home-Start, 67% of parents say that being called a “bad parent” is the worst criticism they could receive. 74% said they wanted to be recognized as “good parents,” and 37% claimed they feel the pressure to be the “perfect parent.”
What makes one a bad parent? Is it as simple as a lack of hugs or playtime? Most people have their answers, and in a recent online thread, many adults shared theirs. When user u/malizelen asked, “What screams “I’m a bad parent?” hundreds of people had their answers ready. Whether from personal experience or from observing others’ parents, folks listed the no-nos mothers and fathers should stop doing if they want a good relationship with their children in the future.
#4
Using your phone non-stop while your kid is trying to talk to you or show you something they made.
37points
#6
Telling your parent that they hurt you and instead of them apologizing they justify it and say they did the best they could.
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37points
#7
Constantly humiliating your child instead of correcting their behavior privately.
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35points
#9
Took my daughter to the park today and the lady with her little boy near me constantly spoke to him in such a nasty way, calling him dumb and belittling him. Genuinely was shocked, why have kids if you're going to hate them 😞.
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29points
#10
Letting them scream in restaurants and not doing anything about it.
27points
#11
As a teacher: the kids that destroy classrooms, the kids that don’t read, the kids that don’t bathe, the kids that don’t know how to act towards adults and peers. Unanswered emails from teachers about behaviors. We know. We know you’re doing them wrong. It’s glaringly obvious.
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25points
#12
Not disciplining or correcting bad behavior, letting kids walk allover you and giving in to rude demands.
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25points
#13
Continuing to reproduce even though you have children that you don’t take care of (one with special needs). Total pos in my opinion!
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24points
#16
When they laugh at their kid when they are stressed or have a panic attack. Speaking from experience.
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21points
#17
Talking on the phone and letting your kid run around unsupervised in public.
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20points
#19
Wondering why your kid had gone NC with you, but you don't know why and that it's definitely their fault though for being ungrateful.
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18points
#20
Getting angry and trying to force a child who is afraid to do something like to get in a pool or to pet a dog. Makes me want to intervene.
18points