You can look at life as an unending chain of lessons. Some of them we learn incredibly quickly. Others might take dozens of mistakes for us to finally grasp their significance. Hindsight is 20/20 and it’s often hard not to blame your past self for not foreseeing all the consequences of your actions. But that’s life for you. And unless you’ve got a time machine hidden somewhere, all that’s left is either to embrace the hard-won lessons and teach others about them, or to live in regret.
One internet user, u/IndianaC0NES, went viral on the r/AskReddit online community after asking everyone about the important lessons that they had learned the hard way. Many folks were happy to share their wisdom about money, relationships, and health, so that others might avoid the same mistakes that they made. Read on for their advice and upvote the tips that you found the most helpful.
#22

Money doesn’t exist until the deposit hits your bank account and business promises mean nothing until legal documents are signed
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145points
#24

Don’t marry someone with mental illness that refuses treatment.
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135points
#25

Do not spend like there’s no tomorrow. Tomorrow will come and it won’t be pretty.
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132points
#26
Don't ignore red flags. Don't be afraid to get help for dealing with an abusive partner. Don't be afraid to walk away.
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132points
#27

WEAR A HELMET
It's an easy safety precaution you can take when rollerblading, biking, skateboarding, scootering etc. And it can literally save your life
Went all through the 90's thinking helmets were lame... Fell while rollerblading in my 30's and got a subdural hematoma, I wasn't going fast but the momentum from how I fell just slammed my head into concrete.
HELMETS SAVE LIVESSSS
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125points
#29

There’s always other jobs out there. Don’t stay in a s****y one just cuz you think no one else would hire you.
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121points
#30

You are not your emotions. You are an awareness who observes them.
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120points





