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40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For

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Being a grown-up is not just about taking care of yourself; it's also about considering how your actions affect the people around you. I like to think of it as juggling heavy dumbbells while riding a broken unicycle on a weak tightrope above a savage fire. Fun, right?
To learn which parts of this 'performance' people find the hardest, Redditor u/Frequent-Pilot5243 recently made a post on the platform, asking other users the following question: "What is an adult problem nobody prepared you for?" Turns out, a lot. From personal finance to relationships, continue scrolling to check out some of the most popular answers.

#1

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Handling the decline and death of your parents
371points

#2

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
$5K is a lot to owe, but not a lot to have.
370points

We managed to get in contact with u/Frequent-Pilot5243 and they were kind enough to have a little chat with us about their viral post.

"It indeed is a good question and people replied with a lot of honesty," the Redditor told Bored Panda

"As much as I would like to take the credit this isn't an original post. It is a repost; somebody had asked this question a year or year and a half ago."

#3

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Having to make dinner every. F***ing. Day.
368points

#4

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Life is all about maintenance. Your body, your house, your relationships, everything requires constant never ending maintenance.
362points

#5

Didn't know that other adults have the emotional intelligence of teenagers and its almost impossible to deal with logically
340points

Indeed, even we covered a thread that virtually asks the same question.

But the answers that this one has received make it a totally new discussion.

"I didn't expect it to blow up like this," u/Frequent-Pilot5243 said.

But some of these issues probably wouldn't even arise if paid more attention to their roots. Approximately 3 in 4 adult or young adult children who experienced a mental health challenge indicated at least some of the challenges occurred before the age of 18, and approximately half of them said that their parents never sought treatment for them, while approximately three quarters said that they wished their parents had done so.

Of these folks, approximately 67% said it was because they would not have suffered so much during their teenage years, approximately 66% said that they would be better equipped to handle their current problems, and approximately 64% said it would have better prepared them for adulthood.

So problems begin early on in our personal journeys. “Transitioning into adulthood is enough of a struggle. No one should have to battle their mental health at the same time,” Debbie Thomas, EdD, APRN, based in Louisville, Kentucky, explained the numbers in a statement.

If only we were better at noticing them...

#6

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Almost all of your friends wont be life long. No one really talks about how common it is to lose touch with people or grow apart. Most of your life will be spent either making new friends while losing old ones or being alone.
331points

#7

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
The more life you’ve lived, the faster time seems to go.
323points

#8

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
That turning down the radio, when you are lost in a neighborhood helps you see better.
321points

#9

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
How damned tired you are all the time.
318points

#10

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
How easy it is to feel stuck in a bad situation (job, relationship, etc) just because the cost and effort of getting out can seem daunting. And sometimes you just have to accept a figurative bowl full of s**t because you can't afford to blow up your life.
281points

#11

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
You can stay up as late as you want. But you shouldn't
Report
271points

#12

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
How prevalent depression, anxiety, and suicide ideation is. At this point I think every adult has been through it at some point in their lives.
266points

#13

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Lack of purpose.
All your young life you are given purpose of passing exams and learning, then all of a sudden you are thrown into the world and told to find your own meaning.
261points

#14

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
The kitchen is always dirty. You’ll clean it at least three times every day.
256points

#15

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Figuring out what makes you happy. Everyone keeps trying to get you to do things you're good at, or that makes you money, but never to pursue what you enjoy
249points

#16

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Working full time, but still not being able to afford the basic necessities of life.
243points

#17

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Adult life being basically a permanent to-do list that just keeps on getting bigger and bigger
242points

#18

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Without a support system, your mental illnesses alone can render you homeless.
233points

#19

40 Adult Problems Nobody Prepared You For
Daughter with behavioral and mental issues. Then she got pregnant at 16. It was a roller coaster ride…very trying and about kicked my [butt].
My husband had esophageal cancer and then 9 years later had 14 brain lesions. Both times his survival rate was low, but he’s still here.
Feel like I’ve been in survival mode for years and years. I’m kinda tired now.
232points

#20

That I can horrifically f**k my neck up just by sleeping at a funny angle
231points
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