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50 Hilarious Family Christmas Photos Shared By People Who Still Cringe At Them Today

50 Hilarious Family Christmas Photos Shared By People Who Still Cringe At Them Today

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The holiday season isn’t complete without a few essential things. Baking some gingerbread cookies for Santa. Eating a neverending cascade of delicious meals that leave you barely able to move (unless you’re willing to wobble and roll around). Some fiery drama with your relatives over nothing in particular. And, of course, an awkward family photo that you can proudly put on a Christmas card or hide in the deepest, darkest recesses of your album. 
Weird hairstyles. Strange clothing. Peculiar expressions. Odds are that you’ve got a photo exactly like this, having posed with your relatives for a seasonal snapshot, whether at home or at a professional studio.
Awkwardness is one of those universal things that can make people facepalm and cringe no matter what part of the world they’re from. And we’re serving a healthy dose of that to you today, in the form of awkward family Christmas photos, as shared by the delightfully goofy Awkward Family Photos project, as well as the separate but also incredibly fun r/awkwardfamilyphotos subreddit. Upvote your fave pics, tell us which ones you loved the most, and share your own pics in the comments, dear Pandas.
Bored Panda got in touch with Mike Bender, the co-founder of Awkward Family Photos and a bestselling NYT author. We also reached out to professional photographer Dominic Sberna. You'll find both interviews below.
Hope you’re ready for some secondhand embarrassment! And remember—it’s fun to be silly. So embrace it.

#1 About 7 Months Ago, A Tiny Kitten Showed Up In The Parking Lot At My Office. He Turned Out To Be The Chillest Kitty Ever. Happy Holidays From Me And Little Marshall Meowthers!

About 7 Months Ago, A Tiny Kitten Showed Up In The Parking Lot At My Office. He Turned Out To Be The Chillest Kitty Ever. Happy Holidays From Me And Little Marshall Meowthers!
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The awkward family photo genre is incredibly popular online. And we’ve covered it many a time here on Bored Panda. Once you’ve enjoyed this list, consider checking out some of our best posts about these types of pics here, here, here, and here.

Awkward Family Photos is a full-blown brand. It's so popular that they've even published a board game—Awkward Family Photos Greatest Hits.

Bored Panda asked Mike, the co-founder of the Awkward Family Photos project, a few follow-up questions about awkwardness, letting go of perfectionism, and surviving the holidays.

"I think Christmas photos are particularly awkward because it's more likely that family members are wearing matching sweaters or pajamas and as we know, matchy-matchy=awkward," he told us. And we couldn't agree more. There's something about wearing matching clothing that really ups the weirdness levels in any pic.

#2 So, My Dog Met Santa Claus

So, My Dog Met Santa Claus
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#3 We Took The Same Christmas Photo 18 Years Later

We Took The Same Christmas Photo 18 Years Later
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According to AFP co-founder Mike, the first step to fighting back against perfectionism is "just letting go of any need to look a certain way on camera."

"Hair doesn't have to be combed, outfits don't need to be perfectly ironed. I think a nice candid shot just after everyone has awoken on Christmas morning is perfect. We want to see bedhead, crumpled pajamas, and grumpy faces," he told Bored Panda.

As for his advice on surviving the holidays in one piece, it's very simple. "Don't go home," he said. "But if you do, make sure there is plenty of egg nog."

#4 Sometimes Life Gives You A Puppy And Sometimes It Gives You Socks. Christmas 2016

Sometimes Life Gives You A Puppy And Sometimes It Gives You Socks. Christmas 2016
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#5 It Is A Rare Occasion When We Can Gather All Grown Children, Significant Others, Grandkids And Dogs For A Family Picture. We Did It! Sort Of

It Is A Rare Occasion When We Can Gather All Grown Children, Significant Others, Grandkids And Dogs For A Family Picture. We Did It! Sort Of
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#6 My Friend Has A Fantastic Baby Photo

My Friend Has A Fantastic Baby Photo
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Meanwhile, US photographer Dominic Sberna shared his insights about timeless photos, helping people feel comfortable in front of the camera, and how to know if your pictures are finally 'good enough' and stop working on them.

"I think the awkwardness is what makes them [the photos] stand the test of time! It's amazing to look back at what was in fashion or what was socially acceptable, depending on what someone might be wearing or an expression they might be making," Dominic told Bored Panda.

"Photos are like time capsules in a way and they imprint a memory in us. Whether good or bad, they are the only way to pause a moment in life. So in a way, the cringier the better it is to stand the test of time and be remembered."

#7 It’s Been Just My Son And Me For Years. Every Christmas, We Take An Intentionally Awkward Family Christmas Photo. He’s 18 Now, And We Still Do It. This Was Xmas ‘20

It’s Been Just My Son And Me For Years. Every Christmas, We Take An Intentionally Awkward Family Christmas Photo. He’s 18 Now, And We Still Do It. This Was Xmas ‘20
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#8 It's Been Eleven Years And This Is Still The Best Christmas Photo My Family Has Ever Taken

It's Been Eleven Years And This Is Still The Best Christmas Photo My Family Has Ever Taken
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#9 The Santa Meet And Greet Was On The Same Day As Comic-Con

The Santa Meet And Greet Was On The Same Day As Comic-Con
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The pro photographer noted that there isn't one thing that you could tell someone to help them relax in front of the camera.

"You, the photographer, just have to make them feel comfortable. Conversation and showing them it's okay to be themselves. When someone is comfortable with you, they're more likely to open up and have memorable photos taken," he said, adding that though he himself doesn't do a lot of portrait work, he's seen this happen on numerous occasions.

However, moving past perfectionism can be pretty difficult, according to Dominic. "It all comes down to knowing when to stop editing a photo. This comes with time and from making the mistake of 'perfecting it too far,' he said.

"Everyone has a different threshold for this, but it's just something that is learned with time in my opinion. You know your work, you know what you're wanting out of a shot, so you know when it is finished."

#10 We’ll Have What They’re Having

We’ll Have What They’re Having
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#11 My Friend's Fantastic Christmas Card

My Friend's Fantastic Christmas Card
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#12 My Grandma Got So Smashed At Dinner That She Fell Into The Christmas Tree

My Grandma Got So Smashed At Dinner That She Fell Into The Christmas Tree
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If you don’t cringe even a tiny bit when you see these pics, then congratulations, dear Pandas, you’ve clearly mastered your heart, mind, and spirit.

It takes a strong individual not to feel the secondhand embarrassment emanating from these snapshots of silliness.

However, a bit of cringe, a dash of weirdness, and a dollop of awkwardness shouldn’t stop you from having a good time with your loved ones.

#13 In Yugoslavia We Had Very Scary Santas In The 1980s

In Yugoslavia We Had Very Scary Santas In The 1980s
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#14 Christmas, 1997. My Baby Sister Was Being Held Up By My Dad Through A Hole Cut In The Sheet And He Was Shouting At My Mom To Take The Picture

Christmas, 1997. My Baby Sister Was Being Held Up By My Dad Through A Hole Cut In The Sheet And He Was Shouting At My Mom To Take The Picture
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#15 Interesting Prop For The Christmas Pageant, Johnny

Interesting Prop For The Christmas Pageant, Johnny
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Look, at the end of the day, life is short and your time with your nearest and dearest is precious.

So instead of worrying about what everyone else will think, goof off. Be derpy. Pose for some of the most objectively unaesthetic photos known to human history. There is a lot of beauty in imperfection and learning to let go.

Perfectionism and the idea that you and your family ‘should’ be and look ‘perfect’ can actually backfire. If parents constantly make decisions for their children without letting them decide anything for themselves, they end up being more passive and timid while growing up.

#16 Last Year They Were Inspired By The Elf On The Shelf And Took This Little Gem

Last Year They Were Inspired By The Elf On The Shelf And Took This Little Gem
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#17 My Father And I Christmas Morning Circa 1982. Mom Said He Was Probably Hung Over

My Father And I Christmas Morning Circa 1982. Mom Said He Was Probably Hung Over
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#18 Every Year I Send Out A Poorly Photoshopped Christmas Card That Reminds People Im Single

Every Year I Send Out A Poorly Photoshopped Christmas Card That Reminds People Im Single
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Slight discomfort and mild embarrassment are inevitable parts of life. But shielding your kids from these things all the time makes them unprepared to face them when they move out. Resilience is necessary when you’re an adult, and you won’t develop it nearly as well if someone is always making the decisions for you. E.g. what to wear, what (not) to do.

That’s on top of the stress that comes from trying to create an illusion of ‘perfection’ in one’s life. What you see on social media is (most often) far from reality.

Content creators might seem like they have it all, but it’s all a carefully-crafted image. Nobody’s family life is ‘perfect.’ Nearly everyone deals with more or less the same issues and frustrations. Just on a different scale.

#19 We Played A Game Where The Kids Had To Decorate One Of Their Parents Like A Christmas Tree

We Played A Game Where The Kids Had To Decorate One Of Their Parents Like A Christmas Tree
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#20 I Was Five And My Brother Was 18 Months Old And He Thought Candles Were Probably Something Interesting To Eat

I Was Five And My Brother Was 18 Months Old And He Thought Candles Were Probably Something Interesting To Eat
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