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“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Travel,CuriositiesJUN 12, 2023

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US

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As an American who has lived in Europe for several years now, there are plenty of things I sometimes miss about back home. Screens on windows are a huge blessing during mosquito season, and it’s rare when I find a cold beverage served at a temperature that I would consider suitable. (With lots of ice! Please!) But as it turns out, plenty of the things Americans cherish, or simply consider normal, seem to bother others from around the world.
Reddit users have been discussing some of these American quirks that foreign visitors tend to complain about, so we’ve gathered some of their thoughts below. Enjoy learning about these cultural differences, whether you’re from the US or not, and keep reading to find conversations with Karen Simmons from offMetro and King Siu from Solo Traveler!

#1

How fat the cops are.
My friend's parents were in from Spain and his father was mystified how most of the NYPD could chase someone if they cannot even see their feet.
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73points

#2

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Wearing shoes in the house. I never thought twice about this until I dated a Russian guy. His family was literally disgusted that anyone would dare wear shoes inside their house. Where I grew up, it’s considered weird to take your shoes off inside someone else’s house. It’s basically the equivalent of walking in and putting on your pajamas. I have to say though, I no longer allow anyone to wear shoes in my house.
69points

To gain more insight on this topic, we reached out to Karen Simmons, Editor in Chief of the travel blog offMetro, to hear her and her team’s thoughts on what American quirks stand out to foreign tourists. Some examples Karen shared that are commonly brought up are: “the large portion sizes and the amount of sugar and fat in the food; the gaps in the bathroom stalls and the lack of bidets; the tipping culture and the low minimum wage for servers; too much advertising everywhere; the high drinking age and the strict ID checks; patriotism and the abundance of flags; and the small talk and the excessive politeness.”

“We, as Americans, naturally have mixed feelings about these things,” Karen noted, speaking on behalf of her team. “Some of them we agree with, some of them we don’t. We like the diversity and friendliness of American culture, but we don't like the excessive sugar and fatty foods. We don’t mind the tipping culture or the advertisements, but we respect that other countries do things differently. We think every country has its pros and cons, and it’s interesting to learn from other perspectives.”

#3

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Not having sales tax listed on the price tag for stuff.
(Obviously, I agree with them. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could know the actual amount you’ll need to pay. But I’ve lived my whole life with this as the way things are, it never occurs to me to complain.)
64points

#4

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
The “how’s it going?” greeting.
Like, yes, I get it, in your culture nobody asks that question unless they’re actually inquiring after your well being. But just like Americans should make it a point to learn the customs of MyCountry before visiting - even if they don’t understand or even agree with them - people should make it a point to get to know and learn our customs before coming here. And in the US, we will ask, “how’s it going?” as a general greeting without expecting an in depth answer, because it serves as an easy way to start a conversation.
No, that does not make us stupid, or fake, or bad, or wrong. These are our customs. It’s poor form to go to another country and interpret their customs in bad faith.
61points

Karen was also kind enough to share some things that her team actually thinks the United States does well. First, she noted the national parks and the public land system. “The US has a vast and diverse network of protected natural areas that offer recreation, education, and conservation opportunities for millions of visitors and wildlife,” Karen explained. “The US also has a strong culture of outdoor exploration and adventure that encourages people to appreciate and respect nature.”

Next, she pointed out the accessibility of travel to and within the US. “The US has a robust and efficient transportation infrastructure that connects different regions and attractions within the country,” Karen added. “The US also has various programs and policies to reduce barriers and enhance security for international travelers, such as the Visa Waiver Program, Global Entry, and Trusted Traveler Programs.”

#5

Here’s something my German FIL complains about: window screens.
You know, the things that keep the bugs out? He is convinced that they keep the air from circulating. Ummmm, they don’t, and I don’t like mosquitoes, so we keep the screens down.
58points

#6

Americans saying they’re from the country despite not speaking the language, not having the citizenship and all their knowledge comes from heavily bastardised and harmful stereotypes. Oh and they’ve lived in the US for at least 4 generations.
Looking at you plastic paddies and sepporonis
56points

Customer service and hospitality of the travel industry are two more things the United States certainly does well. “The US has a high standard of quality and professionalism in its hotels, restaurants, attractions, and other tourism-related businesses,” Karen continued. “As mentioned above, the US also has a culture of tipping and rewarding good service, which motivates the staff to provide excellent customer satisfaction.”

Finally, the travel expert pointed out the innovation and entrepreneurship of the travel sector. “The US is a leader in developing new products, services, technologies, and experiences that cater to the changing needs of travelers,” Karen explained. “The US also has a strong spirit of entrepreneurship that encourages new ventures, partnerships, and collaborations in the tourism industry.”

#7

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
That when you pay at a restaurant, the server takes your card in the back, rather than bringing a machine to you and swiping in front of you.
My father in law is always like "Where are they taking my card? I can't see them, they are stealing my information!!"
53points

#8

Having to tip
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53points

And when it comes to what Americans might find challenging when visiting other countries, Karin says the lack of personal space and privacy might be tricky, depending on the country visited of course. “Americans are used to having a lot of space and being able to do what they want without being bothered or judged by others,” she explained. “In some countries, especially in crowded cities or rural areas, people may live in close quarters, share facilities, or be more curious and intrusive about strangers’ lives. Americans may feel annoyed by this.”

The US also has vast food and drink options that may not be available everywhere. “Americans are accustomed to having a wide variety of food and drink choices, especially fast food, snacks, and soft drinks,” Karen noted. “They may also have specific dietary preferences that are not common or well-known in other countries. In some countries, the food may be too spicy, bland, exotic, or unfamiliar for Americans’ tastes.”

#9

Long-distance driving. I had relatives from Eastern Europe visit a few years ago, and we drove them from New Jersey down to DC for a weekend visit. When we got back, they commented that it was such a long drive, easily the longest that they’d ever taken by car. Then I showed them a map of the US and how far we’d driven versus the size of the rest of the country. Their heads nearly exploded.
53points

#10

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
According to every middle easterner, Israeli, and Australian I've met, we're all fake because we're always nice and smiling even when we don't mean it.
Best retort I heard was when my Israeli friend said this to my American friend and my American friend immediately responded "would you rather I be mean to you?"
Apparently we're "too nice" compared to other peoples.
51points

Language barriers and cultural differences may also be challenging for American travelers. “Americans may not speak or understand the local language or dialect in other countries, which can make communication difficult or frustrating,” Karen says. “They may also encounter different customs, norms, values, and etiquette that they are not aware of or used to. They may unintentionally offend or disrespect someone by doing something that is considered rude or inappropriate in their culture.”

#11

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Having tended bar on the beach in Florida (many years ago), the biggest complaint is that our money is confusing. The bills are all the same color and our coin sizes don’t relate in size to their value.
51points

#12

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
According to foreigners we're really missing out on Kinder Eggs
48points

American travelers must also be prepared for the different standards of service and quality they may experience in other places. “Americans are used to receiving fast, efficient, and friendly service in most places they go, such as restaurants, hotels, shops, and attractions,” the travel expert says. “They may also expect high standards of quality and cleanliness in the products and facilities they use. In some countries, the service may be slower, less attentive, or more formal than Americans prefer.”

If you’d like to gain more travel insight from Karen and the whole team at offMetro, be sure to visit their site right here!

#13

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
* Sweetness of food is an issue. High fructose corn syrup is in so many things that Americans no longer notice the sweetness. Other people are freaked out by sweet grocery store bread.
* Questions about occupation or religion are considered personal and rude when Americans consider them small talk.
* Many visitors don't want to eat on the go.
* They think men wearing board shorts or other long, loose swimwear is weird.
48points

#14

Oh f**k.. living close to natural parks for a few years left me dumbfounded. A lot of middle eastern and Asian vacationers would lose their minds when park rangers would tell them to keep off certain areas.
Either they didn’t understand that our body weight was damaging historic ground or that the oils we produce can damage stone structures or they didn’t care… unfortunately I met many that didn’t care and had the mentality of “enjoy it today because it will be gone someday in the future.”
Also, we can’t control the wild life in nature preserves. Watching people approach black bears was always crazy to see. Then they get mad when the bear gets aggressive and they get fined.
44points

We also reached out to Canadian travel expert King Siu, of Solo Traveler, to hear his thoughts on this topic. King was kind enough to provide plenty of examples of things foreign travelers might be struck by when visiting the United States. First, he noted prices that don't include sales tax. "I didn't think it was that big of a deal until I lived abroad and realized how strange and inconvenient it was that we only add the tax on after the sale," King shared. "I'm still hoping for a world where the price I see is the price I pay."

Wearing shoes inside is another typical American behavior that King says is rare in other parts of the world. "Even in Canada, where we often behave similarly to the U.S., I've found the majority of Canadians will not wear their shoes in the house, so that's what I'm used to as well."

#15

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
The sheer size of the US. Someone from abroad asked me about taking a road trip from LA to Vegas, the Grand Canyon, and maybe Florida, and they only had a few days to do it. They didn’t understand the massive size of the country.
41points

#16

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Root Beer. I have seen foreigners become almost angry we drink the stuff. I know the flavor is common in medicines in Europe, but to many Americans, Fanta tastes like medicine. Let us like our weird soda flavor.
Edited to add: the medicine I'm referring to is liquid preparations of Tylenol and Motrin meant for children. Not liquid medicine meant for adults.
37points

Next, King mentioned the notorious ice in drinks. "A common question I've been asked by my foreign friends who visit the US is why so much ice is put in their sodas, and similarly my American friends will complain about the lack of ice in their drinks when they're abroad," he shared. (Guilty! I just love ice!)

"It's always been quite comical for me to hear both sides," King added. "I'm not terribly bothered either way as long as my drink is cold, but it does seem to be a passionate topic for many. I feel the problem stems from the fact that outside of the U.S., it's not as common to have unlimited refills of drinks, and therefore you wouldn't want to feel like you were given a glass full of ice so that they could cheat you and not give you as much soda. Whereas Americans are expecting unlimited refills, so they're not concerned about how much space is being taken up by ice as they can always ask for more."

#17

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
Friendly wait staff. This seems to freak out our European visitors.
32points

#18

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
School buses stopping traffic.
"Why don't you just teach your children not to run out into traffic?"
30points

Tipping culture and customer service are two more things that the United States tends to do differently than the rest of the world. "[Tipping culture] is generally very confusing for people from other countries," King says. "Tipping either doesn't exist or isn't as commonly expected as it is in the US. I've found that it's getting so complicated these days that I'm even confused at times about who needs to be tipped. So, I'm not surprised when foreign visitors complain about the confusing state of tipping in the US."

"Strange as it is to hear, foreign visitors often complain about getting too much customer service," the travel expert continued. "No one does customer service better than Americans, and all this attention, smiling, and politeness can unnerve visitors who aren't accustomed to so much attention. I personally love good customer service, but I can totally see how it might freak someone out." Now that I've lived in countries where it's extremely rare to even get a greeting from grocery store employees, I can see how this is odd too. But I have to admit, I miss my weekly chats with Trader Joe's workers!

#19

“Toilets Have Too Much Water In Them”: 30 Things That People From Other Countries Find Bizarre When Visiting The US
I’ve seen plenty of complaints online of people saying Americans are too loud and too friendly!
27points

#20

Air conditioning, and especially ceiling fans.
Can't stand the heat, can't stand ways to beat the heat.
27points

"Foreign visitors are still confused as to why the US hasn't joined the rest of the world on the metric system," King continued, adding that most Canadians actually don't care whether or not the US converts, as they've "always lived in a world where both metric and imperial measurements exist."

Apparently, TVs in restaurants are a distinctly American thing as well. "This is something I've heard mostly from Europeans, as it's not as common for them to have TVs in their restaurants," King says. "However, they've remarked that Americans will cover every wall with them. I must say that I didn't think this was weird until they pointed this out. I do, however, enjoy the convenience of always knowing the score when I'm out without having to check my phone."

And many foreign visitors are struck by the antiquated payment technology in the US. "[They're] often confused when paying their bill at a restaurant with a credit card that they have to manually sign the bill," King says. "Outside of the US, it's more common for the staff to bring a payment terminal to you that completes the payment transaction with a PIN instead of a manual signature."

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