#1
We make dozens of choices every day based on our likes and dislikes, and we don't even know that we do it as it has been so ingrained in us that it's almost habitual. From the food we eat to the clothes we pick, it is all determined by whether we like it or not, but where does it all stem from?
Well, Evaluative Conditioning (EC) research shows that people learn their likes and dislikes due to the co-occurrence of stimuli in the environment. It has also been observed that conditioning can engender a change in the hedonic evaluation of stimuli, leading to the formation of preferences (likes and dislikes), which profoundly guide behavior and choice.
#5
I used to put on a full face of makeup EVERY SINGLE DAY... Then COVID hit, and since I work in healthcare, I had to wear full PPE (gown, mask, shield) every day for 8 hours. I quit wearing everything but eyebrow pencil and a little mascara. Now I'm at a point where I *only* wear full face for REALLY special events, because tbh, I don't care what people think about how I look anymore.
#6
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To put it in simple terms, preferences profoundly influence decision-making and are often acquired through experience. However, new experiences also have the power to alter long-term preferences. It's no wonder that people start disliking certain things after they grow up. Tom Vanderbilt portrays these likes quite beautifully in his book You May Also Like.
He examines the broad collection of likes and dislikes that make up “taste” and how they come to be. Sometimes, people just prefer the familiar. Sometimes, they like what their friends like. Sometimes, they pretend to like movies they never really watch or music they don’t actually listen to. A lot of the time, they can’t say why they like something; they just know that they do.
#9
Experimental psychologists have argued that essentialism underlies our understanding of the physical and social worlds. Developmental and cross-cultural psychologists have proposed that it is instinctive and universal. We are natural-born essentialists.
However, Paul Bloom argues in his book How Pleasure Works: The New Science of Why We Like What We Like, "I propose that this essentialism not only influences our understanding of the world, it also shapes our experience, including our pleasures." He believes that it also shapes why we like what we like.
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While we may have developed these likes, they can slowly turn into dislikes with age. Why, might you ask? Well, we just evolve with life experiences, often due to changes in physical abilities, priorities, and a desire for stability. Due to this, we find less appeal in things that once excited us, like loud music, late nights, or activities requiring high energy levels.
In fact, it has been observed that you become more introverted as you age. You don't want to go out as much or meet a lot of new people and go to parties. You also might have more negative feelings about meeting new people as you age.
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Well, next time you don't feel like socializing, blame it on age. So, what did you make of the list? We are sure you were able to relate to quite a few of these things. Go on then, share which ones were these. Also, if our list might have missed out on a few, feel free to write them down in the comments!
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