hello. I (F14) have a close online friend whom I consider my best friend. She (F13) recently kicked this rude guy out of her life, due to him being a narcissistic and controlling individual.
She found a guy she has a crush on, but he is 16. I understand the age gap is not pedophilic, but I think there’s a heavy difference between the maturity of a 13 year old and a 16 year old. I’m just worried, because this person can drive and she is just hitting puberty.
I feel like the AH for stating this, because she seemed somewhat upset. I’m worried for her, and really hope she does find someone who is a healthy and not too over her age. She states it’s “okay” because it’s just a crush, but it’s still wrong in my eyes.
I completely want the truth, as I’m really torn on this. We didn’t argue or anything, but I do think I upset her a little bit. AITA?