Always Ask Before You Assume The Way Someone Feels

Don't ever assume someone is depressed or lonely just because they work alone at home.

Some people (like me) keep to theirselves, which is their nature, and they're perfectly fine with it.

I didn't grow up with siblings close in age. I didn't grow up with the desire to be popular or be surrounded by people 24/7.
You know what made me happy? Playing in my room and looking out the window.
You know what makes me happy now? Working in my room and looking out the window. Add my little girl, some music and some caffeine to the mix.

Perfect. Just the way I like it. I LOVE ALONE TIME, AND I ALWAYS HAVE. Everyone's preferences are different.

Don't ever assume that someone is depressed or lonely just because they've gained a few pounds.

Some people (like me) go through periods of time where they thoroughly enjoy their favorite foods without self-judgement, and they're perfectly fine with it.

I didn't grow up on a strict diet. I didn't grow up trying to look like skin and bones.
You know how I ate? I ate well. My dad was the most amazing gourmet chef I had ever known.
You know how picky I am now? Not the least bit. I'll try anything. I may not always eat the healthiest, but I have knowledge on how to take care of my own body.

Perfect. Just the way I like it. I LOVE FOOD, AND I ALWAYS HAVE. Everyone's body is different.

You know what's depressing?
Not having someone who listens.
Not having someone to talk to.
Not feeling loved.

But guess what? I have all three.
So I'm perfectly fine.

Always, always ask before you assume that someone is not okay.