A typical bachelor or bachelorette party costs around $1,400, with 64% of attendees spending more than $400 to participate. Whether it's the desire to "get their money's worth" or simply a reluctance to embrace a major life commitment, some individuals truly go overboard with these celebrations.
The excesses can be so extreme that Reddit user RFMakeupArtist once posed a question, inviting people to share stories of bach parties so wild, they could jeopardize a marriage if a partner knew what transpired. It received a flood of scandalous responses, and the tales vividly illustrate the fine line between innocent fun and outright betrayal.
#21
I once ended up in a foursome with a couple that was to be married the next day... I didn't know them and only ended up there because the girl I had previously dated for a few months and still had a thing for, was their friend (and the guy's ex). Both girls got me drunk at a club without me realizing their intentions for the night. It was a very bad situation seeing the girl I liked being f****d by some dude (she told me she was a lesbian), and I really didn't enjoy myself. Que awkward next day, when the couple took me back to my car. Upon exiting the car I didn't know what to say, but for some reason went with, "Good luck with your marriage." They just stared at me and I closed the door.
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#22
I didn't go to this but heard it from a friend, and it eventually blew up all over my facebook news feed.
The groom-to-be had a small party (like him and 6-7 friends) at a hotel. No strippers, but plenty of booze, video games, and food. Someone complained the party was lame and there should be strippers involved. The groom loved his bride-to-be and forbid strippers, but he said he had some awesome d***s that he was saving.
The guy that complained about the party being boring was the bride's younger brother that the groom invited purely to make his bride happy. The groom and everyone else at the party didn't like him, and the d***s everyone was taking was actually just some type of herb that didn't do anything. Everyone knew this except the bride's brother.
They all played along and pretended they were f****d up, claiming to see s**t that wasn't there and just in general act like idiots. The bride's brother kept saying he didn't feel anything, but after a while he did. He started running around the hotel, screaming, saying very rude things about everyone at the party, peed on the hotel bed, went out on the balcony naked and started screaming...just generally acting like a total f*****g idiot.
All the while the groom and his friends started recording it on their phones and laughing at his stupidity. After a while they told him it was just a herb and he was acting like an idiot on his own. My friend said that he just kept acting stupid and before he "came down" he shat all over the bathroom sink and mirrors.
**Trl;dr:** Placebo effect is one hell of a d**g.
The groom-to-be had a small party (like him and 6-7 friends) at a hotel. No strippers, but plenty of booze, video games, and food. Someone complained the party was lame and there should be strippers involved. The groom loved his bride-to-be and forbid strippers, but he said he had some awesome d***s that he was saving.
The guy that complained about the party being boring was the bride's younger brother that the groom invited purely to make his bride happy. The groom and everyone else at the party didn't like him, and the d***s everyone was taking was actually just some type of herb that didn't do anything. Everyone knew this except the bride's brother.
They all played along and pretended they were f****d up, claiming to see s**t that wasn't there and just in general act like idiots. The bride's brother kept saying he didn't feel anything, but after a while he did. He started running around the hotel, screaming, saying very rude things about everyone at the party, peed on the hotel bed, went out on the balcony naked and started screaming...just generally acting like a total f*****g idiot.
All the while the groom and his friends started recording it on their phones and laughing at his stupidity. After a while they told him it was just a herb and he was acting like an idiot on his own. My friend said that he just kept acting stupid and before he "came down" he shat all over the bathroom sink and mirrors.
**Trl;dr:** Placebo effect is one hell of a d**g.
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#23
My dad got into a warrior's style street brawl at his bachelor party.
Basically, they were at a strip club or something and when they walked out they saw a group of people beating the s**t out of some guy on the sidewalk. My uncle went over and tried to get them to stop. Now, everybody who was present has a different version of how this thing started, and who kicked the most a*s, but one thing is certain: About 30 people began beating the everliving s**t out of each other in front of a strip club. My former wrestler uncle is currently infamous for kicking a man in the face with full force and knocking him out cold.
In my dad's wedding pictures all of them are wearing sunglasses to cover up the black eyes.
Basically, they were at a strip club or something and when they walked out they saw a group of people beating the s**t out of some guy on the sidewalk. My uncle went over and tried to get them to stop. Now, everybody who was present has a different version of how this thing started, and who kicked the most a*s, but one thing is certain: About 30 people began beating the everliving s**t out of each other in front of a strip club. My former wrestler uncle is currently infamous for kicking a man in the face with full force and knocking him out cold.
In my dad's wedding pictures all of them are wearing sunglasses to cover up the black eyes.
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#24
Bride gave a BJ to the s******r her future sister in law/Maid of Honor ordered. Worst thing I have ever witnessed. Fast forward...they are still happily married almost 20 years, 3 kids.
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#25
I was out at the bar when I started partying with a bachelorette party. The bride to be was having a fun time, drunk, not too plastered, but having a good night. She started holding onto my arm and not letting me go further than the length of my own arm from her, a couple of her friends went for a smoke and as soon as they were outta sight she looked at me and said "If we went downstairs right now, could you perform?"
I was a little drunk and foolish and I did not click in my response was "Ive only ever played one instrument in my entire life." (thinking about the guitar I used to own) off we go, or rather she went dragging me downstairs, towards the mens washroom, inside the mens washroom. Thats when I clicked in, and yes I did follow through. Her Girlfriends came banging at the stall door midway through....
I was a little drunk and foolish and I did not click in my response was "Ive only ever played one instrument in my entire life." (thinking about the guitar I used to own) off we go, or rather she went dragging me downstairs, towards the mens washroom, inside the mens washroom. Thats when I clicked in, and yes I did follow through. Her Girlfriends came banging at the stall door midway through....
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#26
I had a job in college driving around strippers to bachelor parties. I saw things...but this...
During one hotel party, the bachelor was nice and drunk. The girls laid the guy down on the floor. They then took a match, stuck it in hole of his p***s and lit it, while singing a song. (No idea what, I was a bit in shock as it was the first time I saw this).
The look of shock on the guys face when he looked down and realized what was going on was unforgettable. All his friends were around laughing and pointing. They blew it out like a candle before anything happened, but the fear and shock in his eyes...
On that note. Guys...if you respect your significant others at all... NEVER have a bachelor party in a hotel room or any other private place. Go to a strip club. Never order in.
During one hotel party, the bachelor was nice and drunk. The girls laid the guy down on the floor. They then took a match, stuck it in hole of his p***s and lit it, while singing a song. (No idea what, I was a bit in shock as it was the first time I saw this).
The look of shock on the guys face when he looked down and realized what was going on was unforgettable. All his friends were around laughing and pointing. They blew it out like a candle before anything happened, but the fear and shock in his eyes...
On that note. Guys...if you respect your significant others at all... NEVER have a bachelor party in a hotel room or any other private place. Go to a strip club. Never order in.
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#27
I used to be a male "entertainer" in college. Pretty much every bachelorette party ended with the bride screwing one of the performers. Like, 95% of the time.
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#28
My wife was a bridesmaid for a wedding in Kenya, we both got thrown in jail.
edit: sorry for not replying I fell sleep last night. my wife and I want to Kenya for her friends wedding we went to visit friends that she knew and another portion of the Kenya. We traveled through Kenya without our passports, we were detained by the police because we did not have our passports on our person, Just our drivers license. they told us we were picked up in an anti t*******m unit. the whole thing was scary. we were released after 14 hours. over night in a crowded cell with standing water and no place to sit. edit: my husband failed to say we were held hostage at gun point for five hours in prison for 9 hours and interrogated for 2 hours all starting at 10:30pm which we only knew from our one and only dying phone.
edit: sorry for not replying I fell sleep last night. my wife and I want to Kenya for her friends wedding we went to visit friends that she knew and another portion of the Kenya. We traveled through Kenya without our passports, we were detained by the police because we did not have our passports on our person, Just our drivers license. they told us we were picked up in an anti t*******m unit. the whole thing was scary. we were released after 14 hours. over night in a crowded cell with standing water and no place to sit. edit: my husband failed to say we were held hostage at gun point for five hours in prison for 9 hours and interrogated for 2 hours all starting at 10:30pm which we only knew from our one and only dying phone.
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#29
He screwed three Vegas hookers. His wife-to-be-to-not-to-be was very traditional in her views on monogamy.
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#30
Full on s*x with strippers. I went to a bachelor party once where a bar was rented. It started out tame, there was just food and drinks, and then the first wave of strippers came. There was a second floor where the strippers took guys to blow/f**k them. The bachelor must've gone up with at least 3 different girls.
Then another wave of strippers came. The bachelor had fun, but you know who had even more fun? Every married guy there! They were f*****g like it was the apocalypse.
The guy who invited me also had a similar bachelor party at a restaurant, which sadly, happened before I knew him so I missed out. I heard the stories though. There were naked strippers running around everywhere. Not only was the bachelor and his friends banned from having another party there again, they were banned from even eating at the restaurant.
Then another wave of strippers came. The bachelor had fun, but you know who had even more fun? Every married guy there! They were f*****g like it was the apocalypse.
The guy who invited me also had a similar bachelor party at a restaurant, which sadly, happened before I knew him so I missed out. I heard the stories though. There were naked strippers running around everywhere. Not only was the bachelor and his friends banned from having another party there again, they were banned from even eating at the restaurant.
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#31
We were arrested by the Russian police while walking across a military airfield.
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#32
After my best friend's bachelor party, he told all of us he was going to tell his fiancé what happened so there would be no secrets.
Which was fine, but when he did, he left out the part about the s******r we hired to ride in the bus with us and entertain between stops.
So two weeks before the wedding the fiancé was talking to one of the guys that was there. He thought she knew everything so he said something about the bus-s******r.
She went nuts almost called off the wedding because "what else didn't you tell me?" and when they still had the wedding I (best man) was nearly uninvited.
Which was fine, but when he did, he left out the part about the s******r we hired to ride in the bus with us and entertain between stops.
So two weeks before the wedding the fiancé was talking to one of the guys that was there. He thought she knew everything so he said something about the bus-s******r.
She went nuts almost called off the wedding because "what else didn't you tell me?" and when they still had the wedding I (best man) was nearly uninvited.
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#33
No idea if he followed thru with his inquiry, but the groom was asking the s******r just how far she would go. I noped out of that one considering they had invited me halfway into the night, so I showed up completely sober to a basement full of banana peels and weird smells. Fairly certain I was only there for 10 minutes tops. Barely knew the groom as friend-of-a-friend so just really didn't care to stick around.
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#34
The bride kissed me at her wedding a little over a year ago. Within a year she was divorced and dating another guy we went to highschool with. Strangely, I'm persona non grata.
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#35
My brother in law got spanked by a bunch of hookers in a Vegas hotel room that we spent $10,000 on. He got a blow job in the bathroom and pass out in the bathtub. Good times.
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